I mean i feel too fake for the first but too awkward for the other
Bet... i think imma try these cross your fingers lpl
I actually never refuse cuz im like a horndog lmao but he is too as in we look at and watch girls and couples... he expresses being very sexual but NEVER EVER initiates having sex w me... and when we do... like dont get me wrong... its fuvking great... but its also the same way everytime... We only fuck ya know like no actual emotions or even kisses nice caresses or anything and he always has me on top of him
Ok. Different situation all together. Talk to him. It’s your only choice. Or watch a movie with a great love scene and say let’s do that as the two of you are watching it. But I’d go the talking route. Just ask why don’t you ever initiate sex? Tell him you like someone to kiss your neck or whatever and say you want to do a new position.
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Or just grab his cock and start kissing him. That's game over for almost any situation to lead to sex. But men like variety too, so try not to get too predictable with just one way of initiating ; mix it up and treat every love making session as if it's your first (or last!)
We have done this as well... he says he has been rejected too many times and that ill have to reach over and grab his dick but I feel like way awkward and have been rejected a lot myself
It's going to be hopeless if neither of you lose that fear of rejection. I understand fear of rejection when you're not in a relationship, but when you're already together, what's the fear?
Personally mine stems from my previous relationship where my ex was my master Personally mine stems from my previous relationship where my ex Made me feel unattractive and unwantedAnd I know his ex slept with everybody else instead of him too but either way like I've been putting myself out there like I parade around naked all the time
I'm sorry for both of you. I think you're doing the right thing by being confident and being naked around him. That might make him more comfortable. Try not to push it too hard, and be patient, remembering he also went through something terrible
My ex also fucked everyone else, although she did fuck me too, but I understand feeling undesirable and lousy about sex afterwards
Men in their 30s are usualy in-between.Some like it straight up, others are not ready for that yet.Do you know his "thing"? His fantasy?Some men go crazy on the thought of a blowjob. ... so play with ur lips... suck a lollipop in front of em.Other men are "ass"-men... so put on tight jeans... twerk... give him a lapdanceOther men have hair-fetish... blowdry ur and play with your hair... in front of himOther men love feet... get urself those stilletto's and put nailpolish...Just find his poison and use it anytime u want him... ihhihihihhihiAnd when u get into bed, don't just "give" him everything he wants without getting what you want also.So if he likes the blowjob... well do 69.If he likes the hair... straddle him like a cowgirl, but with your back turned to him, so he can reach and play with your hair while you straddle himLast thing you want to do is to make it a "routine" if he's not so horny. Switch things a bit. Hell... put on other way of makeup. Put on a wig... play dress-up... just dont go the standard "missionary fuck and goodnight" rounds.Maybe he's bored.Well i hope i gave you some interesting ideas.
Possibly... the only kink I've found tho is his cousin...
oh.So he has eyes on someone else?Then i think the question would be not exactly "how to tell your boyfriend to make love" but "how to win ur boyfriend interest/heart back".Shouldn't it?I'm not sure it's a road you want to dig into.It wouldn't be fair for u to have to "fight" to get someone else out of ur boyfriend's heart.I'm at a loss here... I'll shut up.
Ahhh ok ok y'all are convincing me
glad to help
Seriously tho like do I change into something first
Well damn then I'd wanna fucm me too lmao hopefully it works lol
I'd like you to fuck me really hard*
I like how you say that she's fat. They are already dating. If he felt she was fat and unattractive then they probably wouldn't be dating.
Umm I weigh 120
And i know im cute
@calikitty he's probably fat and unattractive himself. I wouldn't pay no mind to him. Gotta put others down to make himself feel better
I didn't say she's fat. I'm saying that IF she was, that could be a possible explanation. And you'd be surprised how many men stay in relationships with women who become unattractive to them later on just because society makes them feel guilty for wanting someone attractive. The only way you get "you're fat" out of that is if you're intentionally looking for something to be offended by.
Like u legit put ur fat
"either you're fat, or his testosterone levels are low"Its presented as an alternate possibility, not a fact. You need to go back to school to elementary school to take a few 4rth grade reading comprehension classes.
Yes but most of the time he gives me A quick kiss and pulls back
oh yeah I'd say he's preoccupied with something and that will not get resolved until it is resolved or else another thing takes its place-- and if it is unresolved and replaced that will also likely result in... not-goodness I recommend 5 dry grams and as much sympathy and care as you can manage. I think your man needs an emotional blowjob, a metaphysical love making if you will
Ok imma tey
Lmao Like how to even feel secure just randomly saying the plugs in
Why would you not feel secure about saying it?
😅😅 I'm awkward and do not pull off "sexy" very well lmao
Ah OK, I understand. Sorry I can't be more help.
Ahh i feel so awkward doing that!!
You will like the results,... 😀
It will be awkward only first time...
I don't know about that normally when I try it that route he just chuckles
Maybe, he is not used to this or does not understand what it means? Or thinks that you are not serious?I like when my girlfriend tells me something like that and this way...
Possibly... I don't know tho he lowkey seems proud and self assured about sex
Yes, only one part, but rest of it could be new to him...
Thats legit what he said🤣🤣 But like that I don't just look stupid and he actually wants Me Too!
How do i know lmao
Or the classic line from "Top Gun": "Take me now or lose me forever."
Haha let's do top gun 🤗😊🤣
So are Imature 24-year-old little boys who can't understand that when the grownups are talking we like to be civilized but here you are commenting on my feed anyway
Hi. Do you know what a "logical fallacy" is?
Gtfo if ur just gonna troll asshat this feed isn't for virgins🤷🏽♀️
So, a logical fallacy, in this case, the classic "ad hominem" one which you just employed, essentially negates anything the person who is using it has to say, pretty much about anything. You can read more about them on Wikipedia; I can't link it for you because I'm not a high enough XP level yet. I'm sure a quick Google search will be able to help you out. Good luck!
@Posterboy56 there's nothing wrong with the term "making love" you ignorant dolt, grow up little boy.
@lanadelrey25 Well, yes there is-- it's nonsense. Love is love, and an emotion. Sex is sex, and is a physical act. Emotions are emotions, and physical acts are physical acts. A punch is not the same as anger, nor do they even have to be related. Sex is not the same as love, nor do they even have to be related (and usually aren't). Dolt.
sex can have an emotional bond you cad.
@lanadelrey25 ... Again, you seem to be confusing a physical act with an emotion. I didn't say that sex can't be done with love-- I said that they are not the same thing, because they aren't. Calling a pizza a "joy," because I really, REALLY like eating pizza and eating pizza gives me joy, isn't rational or logical; pizza is pizza. Joy is joy. Love is not sex. Sex is not love. They are often not even related, and they fact that they CAN be does not mean that "making love" is a logical term for "fucking/getting fucked." Grow up little girl.
Ok personally LITTLE BOY there's a difference between making love and getting fucked one is i love you the other is spank me and pull my hair... i asked about making love not getting fucked... lemme guess IF ur not a Virgin, are you just sticking to one kind? Ohh there's a whole new world when u switch things up
Was that supposed to be English? You're highly entertaining. Please, continue.
Wow...😂😅 i think i may be a sub lmao
I have tho and he makes no moves
Then he must be gay or really insecure about his body.
He says its because he's been rejected so much he just doesn't make any moves ever
But when we do he seems to enjoy himself
Something is amiss.
Thats what I'm worried about
Just like that huh?
Just like that
I try but I feel so awkward
So do I, but I just do it anyway.
I’ve done a lot of awkward shit in my life so far, so nothing can stop me anymore.
Lol I'm barely ok w my looks
So am I.
Lol well she is def brave
Haha well she's never been shy about what she wants in love, sex, or life.
She can be very blunt but somehow has a way of still coming off very sweet
Ahh that's so awkwarf tho!!
try it, in a soft whisper