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  • You can say "you speeky English? I want pleasuring you naked" --- just kidding. Seriously, though, if you feel that being direct by literally asking him too be romantically sexual with you deprives the moment of creative sensual intrigue, certain culinary hints can establish the setting, (main course high in protein in a comfort food presentation, no tofu or weatgrass allowed!!!--- with candles burning and death by chocolate cake for desert and a shared song eligible too become " your song" playing too signify something special and intimately erotic in store for the both of you, playing on tje sterio, proceed using whatever shared experiences signify cuddling and intercourse, assisting each other in changing into your birthday suits, too progressively lead that special person in your life, too engagement of that desired outcome. Just putting itbout there, in most romantic comedies, something usually goes catastrophically wrong at this point in the film, so if your luck is not reassuringly regular in good experiences for you lately, than you can avoid tempting fate with the direct approach. Nude, handling your privates in a lewd, sexually provocative manner usually gets the point across without actually having too say "let's fuck."

    • I mean i feel too fake for the first but too awkward for the other

    • most guys are simple really. just texting or saying something to him like. "do you wanna fool around" or "do you wanna go make love" or "do you wanna go fuck" will often do the trick. however physically options work also.
    • like leaving a trail of clothing you removed for him to find. which leads to you standing, sitting, kneeing or laying down. so without words he knows what you want from him.
    • walking into the room in just your underwear, lingerie, robe or towel. to then removing it and tossing over at him should spark interest.
    • if couples live together they tend to see each other naked. at some point in their daily routine however over time. they can become numb to it as it becomes mundane to them. so to spark sexual interest they need to spice things up.
    How do you tell your boyfriend you want to make love?How do you tell your boyfriend you want to make love?

    • Bet... i think imma try these cross your fingers lpl

    • Any luck?

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  • Listen, by your question I’m guessing this is more about your anxiety or self esteem with your boyfriend more than the actual physical actions to get him in the mood... is that right? If so, he’s with you for a reason, he’s into you or loves you. So, i can see him just giving you a kiss in reply if you don’t normally initiate. Even so, it’s not a bad thing, you need to be more direct or more touchy/feely. He’s not likely to reject you and if he does, nothing wrong with that... I’m sure you’ve told him more than once you weren’t in the mood but still love him.

    • I actually never refuse cuz im like a horndog lmao but he is too as in we look at and watch girls and couples... he expresses being very sexual but NEVER EVER initiates having sex w me... and when we do... like dont get me wrong... its fuvking great... but its also the same way everytime... We only fuck ya know like no actual emotions or even kisses nice caresses or anything and he always has me on top of him

    • Ok. Different situation all together. Talk to him. It’s your only choice. Or watch a movie with a great love scene and say let’s do that as the two of you are watching it. But I’d go the talking route. Just ask why don’t you ever initiate sex? Tell him you like someone to kiss your neck or whatever and say you want to do a new position.

  • I've heard that some women just use their actions/body language to show they want to do it instead of being vocal. Which does seem easier if you can't say it. One way is you could just carefully take his hand and lead him to the bedroom. Affection at the start also works too. But there's lots of other ways and it depends on how long you've been with them.

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  • Many different ways. Walking out naked in front of him. Asking him to "help" me while I shower. Wearing lingerie. Blindfolding him. Sitting in his lap. Kissing him. Stripping him. Arouse him in anyway I can. Men generally don't need much stimulation.

  • Go sit on his lap and start kissing him. 60% chance that he'll take over from there and you'll end up having sex, but if he doesn't start to escalate right away, then you can do so. Tell him that you've been thinking about his hands and mouth on your body all day. Take his hand and put it on your boob, and put your hand on top of his and squeeze.

    If he can't figure it out from there, he's defective, and you need to take him back and get a new one.

  • By laying next to him in bed after getting out of the shower. Naked and still slightly damp.
    Or I’d just tell him. Or I’d grab at his dick and rub on it with my hand or ass.

  • Start with a makeout session and strip eachother as we roll around. Then consent with brief eye contact. Rub his dick against your clit. And when he says “fck i want you so bad.” Then slide it in and whimper into his ear “make love to me”

  • What? You got naked in front of him and no moves from his part? When you've hinted it so much and still nothing happened, I think all that's left is for you to sit down and have a little talk with him. Once he knows he has your permission, he might become bolder and initiate more

    • We have done this as well... he says he has been rejected too many times and that ill have to reach over and grab his dick but I feel like way awkward and have been rejected a lot myself

    • It's going to be hopeless if neither of you lose that fear of rejection. I understand fear of rejection when you're not in a relationship, but when you're already together, what's the fear?

    • Personally mine stems from my previous relationship where my ex was my master Personally mine stems from my previous relationship where my ex Made me feel unattractive and unwantedAnd I know his ex slept with everybody else instead of him too but either way like I've been putting myself out there like I parade around naked all the time

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  • I think the cuddling and kissing generally gets the point across!

  • have you tried pouncing the man in an aggressive display of affection? works every time for me

    • Yes but most of the time he gives me A quick kiss and pulls back

    • oh yeah I'd say he's preoccupied with something and that will not get resolved until it is resolved or else another thing takes its place-- and if it is unresolved and replaced that will also likely result in... not-goodness I recommend 5 dry grams and as much sympathy and care as you can manage. I think your man needs an emotional blowjob, a metaphysical love making if you will

    • Ok imma tey

  • I don't know never had one of those just girlfriend's and I just take her in my arms hood get firmly but gently look her in the eyes as I caress her back arms as I lightly kiss her lips intensifying the kiss slowly whispering in her ear softly tenderly blank blank blank you and feel her blood warms as we make our way to died an evening of making passionate love, that's one way got many more for women only

  • Tell him you want sex. Its a turn on to hear it straight up. I've gotten girls by verbally telling them in no uncertain terms I was interested... because no body does it anymore... so you are special for doing something girls/guys want to hear but nobody does.

  • I get naked.

    • I try but I feel so awkward

    • So do I, but I just do it anyway.

    • I’ve done a lot of awkward shit in my life so far, so nothing can stop me anymore.

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  • When you have the place all to yourself, you light some candles throughout the house, turn all the lights out. Then put on some nice lingerie. Get some wine, whipped cream and strawberries. Put some mood music on. Greet him at the door in your lingerie, run a finger over your nipples, maybe one down by your kitty and then kiss him deeply with tongue. Blow in his ear and tell him you want to make love like it’s the last day on earth. If that doesn’t do the trick, I don’t know what would...

  • "Fuck me!" should work nicely.

    • Or the classic line from "Top Gun": "Take me now or lose me forever."

    • Haha let's do top gun 🤗😊🤣

  • Stroke his thigh

  • That is the easiest thing for a woman to do or show a man. It doesn't work the same for men on woman.

  • My wife usually starts kissing and cuddling me, touching me in all the different places. Its not really that hard to figure it out.

  • All the suggestions here are solid. The thing to bear in mind is actually trying different approaches and seeing which gets the strongest response from him.
    Many guys enjoy the direct approach of looking him in the eyes and saying "fuck me", "I want your cock inside me" etc. But depending on the guy or even the mood he's in, he might feel put on the spot by that if he feels pressure or anxiety to "perform on demand". It really depends on the guy. Personally I'm somewhere in between, the direct approach usually does the trick, but if I'm having a stressful day, or preoccupied with other stuff on my mind, then I kinda like being "seduced" a little bit. Anything sensual like massage, fingers through hair, slipping into lacey lingerie and lying on the bed purring for me to join her like a good kittie 🤭You can also send a breadcrumb trail of dirty texts if he's out at work/ running errands etc. So that by the time he gets home you've already got him horny just picturing how you're gonna pleasure him. But again, if all else fails, just whisper "I'm wet" or "I want you" or "fuck me" or whatever into his ear, preferably while you're in sexy lingerie or naked and making out with him somewhat aggressively

    • Or just grab his cock and start kissing him. That's game over for almost any situation to lead to sex. But men like variety too, so try not to get too predictable with just one way of initiating ; mix it up and treat every love making session as if it's your first (or last!)

  • You don’t have to say anything just initiate it.

    Just start kissing him and escalate it.

  • Depends on the age.
    Older men just want you to be honest and straightforward.

    Younger men, well just find out their fetish and turn him on by teasing him with it.

    • he's 34

    • Men in their 30s are usualy in-between. Some like it straight up, others are not ready for that yet. Do you know his "thing"? His fantasy? Some men go crazy on the thought of a blowjob. ... so play with ur lips... suck a lollipop in front of em. Other men are "ass"-men... so put on tight jeans... twerk... give him a lapdance Other men have hair-fetish... blowdry ur and play with your hair... in front of him Other men love feet... get urself those stilletto's and put nailpolish... Just find his poison and use it anytime u want him... ihhihihihhihi And when u get into bed, don't just "give" him everything he wants without getting what you want also. So if he likes the blowjob... well do 69. If he likes the hair... straddle him like a cowgirl, but with your back turned to him, so he can reach and play with your hair while you straddle him Last thing you want to do is to make it a "routine" if he's not so horny. Switch things a bit. Hell... put on other way of makeup. Put on a wig... play dress-up... just dont go the standard "missionary fuck and goodnight" rounds. Maybe he's bored. Well i hope i gave you some interesting ideas.

    • Possibly... the only kink I've found tho is his cousin...

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  • Your boyfriend is your boyfriend for a reason. There must be something there or why would he be with you. Is it possible your insecurities is what's creating distance between the two of you? I was in N. A. years ago and they had a million slogans one was "Fake it till you make it." Just walk up in there like you own it. Not cocky or any type of attitude just like you're secure in the fact that you're supposed to be there and ask him if you guy's can talk (assuming no one else is there) and just be honest about your feelings wants and needs don't be dramatic or draw it out to long just get to the point. When you're done ask him what he thinks and feels and offer to give him a little time to organize his thoughts if he needs to. Now if he doesn't respond how you had hoped for you're gonna have to decide if there's a middle ground both can agree on or cut bait. Be sure to wear something that will make his head spin

  • I think the words of Shia LeBeouf are the best here:
    "JUST DO IT!"

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