Do you feel closer to someone after having sex with them?

[wonderingaboutboys]

Do you feel like the bond grows with someone after you've have sex with them?

[Tobi_Lerone]

I chose the third option. But it depends for me on how I am related to the person. If we just go for a ons I usually don't have a stronger bond to the person. Friends with benefits is a little bit more since do it more then one time usually. But in a serious relationship I kind of need it to keep the strong bond between me and the girl^^

[wonderingaboutboys]

With friends with benefits do you feel like your bond grows with them? Do you feel more attached to them at all or just become better friends?

[Tobi_Lerone]

I only once friends with benefits up to now. The thing was we were really good friends and the sex got us closer friends at least. We really liked each other bit didn't love. One day she told that she has to quit it because she met a guy. (They are now married for some years^^). But from this point on we kind of lost each other. We don't have much contact today but a little bit. There is nothing between us but it seems like we were only really close friends while we had sex^^

[Myk13]

It depends. If it’s with your SO, or maybe even a friends with benefits. Yes, definitely with your SO. I have also become better friends with some friends with benefits. If it’s just a hookup, or a fuck-buddy. Then no.

[wonderingaboutboys]

Has it made you develop any feelings for your friends with benefits or just become better friends?

[Myk13]

Well, I would just say better friends. I have not personally developed any feelings. But I have lost a couple of friends. It’s easy to say that you can do it. I think it’s a lot tougher for women to separate sex and emotion than for men. Not that all men can do it either though.

[Paris13]

Yes, No Guess. xxoo

[simonqq]

It doesn't have to but if you are already connecting then for me yes I felt even more connected.

[DizzyDesii]

Absolutely. After losing my virginity to my first ex and then only trusting one other guy to truly give myself too after that, i was seriously attached to both for at least the next 6 months and tolerated a lot of BS. I dont think i’ll ever be able to detach easily because sex is another level for me.

[purplepoppy]

Sex acts are a really good way to get to know people. You don't necessarily develop a strong emotional bond but there's definitely a connection.

[DavidFox]

No, girls are more likely to bond after sex due to the chemicals. I feel closer over time and shared experiences.

[pizzalovershouse]

Yes oncd im in a relationship i feel it brings ne closer but its about how the sex makes you feel part of sach other in a caring relationship

[wonderingaboutboys]

What about if you are not in a relationship with the person? Does it still make you feel closer to them?

[GreenGold1992]

I wouldn't know, still a virgin

[Dave31989]

Nope

[ND4SPD31]

Only because I could have sex just to have sex with someone and have no feelings towards them. However if I have sex with someone I have feelings for then yes.

[Valnac]

You get to know her on another level.

[wonderingaboutboys]

Would you say it makes you more attached to her or no?

[Valnac]

I’d say yes, it does!

[mrgspoter]

Yeah don't you think

[Younghungguy17]

For sure once you’ve been naked or had sex with someone

[Anonymous]

Absolutely.
Provided it's good sex... with no rejections.