Will I have to sleep with him if I accept his help?

[Anonymous]

He is a local actor but because of his good looks and ( I dare to say) talent he will one day be more than a local actor. I know him but not very well. I work as a waitress at the bar where he sometimes comes by himself to have a drink and sometimes he flirts with me. He told me that he can help me become an actress too ( i told him I would like to). At least in our city ( we live in a big city in Europe). We are both 25 by the way.

Should I accept his helping hand? He is very handsome and charming so I dont think he would need to do something just to get sex.

PS. I know it is weird but I am a virgin. It just happened. Never felt ready enough.

[RemoErdosain]

He's probably just using your dreams of becoming an actress in order to take your virginity, then run away. If he isn't aware of your virginity, then he's still after getting laid. You don't owe him anything, even if he does help you, but people aren't just generous like that, especially in that business where it's a pretty well-known thing that women get fucked with promises of roles that never come. If I were you, I wouldn't accept his help, and I'd save my virginity for a man who actually respects you and values you for more than just your first time

[AustinMan]

Do you want to have sex with him? That's the central question and will drive my answers.

[elizamichale1]

well if it was me i would accept it without hesitation even if i had to have sex provided how badly i wanted to be an actress

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for MHO honey

[PrudentGuy]

To bring a person into fame requires at least hundreds of thousands of USD.

Frankly, do you think a guy will spend that much to elevate you?

If its too good to be true, then beware its probably false.

Speak crudely, if you really be made into an actress just for a fuck, then your vagina is 1000x more expensive that 99.99 gold bar!

[Berethor]

Being a virgin only makes you more valuable to him, and yea he might expect something in return for helping you, though didn't you want to sleep with him anyway?

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NatureAdoresAVirgin

[slatyb]

He may be hoping for that but you don't have to do it. Maybe if you get to know him better you will be eager to have sex with him.

[Sevenpointfive]

you advance your career the way you want to. the next guy will not be hot

[hellacray]

How do you know he's really an actor?

[Wise4myage]

Sure, why not? Just do so cautiously.

[Twalli]

You won't have to sleep with him. If you want to then you can do it, but never sleep your way into a role or anything career oriented.

[GreenGold1992]

If you have to sleep with him to accept his help, I would not.

[Valnac]

When a guy says that it’s kinda implied.
People don’t do free, there’s always an agenda!

[msc545]

You can go ahead and accept his help and express your gratitude without sleeping with him. Of course if you want to sleep with him you can. Nobody will force you

[mrgspoter]

Your like hooker or slave then?

[Anonymous]

I guess you can and sex doesn’t hurt so I don’t know why that would be a big deal and he’s not hideous

[Anonymous]

yes you will have to sleep with him that's how the business works. And he's probably helping like 19 other women cause that's also how the business works. And all 20 of you are probably going to get nothing out of this cause that's also how the business works

[Asker]

He is not a famous actor. A local one And very handsome so i dont know if he needs to "pay" for sex

[Opinion Owner]

He wouldn't be paying, he'd just be using his good looks and a girls dream of wanting to get into the business and leverage to get in her pants easily while putting in minimal effort to make her successful in the industry

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't have to sleep with anyone to receive their help. You don't want help from anyone that requires you to do so; as it isn't help it is coercion.