Sex in the religion of Islam on marriage only, what do you think?

Sex in the religion of Islam on marriage only, what do you think?
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  • If the two people actually love each other and get married it's fine. But if both people don't have a choice then I'd say it isn't fine, since nobody should force marriage and sex onto a "couple" that isn't interested in one another. Also, that wedding dress is very pretty by the way.

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  • I think it's a good idea overall. I mean based on studies and statistics, it's pretty obvious not having any sexual partner before getting married is at least one of the keys for a successful marriage.
    Having multiple sex partners put people at risk of getting STDs. HIV would probably be on the lower side if people were more faithful.
    Some evidence also linked HPVs to several types of cancer which means that a risky sex life increases your chance of catching an STD and getting cancer.
    So, yes, waiting for marriage is definitely underrated and this is an atheist speaking.

    • Good thoughts on marriage.

    • I don't know where u come from but i agree with you , it honestly has both advantages and disadvantages. For me as an Arab girls the advantages is you will feel comfortable and satisfied if you have sex before marriage. The disadvantages is that many men will use you even though they don't deserve it !

    • @Reemaa sex before marriage makes u feel comfortable and satisfied? So u are not satisfied/comfortable with sex after marriage? i am confused. Care to enlighten me?

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  • I think is retarted, is why I wouldn't be able to have a romantic relation with an conservative Muslim woman, or even a liberal Muslim woman, since culturally where the Muslim religion is the majority, conservative social roles and perception runs deep into the psique of someone who was born and raised in such social enviorment. That's why, my best choice are Latin American woman, US, Canadian, Australians (maybe?), ? New Zealand, Western European women's. Eastern Europeans, perhaps, I think they are still conservatives.

  • You're wrong.

    Sex in every religion is "marriage only". There is no ruling in the bible, Torah, gita or any other religious text that makes premarital sex, permissible.

    But what religions say, and how cultures and societies work, are not the same.

    • there's also no text in the bible that says its banned or must not happen either...

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  • For guys, good, because he gets to marry a virgin. (And better still, she is "encouraged" to have sex whenever the guy asks, never to turn him down.)

    For girls no, because she's treated like a sex object even before she loses her virginity.

  • I think such rules are problematic in some ways, with this rule specifically it takes choice away from people, which will often lead to people cheating in their marriage because they want to taste that which they feel was stolen from them, their choice.

    Also, if you want to have a debate, why is sex in Islam, marriage only?

  • I think that sex and marriage should not be linked by any religious belief.

    • Maybe you right

    • For me marriage is not about sex. Sex is the normal natural pleasure and desire that we can enjoy with the benefit of contraception. Marriage is about a committed relationship in which to have and raise children. Linking sex as only in marriage means people marry before they are really ready for a family.

    • Yes you right

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  • What if a woman gets raped, divorced or widow. She's not a virgin then is she?

    • This is one of the biggest problems in society

    • 🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • We can say, willingly having sex out of marriage isn't allowed. Rape isn't counted as having sex.

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  • That’s based on 1400-year-old writing when women married in their teens. We have technology they didn’t have— contraceptives, prophylactics, and antibiotics. And we marry later. Abstinence into the mid-twenties doesn’t appeal to most people.

  • If someone is comfortable with that, great. But it also means getting married at young ages.

    • Thanks for your answer 🙏

  • I think thats great if people still follows it but it's not for all people following it nowdays

  • Definitely not my thing

  • The girl needs to be given a chance to decide as well. No religion should "force" us to live our lives in the way "they" want us to live. We only live once and we should be able to do what we think is right.

  • Is that why marrying children is a big staple in muslim societies...
    Because pedos get free reign as long as they marry them first?

    • This is not true james , i am an ex-muslim and i was born in a muslim society , i have never seen children getting married in my whole life. Most people here get married between the age 21-29 . The media like to exaggerate a lot! don't believe everything

    • @Reemaa so what is the minimum legal age a person can get married at in a muslim society then?

    • in my country the minimhm age is 18 but that's also so rare. Most girls here marry after they finish studying at college so 21-29

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  • Well considering they can have multiple wives, and women in that culture have no rights and have a duty to obey and serve their husband... what woman wouldn't want to sign up lol

  • FYI, even Christians aren't allowed to have sex outside of marriage.

    • Thats not true. People who do not understand what Adultry means says this all the time brainwashing themselves. Adultry is cheating on your spouse.

    • How come that is not true? People confess themselves to father every Sunday at church for having sex outside of marriage including masturbation.

    • Now you're talking catholics, which if you know your history you know the catholic church at one point was telling people to go have sex without condoms married or not to help a falling birth rate. Though to answer your question, its because nobody corrects people who say this so it becomes indoctrinated into the minds of people and then a form of mass hysteria takes hold with the only outlet being confession. 10 hail marys dont decide if your sins are forgiven, a man in a booth is no closer to god than you or I, and if you let religion dictate morality instead of morality dictating religion then you are missing the point.

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  • It is actually good but many couples have left that practice. Now it is more about gold diggery and out of marriage sex. Not on the scale as Europeans and Americans though

  • As with a lot of religion in the world, some elements need to be reviewed.
    It must be very difficult to follow sometime's when the law's you are supposed to live by a thousands of year's old. You can keep your main principles of course, but like I said , I think all religions need updating and yes, sex is one of them.

  • Good ethics

    • Thanks for answer 🙏

    • Uh bullshit

  • Their choice.

  • Death to Islam!

  • Not my religion. Do not care about sex in anyone's religion.

  • Horrible. Oppressed cultures have the most violence.

  • Stupidly.

    • Why can you explain?

    • Because you will bored same and the person, sex will get to be meanless.

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