Serious answers only? Paranoid about this? Help? Much appreciated?

Alright so I'm 15 years old. A month ago i masturbated in my brothers room with his sheets ( I know it's gross , but I don't know what I was thinking ) I didn't thought anything of it. But recently I have missed my period. It's 9 days late , I am nauseous, bloated and my breasts are tender and sore only sometimes. I know it could be caus of stress , but I only started stressing 3 days ago ! I had a kinda heavy bleeding for a day it was light bleeding , then it was dark. Even tho I have these symptoms of pms I have no period? I've been getting more discharge sometimes even white kinda. People say that you can get pregnant without penetration and I'm freaking out ! Cause I know sperm die really fast outside , but let's say my brother masturbated on the sheets , then I masturbated with them... Is there a possibility? I do not have a mom it's just me and my dad and brother so I can't really talk to my dad about this. Anyway is there even the slightest chance? If there is and I am pregnant , what do I do with the pregnancy? Feel free to laugh cause I can understand how silly this must sound. But I'm freaking out when I read on the internet that you can get pregnant if there's sperm on something ! I had sex education in school and they only thought us about only getting pregnant through intercourse so it's not possible? Sorry if this question is so long it's my first question on here ! I'd really like helpful answers. Please don't judge I know this sounds ridiculous , but I've heard of someone getting pregnant without penetration? I do have a boyfriend , but he doesn't live here anymore so we only talk to each other on the phone. I've never done anything sexual with anyone I want to wait till marriage. Between my stomach has been hurting could this be something? Will choose most helpful answer !
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  • You cannot get pregnant this way. There is zero possibility.

    The only way to get pregnant is with live sperm (and keep in mind that they can live for up to about 7 days, but only in the vagina, not on sheets or anything.)

    The thing that trips some people up is that pre-cum can have sperm in it. So a guy could mess around with you sexually, have his penis inside your vagina, have precum on it, thrust, but not cum. And you can get pregnant that way, before he pulls out, at which point he cums outside your body. This does happen. So never, ever do that, don't mess around without a condom. I think you should not have sex at all yet. You're not emotionally mature or knowledgeable enough yet. But masturbating is ok. Just be safe, be careful with your sexuality. You are only this age once, and you have all the time in the world.

    • Thank you for your help !

    • You're welcome 💐

  • You're not pregnant calm down you are ovulating and your period is on its way

    • It's possible to ovulate this late? Also thank you for your help !

    • Its very possible periods are tricky

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  • Your fine. Take a home pregnancy test just to ease your mind.

    Even if your brother masturbates in bed and his semen gets on his sheets, sperm can only live a short time outside the body. So don't worry.

    If you still have physical pain go see a doctor.

    But I'm curios. Why did you masturbate in your brothers bed? He could have walked in and that would be awkward. My sister walked in on me one day. I was just about to orgasm so I couldn't stop. It was the first time she saw a guy cum.

    • I have no idea why I was doing it in his room :/ good thing he wasn't home at the time , but I know I shouldn't be doing it in his room though haha 😅

    • Was being in his bed a turn on?

  • There is no way your pregnant there wouldn’t be enough sperm kn the sheets even if they were alive your fine it’s probably stress or hormones

    • That's what I was thinking too , but I got a little paranoid. Thank you for your help !

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  • Totally impossible. You’re stressing, which can have a real effect on your period and cycle. It’s a vicious circle or a self forfilling prophecy

    • I understand. Thank you for your help !

  • was the sheets sticky gooey wet did you notice anything on the sheets sperm is very wet it turns cold very quickly after it's been ejected I don't think you would have missed a load of cum all over the sheets as soon as you touched it you would have jumped back and investigated as to what that cold slimy stuff was that you just touched and it looks a lot like slimy snot so there's another reason why you are experiencing these things

    • No , it didn't feel weird or wet or anything. I'd probably notice it. Ty !

  • This has to be a joke... lol (sorry).

    You're not pregnant, relax.

  • You're not pregnant. Sometimes it takes a while for the periods to get regular. They don't start off being exactly predictable.

    • I understand , ty !

  • Take a deep breath, you are not pregnant.
    But the real issue is your fears.
    Hmu if you want to discuss

  • .01% chance this made you pregnant

  • His sperm should have been fresh to have the slightest chance at impregnating you, in your case this is unlikely. It sounds more hormonal disbalance.

  • Oh honey you're not pregnant. Nor can you get pregnant this way. Most likely you have a yeast infection if you're having a milky discharge. That happens if you masturbate with something that's not clean

    • Good to know it's not possible. I haven't had any other symptoms of yeast infection except for the discharge. It's sometimes really watery and sometimes milky ( sorry for all the details ) thanks for your help !

  • Could be an infection an you would of noticed a wef stain on sheet if he did that

  • cool story bro

  • The sheets would have to have been deep in there. Sounds like you need a checkup at a planned parenthood anyway. Also, need to stop thinking of your bro that way. Therapy perhaps, but it could screw you up mentally.

  • The chances are slim. You said it, sperm can’t live without warm and wet.
    That being said, you can go to a pharmacy and get a pregnancy test to put your mind at ease.
    I know this is scary, and you are right to be.
    Good luck!

    • Chances are not slim, it’s impossible that she’s pregnant.

    • @NYlatefun that’s why I suggested she get tested!

    • But if it's not possible why should I get tested? Also thanks for everyone's help !

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  • No need to freak out. It probably your period
    If you aren't convinced, you can consult your nearest gynecologist

  • YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT.

    unless either you’re Virgin Mary or you had sex with someone else.

    • That's good to hear. Thank you !

  • Don’t worry about it, it’s probably due to stress over thinking your pregnant. You are not pregnant from doing what you did.

    • Ok I understand. Thank you !

  • You eill be ok, calm down

  • Lolll you are not pregnant. The reason your period is "late" is because you are still young, and your body is adjusting naturally. When I was a younger teenager, sometimes I'd even miss periods completely.

    • I understand. That's probably it. I know how funny this sounds myself , but I just wanted to be 100 % sure. I got kinda paranoid haha. Thanks so much !

  • I don't think you will be pregnant.

    • Are you okay

    • Ok thank you ! Yes , I'm ok still been having the symptoms I've mentioned above , but considering the fact that I'm not pregnant in the way I described , I am not so worried. Thanks for your help and for asking !

    • you're welcome. Where are you from?

  • There would have to be a fresh cum stain for you to even have a chance of getting pregnant. And by fresh I mean it would still be a white glob of man goo.

    • So it would be very visible , right? Thank you !

    • Yep, you're welcome.