Guys, if you discovered that a friend of yours who is a girl has a sex toy, how would you react?

Question

While drinking with my boyfriend and some of his friends, we decided to play a drinking game. One of the cards said that anyone who has a sex toy has to drink. I tried to play it off as the innocent girl that his friends think I am, but my face got red and everyone looked at me. I took a drink, and couldn’t wait to move on. However, all of the guys were looking at me still, and one even asked what I had. I feel like they are going to think I’m so disgusting now because they all think of me as super innocent and now my naughty side has been revealed.

centerline · Accepted Answer

I would want to share the experience of it with her... EVERY girl who has mentally matured past the age of 30 will have a sex toy or two... and every guy who has matured past the age of 20 will have no problems with helping her use it... some guys can't stand the thought of their girlfriend/wife having a toy to help please them, and some women are ashamed that they use a toy... buut there is no need for any of that because nothing is going to get worn out or ruined because it had something other than a a boyfriend or husbands dick in it..

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Even in high school, I just assumed that most girls did (and I know for sure that many did). Certainly, all the girls I know today do. So, I wouldn't really think much of it at all.

ushagomez · Accepted Answer

Kudos to you. As you say they were surprised and your fun revelation of something so normal got them intrigued. If any of them mention it again then just tell them what size batteries you want for Christmas.

nanablue · Accepted Answer

I would laugh like crazy and then i will say" girl we seriously need to talk" done

RemoErdosain · Answer

Well, that's pretty intrusive of them to ask what it is you had, especially considering they're your boyfriend's friends. Anyway, I wouldn't think any less of a girl friend of mine who had a sex toy. I have a sex toy too, and they're super common these days

katiesmuff · Answer

In general I figure most girls have a sex toy of some kind

Lov2PlezUgurl · Answer

oh why do women worry over things that make us men horny as hell I'm glad you left it at that and let there imaginations run wild just act like nothing happened go in smiling every day.. they'll think you put your toy to work every morning.. ok do it once a week anyway just to get things sturd up and watch there reactions

PhilEvans · Answer

There's nothing wrong with owning a sex toy, I remember seeing a statistic that more than half of women have one, and half that don't use something else to pleasure themselves with in place of one.

If your friends are teasing you about it, they're probably just embarassed about their own hangups.

Truthatanycost · Answer

Only naive men think there are any innocent girls around. I'm sure they already knew.

Forevelost · Answer

Lame it’s just masturbation

wankiam · Answer

dont know if i would react... i might ask her if its any good but other than that i would be more shocked by a girl saying she didn't have a toy nowadays

DevC784 · Answer

It's pretty damn common so it was probably just you being self conscious, and drunk lol I dont many people would have an issue or look at you differently unless it was something they wanted to hear

Koda1 · Answer

Why would I care? Everyone masturbates

DavidFox · Answer

I expect all my female friends have toys. Lol should I get them all batteries for Christmas?

TeeSquare · Answer

Men wouldn't care, boys would get all horny and sexual about it.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

“A” toy? I wouldn’t be surprised if my women friends had several, of which a few I know actually do.  It is pretty much a, “so?” Kind of thing for me.

ravagesavage · Answer

I'd think she's a hoe that definitely belongs to the street

Feelicks · Answer

Almost every girl I've been with has some kind of masturbation aid. No big deal. I'd probably aske for a demo though LoL 😘

OfDeath · Answer

I would think nothing of it

okeydoke · Answer

I’d be totally indifferent. Kudos for being in touch with your secuality!

Wise4myage · Answer

Id just shrug my shoulders, and you are being too self conscious about this. Trust me, they loved It, but they shouldn't have asked you what type you owned.