Boyfriend sulks when I am not in the mood?

Is it normal or manipulative? We don’t live together and he just texted me saying he’s horny for me. I’m not in the mood and I’m doing my uni things. I said that he should wank it, but he started saying how upset he is and that he will go to sleep then. He’s trying to make me feel bad. Thoughts?
0 0

Superb Opinion

  • i mean it really depends on how often you guys have sex and such. I mean if you date him and he wants to have sex more often than you or you may not want to at all maybe you cannot fullfill eachothers needs in the relationship and it won't work. Best is to talk about it with him and define eachothers expectations.

    • We’re pretty sexually active, but he’s really attracted to me so he wants me constantly and I got things to do

    • you just then gotta have the talk with him and say how you feel

    • We’ve talked about it, but he can’t help himself he says

    • Show All

Most Helpful Guys

  • Nobody likes getting turned down especially in a relationship. I think it is a problem that men and women think sex is guaranteed anytime when theyre together and that can lead to sex being a chore which is no good.
    Ill let you in on a secret, women sulk just as much when theyre turned down, the thing is majority of time men dont tell them no, but when we do theyll usually throw a little fit or act like we insulted them. Different sides of the same coin, its human nature pretty much.

    • Sometimes when I’m in the mood and ask him for it, he always makes sure he gives it to me, but it’s because he is pretty much constantly ready anyway so it’s not fair to want the same from me I think

    • That sounds bad when you put it that way. you're saying he should be ready whenever you are and when you ask he should give it to you, but he shouldn't expect the same in return.

    • He wants it everyday

    • Show All
  • I think I'd be flattered and tell him you'll be glad to at some designated point in time of your choosing. Not no, just not right now.

    • That’s what I said. I said that I’ll make it up to him, but he still sulked and went to bed.

    • So he's a bit of a baby. Don't worry about it. I trust you've heard the old saw that men never grow up, the toys just get progressively more expensive. ;)

    • I had not, but it sounds pretty fitting hahaa

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

0 4
  • If this is happening when young and dating then break up now.
    This sounds like a sexless relationship coming down the road.

    • Your opinion is based on your own life I think. We have enough sex

    • And FYI we’re 29.

  • You nailed it, he’s trying to manipulate you.
    He’s a whiner, tell him if he can’t be a man, then try to pretend to be one.

  • Manipulative you should leave him

  • He sounds rather manipulative.

    • What’s the correct response?

    • From him?

    • He should show more respect and understanding.

    • Show All