Do you consider it a problem if you and your partner are only having sex twice a week?

[ROB15656]

How many days a week is too little?

[RedWings19]

Honestly I used to do it every time I saw my girlfriend which honesty is a little much. But if I had it my way 3-5 times a week would be perfect. Even 3-4. But it gradually reduced despite me being well sized down below and putting her needs first. She always finishes nicely I make sure of it. But the problem is this.. she doesn’t spontaneously crave it.. she told me she loves it once we get going but until we start.. she just doesn’t isn’t horny. She GETS horny when we actually start. So now we’re down to once a week and it sucks.. feels like the spark is gone because it feels scheduled and even the one time a week isn’t that exciting because I’m overall unhappy with the sex aspect of the relationship so when we do it that one time it’s more of a “sarcastic yay, she’s letting my fuck her one time this week as scheduled”

sex is more than just physical to me, it’s being with someone who wants you as much as you want them. She claims it has nothing to do with me, well I still feel shitty and sometimes jealous and insecure BECAUSE of the lack of physical contact.
basically there is no right answer, if your libidos line up you’re so lucky. If not, there will always be fights, insecurities, jealous, anger, irritation etc..

guarantee you and everyone else will agree with everything I just said

[ROB15656]

I can definitely relate. It’s like a lot of women get comfortable and start taking the relationship for granted

[RedWings19]

Of course. After some years of dating what will happen is it’ll be hard to resist flirting with other girls that show you interest.. since we seek what we lack. I haven’t cheated but flirting with other girls makes me feel like myself again.. weird right? But when doing it I really feel like old self again which sure did love life

[PrudentGuy]

First three years after I lost my virginity, yes. I crave for sex everyday, even a few times a day.

After that period, when indeed to go back to work and when there was a recession, 2 to 4 times a week would be good, but i think I got only about 2 or 3 times.

Now, 1 to 3 times a week is good enough for me.

[Anonymous]

Twice a week sounds great compared to how much I get.

[ROB15656]

Wow. How long have you been in that relationship? And more importantly how much longer are you going to stay?

[Opinion Owner]

2 years, and probably until she breaks up with me, I doubt I could do better.