Does he secretly want me?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing a physical therapist for jaw and neck pain and I can’t tell whether he’s flirting with me or if it’s just his personality. (It might be worth noting that I live in Spain) so maybe there is a cultural factor. I'm also guilty of feeling attracted to him.

The first day he was explaining my condition and he was standing so close that I moved away a little. On that day he was also telling me different physical activities I could do and kept mentioning how having more sex could be great for me.

Also whenever he talks to me he touches my leg, but like above the knee and he has sometimes touched my arms, and even brushed my forehead with his hand when I was laying on the table. He's also tucked my shirt into the back of my bra a couple of times, but I guess that might be necessary for him to be able to work better. And last, but not least, I swear I felt his penis brush up against my arm (more than once) while he was massaging my neck one day. I guess it could have been unintentional (he is very tall)?

What do you think? Is my imagination getting the best of me? He’s also married which makes me think it’s all in my head.

[banana75]

just let it happen naturally! if you think he's flirting, then he's flirting as long as you enjoy it. The moment you feel uncomfortable you can give him sign so he knows. (his job is on the line after all)

however, if you two are attracted to each other then evolved into something romantic.

*i always get the flirting, touchy feeling when i first met a new female friend and I fantasize about having sex with them. but after a few face to face meeting. 99% turned into just friendship.

[AustinMan]

Sounds to me like he's hitting on you. If he is, now what?

[ManWithThePlan123]

That's probably just the way he acts and how he has to do his work. Trust me if he was trying to sexually harass you it wouldn't be that far of a reach lol

[LiamSawyer]

It may just be an unconscious fantasy of yours. For him it is unprofessional and wrong as he's married and in a committed marriage. Weider things have happened perhaps you caused him to be aroused. You just never know for sure. You might find a reason to give him uou cell number, then if he is truly interested it gives him an opportunity to express it.

[Browneye57]

Silly, he's a professional. They don't don't fuck around with their clientele. For gods sakes.

[Gedaria]

I know what you mean, been their.. Once with a guy also with a woman.
The guy was giving me physiotherapy on my knee, he kept rubbing my leg above the knee. It gave me really bad vibes.
But the woman , every touch was a so great.
But in your case. I would say a bit of both. Your feelings could be right and the other a little wishful thinking...

[Mamala]

If you desire him, take a step, if he wants, a great lovemaking will take place. No, if he doesn't want you, he'll show it anyway honey.

[Anonymous]

That seems like sexual harassment