18+ Ladies, female sexuality preferences questionnaire?

[AmandaYVR]

This question was prompted by a pink anon's q:
Why do I have to be a pornstar in the bedroom to keep a guy around?
I don’t know if it’s just me or what but in the past year or so the men I’ve hooked up with have been so incredibly demanding in the bedroom. “Let me face fuck you” “Can I choke you” “You like anal, right?” And just a general rough demeanor all around. Anyone else experience this?
Why do I have to be a pornstar in the bedroom to keep a guy around?

There definitely is the conception from some that sexual preferences have become more extreme/aggressive and that BOTH sexes want this. Is it true? How many of you want more BDSM, etc. in the bedroom?

The reason I'm asking this is to see if we can set the record straight, and in a general way inform the guys approximately how many of you like these things.

PLEASE COPY AND PASTE THESE Qs INTO YOUR COMMENT FIELD, AND THEN TYPE YOUR ANSWERS DIRECTLY AFTER EACH SENTENCE. It will make it so much easier to read.

1. I am straight/lesbian/bi.
2. I want to be treated like a porn star.
3. I like a domineering, dominant personality in my lovers.
3. I consider myself a submissive, subservient to the man's needs and wants.
4. I want passion in the bedroom. But I don't like distinct roles of subs and doms. I either don't believe in them, or I am 'switch.'
5. I want/will give blowjobs to guys.
6. I want to be choked.
7. I want to do anal. Or I like anal play.
8. I want to be 'face fucked' (guy controls his penis in your mouth.)
9. I want 'facials' (guy cuming on your face.)
10. I want him to force my head down when I am giving a blowjob.
11. I want to be tied up.
12. I want to be called a slut, whore, etc.
13. I want to have balls dragged or pressed against my face.
14. I like rough sex. (How rough? Please describe.)
13. I don't want any of those things.

Use the anon feature!

P. S. I do feel a little weird about asking these, but I'm trying to help clarify how many girls do really want these things.

[Grond21]

I'm a bit confused. None of these are questions, they are statements. Are the girls supposed to agree or disagree with them? Do you want to hear guys' opinions?

[AmandaYVR]

Oops, yeah I did originally have a 'T/F?' after each of them, but then decided that was redundant, and also I needed to reduce the total character count. The girls are getting the idea anyway. They're answering as I intended. I mean I'm not going to block or delete the guys' answers, but this question is really for the girls to answer and the guys to read. As I said, I'd just like to help clarify how pervasive BDSM-like preferences are in the female landscape nowadays. I've culled many of the repeating male questions together, so we can see them distilled in one place. It is often the males who push for these things, and I have seen many younger pink users on here feeling quite intimidated by these male seemingly common expectations. (I know not all males want all these things, but many males are attempting to normalize these things while some girls are feeling very pressured to conform.) But maybe that's not the case. Maybe a majority of girls also want the same. That won't be clear, though, if the 'I don't want any of these things' don't even reply to this question. It's not easy to get pinks to answer questions in the numbers the males do.

[Grond21]

Gotcha. It's certainly a worthy question to ask. And as more and more men watch porn, they continually to get desensitized to what they watch and so they push for something more extreme. Then they can become desensitized to that in turn, and the pattern continues. And as a direct effect of this, we can see many men pushing for women to act like they see the porn stars do. Which seems to me to be on average, very destructive for sexual intimacy. I'm not sure why pinks don't answer the questions as much. But I hope you can get a good general idea of what girls think about this

[AmandaYVR]

Exactamundo. You're so sensible.

[Grond21]

Thank you Amanda. That means a lot coming from you

[Valnac]

15 I don’t want any of those things.
I want to take care of her first, and then she takes care of me.

[AmandaYVR]

Awwwwww. You're the best.

[meetkitty123]

1. I am straight2. I want to be treated like a porn star. FALSESeriously? Hell to the NO. I'm sexual but I'm not a whore 3. I like a domineering, dominant personality in my lovers. FALSEI love respectful quiet reserved or mysterious men who may or may not be shy. I love a gentleman on the street and a passionate wild/kinky/ lover in the bedroomI NEED a man who will always have enough confidence to stand up for me and protect me if its needed. I need a man who knows how and when to SWITCH. I need a man who can be my equal and Who can lead and be lead. 4. I consider myself a submissive, subservient to the man's needs and wants. FALSESuch a comment can KISS MY ASS 🖕🖕🖕I WILL however always go out of my way to make certain my man is satisfied and happy. I will always have my husband back and I will move mountains if I must to help my man if he was ever had any issue. 5. I want passion in the bedroom. TRUE 5b. But I don't like distinct roles of subs and doms. I either don't believe in them, or I am 'switch.' 🤷 this is just for fun nothin' serious.6. I want/will give blowjobs to guys. FALSEI NEED TO GIVE TO BE PERMITED TO GIVE MY MAN BLOWJOBS. 7. I want to be choked. WHAT THE FUCK! DO PEOPLE NOT REALIZE THIS IS A FEDERAL OFFENSE AND YOU CAN GET LIFE FOR THIS BEHAVIOR! ATTEMPT IT ASSHOLE AND I'LL MAKE SURE YOU DO LIFE IN PRISON!8. I want to do anal. Or I like anal play. YUPPP 9. I want to be 'face fucked' (guy controls his penis in your mouth.) FIRST OF ALL a guy doesn't control anything about me! Second I have no problem with the man thrusting his hips caressing my face tugging on my hair holding the back of my head or changing his position to make it more pleasurable for him but if Im deep throating it is best if he lets me make the movements.10. I want 'facials' (guy cuming on your face.) Get me in the eye or eyes and That would be a big fucking mistake! My cheeks my hair my chin I may tolerate. Hell I rather be marked or bathed in my mans cum from my feet to my mouthOr from my feet up my back to my hair.11. I want him to force my head down when I am giving a blowjob. 🙄Someone is watchin too much porn12. I want to be tied up. Not really... handcuff with safety feature is ok13. I want to be called a slut, whore, etc. Oh sure just as much as you enjoy being single jerking off to porn while rocking two black eyes14. I want to have balls dragged or pressed against my face. Ok sure lol 🤣 teabagging is the only tea I prefer14. I like rough sex. (How rough? Please describe.) YES but Pain free sex onlyFast and hard sure spanks sure (with out bruises) role play YESSex toys YES Get forceful on me? Sure if you want to a kicked to the balls punch to the face clothes torned and get kicked out my house naked! Sex is supposed to be pleasurable consensual and comfortable for both. It can be wild and kinky so long as neither person is felt forced or uneasy.

[Jamie05rhs]

Excellent answer, @meetkitty123! Thanks for being so detailed!

[laurieluvsit]

1. I am straight/lesbian/bi.
A: BI, but primarily lesbian

2. I want to be treated like a porn star.
A. NO
3. I like a domineering, dominant personality in my lovers.
A. YES!
3. I consider myself a submissive, subservient to the man's needs and wants.
A. YES!

5. I want/will give blowjobs to guys.
A. YES! ... should I attach an image here? ... lol
6. I want to be choked.
A. NO
7. I want to do anal. Or I like anal play.
A. YES!
8. I want to be 'face fucked' (guy controls his penis in your mouth.)
A. YES!

9. I want 'facials' (guy cuming on your face.)
A. NOT SO MUCH
10. I want him to force my head down when I am giving a blowjob.
A. YES!
11. I want to be tied up.
A. ON OCCASION

12. I want to be called a slut, whore, etc.
A. YES!
13. I want to have balls dragged or pressed against my face.
A. OK WITH IT
14. I like rough sex. (How rough? Please describe.)
A. FORCEFUL IS NICE BUT WITH NO SERIOUS PAIN INVOLVED

[COMMODOREII]

I think I am in love. 😍😋😎👍

[nothingtosee]

Wow! VERY hot! I would love to date you... on ONE condition. You HAVE to continue to date other women. I don't care if you don't want to share (although that would be nice), but I do insist that you tell me all about the sex that night or the next day. I love the idea of one of your girlfriends and I give you several threesomes, with you being the center of attention or, you and I making your girlfriend the center of attention.

[chrissykerdock]

1. I am straight/lesbian/bi. YES i have gone all the way with 1 woman and 3 others where i just received but the one woman was many times
2. I want to be treated like a porn star. YES i like to be asked
3. I like a domineering, dominant personality in my lovers. YES
3. I consider myself a submissive, subservient to the man's needs and wants. YES
4. I want passion in the bedroom. But I don't like distinct roles of subs and doms. I either don't believe in them, or I am 'switch.' YES i believe in being submissive
5. I want/will give blowjobs to guys. YES
6. I want to be choked. NO that's just stupid and dangerous
7. I want to do anal. Or I like anal play. YES i'll do anal but doesn't always come up
8. I want to be 'face fucked' (guy controls his penis in your mouth.) YES on occassion
9. I want 'facials' (guy cuming on your face.) YES i'll never deny a man who wants to give me one
10. I want him to force my head down when I am giving a blowjob. YES
11. I want to be tied up. NO never
12. I want to be called a slut, whore, etc. YES
13. I want to have balls dragged or pressed against my face. YES
14. I like rough sex. (How rough? Please describe.) YES i don't mind being whipped with a belt up to 20 lashes

[nothingtosee]

Very hot! I would love to know what you fantasize about.

[thegirlfromthething]

1. I am straight/lesbian/bi.
Straight
2. I want to be treated like a porn star.
No
3. I like a domineering, dominant personality in my lovers.
Sexually, yes, but I also want him to be more vanilla and gentle sometimes
3. I consider myself a submissive, subservient to the man's needs and wants.
I would say that I’m submissive, but in the sense that I want him to take the lead and not that I want intimacy to revolve around pleasing him
4. I want passion in the bedroom. But I don't like distinct roles of subs and doms. I either don't believe in them, or I am 'switch.'
I’m not sure if I’m a switch. I think I am generally submissive and I’m not interested in physical expressions of dominance over a guy but I could get bossy about what he’s “allowed” to do to me. But maybe that’s just part of being a sub since I think doms and subs do discuss their boundaries.
5. I want/will give blowjobs to guys.
Yes
6. I want to be choked.
No
7. I want to do anal. Or I like anal play.
Anal doesn’t appeal to me but if it was really important to my boyfriend/husband I would probably try it. He would have to be absolutely dying for it though- I won’t put myself through that because he’s only kind of curious.
8. I want to be 'face fucked' (guy controls his penis in your mouth.)
No
9. I want 'facials' (guy cuming on your face.)
No, but I would let him if I wanted to
10. I want him to force my head down when I am giving a blowjob.
No. As a general rule if I’m giving him a blowjob I expect him to treat me with the same level of care that I’m giving him. No rough stuff and no degradation.
11. I want to be tied up.
No
12. I want to be called a slut, whore, etc.
No
13. I want to have balls dragged or pressed against my face.
No
14. I like rough sex. (How rough? Please describe.)
I want rough sex sometimes and vanilla sex other times. I wouldn’t want to use props or have him inflict serious pain on me but some mild stuff would be okay, like pinning my wrists down during intercourse or giving me a light spanking.
15. I don't want any of those things.
No
I should also clarify that this is based on fantasies and what I think I would like or dislike.

[COMMODOREII]

See this makes sense to me. 😎

[thegirlfromthething]

@COMMODOREII Why?

[COMMODOREII]

I like your answers 😎

[Notyouraveragegirl01]

1. I am straight/lesbian/bi.
Bi
2. I want to be treated like a porn star.
Yes
3. I like a domineering, dominant personality in my lovers.
Yes
3. I consider myself a submissive, subservient to the man's needs and wants.
Yes
4. I want passion in the bedroom. But I don't like distinct roles of subs and doms. I either don't believe in them, or I am 'switch.'
No
5. I want/will give blowjobs to guys.
Yes
6. I want to be choked.
Yes
7. I want to do anal. Or I like anal play.
Yes
8. I want to be 'face fucked' (guy controls his penis in your mouth.)
Yes
9. I want 'facials' (guy cuming on your face.)
Yes
10. I want him to force my head down when I am giving a blowjob.
Yes
11. I want to be tied up.
Yes
12. I want to be called a slut, whore, etc.
Yes
13. I want to have balls dragged or pressed against my face.
No
14. I like rough sex. (How rough? Please describe.)
Yes extremely rough, bruises, marks etc
13. I don't want any of those things

[B2281]

Sounds amazing.

[nothingtosee]

OK, that was HOT! I love your answers!!! My follow up questions would be all about your sexual fantasies? I would love to tie you up, drive you crazy by keeing you on the edge of an orgasm, and make you confess to all of them.

[Lliam]

I'd love to see girls' input on these questions.

[Mark-IV]

only one choice num 3 is for normal sex, the rest are extreme, porn derived and disgusting fetishes...
are you even a real woman?

[AmandaYVR]

Ah, you see the pattern. That's precisely why I am asking them. This is about whether these are now normalized, desired, in the eyes of women/girls, or whether it's mostly men who want them. Did you even read my intro?

[jabberwocky00]

To many questions. Let leave it with yes I’m straight yes I love cock yes I love fucking, and everything that goes with it.

[MarkyMark77]

@jabberwocky00 haha that pretty much answers it. u single?

[MsLexiD]

1. I am straight/lesbian/bi. I'm Bi.
2. I want to be treated like a porn star. Not sure what this means - there's lot of kinds of porn stars
3. I like a domineering, dominant personality in my lovers. Yes
3. I consider myself a submissive, subservient to the man's needs and wants. No to a man - but absolutely YES to my girlfriend !
4. I want passion in the bedroom. But I don't like distinct roles of subs and doms. I either don't believe in them, or I am 'switch.' I don't like distinct roles - it's boring - but I do believe in sub/dom roles, and I like being told what role I'm to play
5. I want/will give blowjobs to guys. Yes
6. I want to be choked. No
7. I want to do anal. Or I like anal play. Yes
8. I want to be 'face fucked' (guy controls his penis in your mouth.) Yes
9. I want 'facials' (guy cuming on your face.) Yes
10. I want him to force my head down when I am giving a blowjob. Yes
11. I want to be tied up. No
12. I want to be called a slut, whore, etc. Yes
13. I want to have balls dragged or pressed against my face. Yes
14. I like rough sex. (How rough? Please describe.) Yes, but not into being hit or beaten, or anything 'hard core'. Spanking can be fun though

[nothingtosee]

Very hot! I would love to know what you fantasize about.

[Jjpayne]

I'm interested to see how this goes

[Bluemax]

I will answer for my wife and me. I'm reasonably certain how she would answer. I am not answering for her as a show of dominance. I'm answering for her because she's dead.

We didn't like any of those things, with the exception of oral sex. Now I enjoy going down on her only insofar as it gives her joy and pleasure. I'm fairly certain she felt the same.

Our sex was unashamedly vanilla. We loved it that way. Lacking children, our sex life resembled a porn in that it was frequent and in every room in the house. But that's where the semblance ends.

Two things where it departed wildly from porn was cuddling for hours and making out. The making out part is something I notice diminishes in marriages kinda rapidly. Not ours. She positively luxuriated in kissing and so did I.

And cuddling was something we both longed for. She claimed she felt loved and safe in my arms. She felt the happiness of my joy in the very moment. I felt it was a physical manifestation of her gentle kindness and empathy.

And this is something that I am increasingly finding harder to come to grips with while living alone during COVID. I find living without sex is bearable. But living without a single hug or kiss from her is... maddening.

[PrivSens]

Can't imagine how hard it is, the cuddles and kisses is all someone missed at the end of the day. Hope you take your time and look for someone else to fill that gap, or just maybe someone to cuddle and kiss.

[ret04]

To be perfectly honest in my time on this site (over the years) I've seen loads of females saying that they either like or want this kind of sex. As for guys, a lot of times you'll see them respond saying they actually don't like it, or they do it just at the request of women.

At this point I'm surprised to see a woman say she just likes regular sex, as I suspect most women want to be tied up, slapped around, forced into deep throating, etc. I've seen several formally conducted college surveys about sexual interests separated by gender, and yeah, females are overwhelming more into Dom/sub than any other interest, and quite a bit more so than males. It makes sense too, that males are more turned on by "things", women are more turned on by a relational composition like Dom/sub.

I surmise that a lot of women will in fact say yes to a lot of that stuff, and not necessarily because they physically enjoy the acts, but because of how they enjoy the role of sub itself, or more specifically how it makes them feel. "To be the object of a man's desire to the point that he can't control himself and he ravages you", or something like that.

[AmandaYVR]

Yep, it's certainly not an 'all of nothing' situation. Some points: * Pinks who don't like this stuff simply avoid these types of questions. So this is not a true random sampling. * Pinks avoid sexuality questions, even when they do have opinions, because they don't want to draw male sexual attention to them. * Pinks don't like arguing, debating, being "attacked" for differences of opinion, so to push back against this stuff is usually done anonymously, and only be a select handful of them. * Some of the pink accounts are actually male. They could be accounting for a significant chunk of the bolder female responses. * College studies involve college-age students, and they tend to be more bold in experimentation, coercion, and today casual hookup culture. Study results are typically skewed and do not accurately represent a wide population and diversity of opinions. Totally agree with you about your theory of the female sub preference, that being the main motivator sexually, and you are bang on about the "To be the object of a man's desire to the point that he can't control himself and he ravages you".

[ret04]

Well you make a good point as well, that such serves like the ones I referenced, do reflect the culture of only a specific demographic. I have no idea what a broad general consensus would look like. For that matter, I have no idea what the "demographic" of this site would be regarding age, background, lifestyle, relationship status, etc or if there even is a common thread between many who use this site. All I know is, for a some time now been a hot topic online for women to express their enthusiasm for being sexually dominated, humiliatied, and roughly treated. It seemed to especially ignite whenever the first Fifty Shades book became a pop culture thing, but has been stewing since this stuff became prevalent within porn back in the 2ks. Prior to then, you never heard about this kind of stuff. Even the old porn didn't have this stuff. There was a time when only a select few women in porn were known to do anal, and there was virtually none of this hardcore "circus" sex that you see all the time now. A lot has changed in the past 20 years, if attitudes online regarding sexual preference are to be believed.

[AmandaYVR]

That was a great summary, thanks. You really have perspective, knowing the history. With age comes wisdom eh. Joints may get creaky but can't beat the knowledge. (I'm sure you're fine, I'm just speaking of myself and generally.) Wish I had another MHO to give. 👌

[mk200195]

It'd be interesting to see you answer your own question as well. DON'T FORGET TO COPY PASTE 😛

[AmandaYVR]

Ha ha ha. You might be waiting 'til the cows come home on that one. "I'lllllll ask the questions around here, buddy!" I was born with a pencil and clipboard in hand. bwah ha ha

[mk200195]

Don't be such a wet blanket, "Sheriff" 😬

[Agape93]

1. I am straight/lesbian/bi.

I am bisexual.
2. I want to be treated like a porn star.
I want to be treated as an equal partner, not an object one finds on a computer screen.
3. I like a domineering, dominant personality in my lovers.
Sometimes yeah.
3. I consider myself a submissive, subservient to the man's needs and wants.
I’m a switch, it depends on the partner and our desires.
4. I want passion in the bedroom. But I don't like distinct roles of subs and doms. I either don't believe in them, or I am 'switch.'
I am a switch.
5. I want/will give blowjobs to guys.
Correct
6. I want to be choked.
Lightly, it’s not something I’m fully ok with still.
7. I want to do anal. Or I like anal play.
Not even a bit.
8. I want to be 'face fucked' (guy controls his penis in your mouth.)
Nope, good way to have me throw up on your dick
9. I want 'facials' (guy cuming on your face.)
Nope. It goes inside where it belongs.
10. I want him to force my head down when I am giving a blowjob.
Nope. Trust me, I’ll make sure you enjoy yourself. If you want something different, tell me so I can adjust it.
11. I want to be tied up.
Yeah
12. I want to be called a slut, whore, etc.
Only by dedicated lovers who only say it as a kink.
13. I want to have balls dragged or pressed against my face.
Lmao no
14. I like rough sex. (How rough? Please describe.)
Paddling, choking, slow and hard thrusts, tying up etc.
15. I don't want any of those things.
I want some of them, not most.






And guys, I’m not interested in talking to you or accepting your friends request, so don’t bother trying, it will be denied and you’ll be blocked.

[COMMODOREII]

What about a friend to say, cool 😎👍😜 lol

[Agape93]

Lol that’s perfectly fine hon

[Jamie05rhs]

So much diversity here. I love it!
I think this just proves that everyone is different and unique. And no one should be prejudged or put in a box based on your initial perception of them.
Also, there's someone for everyone! 😀

[AmandaYVR]

Yes there's a lot of diversity here and that's fine, but the problem is that it's a tiny sampling of pink replies and also the ones who would reply "I don't want any of those things" are not even going to click on the question title. So as I suspected, the experiment/study didn't really work.

[Jamie05rhs]

@AmandaYVR Oh. Okay.

[Gedaria]

I do see why women need this.
It comes across as a guy thing...

[swettannie]

1. I am straight/lesbian/bi.
straight
2. I want to be treated like a porn star.
yes
3. I like a domineering, dominant personality in my lovers.
definitely
3. I consider myself a submissive, subservient to the man's needs and wants.
yup !
4. I want passion in the bedroom. But I don't like distinct roles of subs and doms. I either don't believe in them, or I am 'switch.'
i'm a total sub
5. I want/will give blowjobs to guys.
i do !
6. I want to be choked.
yes
7. I want to do anal. Or I like anal play.
i accept it, but that's all
8. I want to be 'face fucked' (guy controls his penis in your mouth.
i do
9. I want 'facials' (guy cuming on your face.)
i do
10. I want him to force my head down when I am giving a blowjob.
please do
11. I want to be tied up.
yes
12. I want to be called a slut, whore, etc.
lol yes
13. I want to have balls dragged or pressed against my face.
why not
14. I like rough sex. (How rough? Please describe.)
very rough please
13. I don't want any of those things.

[nothingtosee]

Very hot! I would love to know what you fantasize about.

[COMMODOREII]

You know what sucks is that because that anon is looking for hook ups then she is not going to get guys who care about what she wants. They are going to just want to use her for their own pleasure and experimentation without regard to what she needs or wants.

[COMMODOREII]

Ok i want to answer these based on my position as a guy. What I look for in my experiences and want from my lover. 1. I am straight/lesbian/bi. This doesn't matter to me really. Lol 2. I want to be treated like a porn star. I just don't get this. I am game to trying new things but to treat another "person" like the way they do in porn sometimes is not only degrading but i just don't feel right doing it. I have a conscience. 3. I like a domineering, dominant personality in my lovers. I myself am a switch and i am ok if she wants to dominate me. In fact i am willing to allow a girl friend of mine to take my anal virginity just so she can experience the act. But it is all in good fun and for satisfying the curiosity. 3. I consider myself a submissive, subservient to the man's needs and wants. I answered in 2. 4. I want passion in the bedroom. But I don't like distinct roles of subs and doms. I either don't believe in them, or I am 'switch.' Same in 2. 5. I want/will give blowjobs to guys. I love receiving blowjobs. If she wants to suck on me i won't say no. But i too like to go down on her and hope she lets me get her off with my techniques. But i won't force her and we can move off to other things and if she wants to explore them then i am willing to let her take all the time she needs to explore that act. Both felattio and cunnilingus. 6. I want to be choked. I am a big and tall guy with a lot of strength. I am always trying to be careful with whatever i am doing. The idea of choking a girl is not in my nature. I can never do that to her. Im not sure if i would even do it if she asked tbh.

[COMMODOREII]

7. I want to do anal. Or I like anal play. I tried it once. I didn't like it. It just turns me off so much. Any girl that doesn't want anal will never have to worry about me asking. If she asks me to do i might have to be drunk and extra horny to even let her have me in her ass. 8. I want to be 'face fucked' (guy controls his penis in your mouth.) I let girls suck on me. And i prefer her to enjoy my manhood. For her to explore my manhood. I don't need to be trying to jam my manhood down her throat to get any satisfaction. Any guy who wants it must get off in that sadistic behaviour. If she wants to try to throat my dick thats on her but i won't do it sorry. 9. I want 'facials' (guy cuming on your face.) I never blew my load on a girls face ever. I prefer to explode inside her mouth or in her pussy tbh. But if she wants me to i will let her have that experience if she really wants it. But i tend to think that is degrading. Just like a girl sitting on my face and not letting me breath. 10. I want him to force my head down when I am giving a blowjob. Again im not forcing any girl. Sorry. 11. I want to be tied up. This i actually would like to try. I would show her the best time including her blindfolded and listen to music on headphones. I am game to be tied up myself. Again it would be something we both can trust each other and willing to do.

[COMMODOREII]

12. I want to be called a slut, whore, etc. I don't use these words ever. I can not see the purpose of doing this. I also have problems being called honey, babe, or dear or anything like that. My name is chris use it. I will call her by her name. 13. I want to have balls dragged or pressed against my face. I just don't understand this. Its so stupid. Its one thing for her to explore my manhood and might want to play, lick or suck on my balls but that act makes no sense. 14. I like rough sex. (How rough? Please describe.) i actually like to change things around. I can be rough or gentle. I can be sensual and less so. Too much of thing is just a turn off. I hope your research is good and this helps in maybe knowing one guy's position on this.

[pleasestopthis]

you don't like pet names? even something like honey, love, or dear?

[Jamie05rhs]

@COMMODOREII I really like your answers. I agree with most of what you said, with only a few exceptions: - I am not in any way interested in receiving anal sex (or giving it.) - I don't have a problem with facials or facesitting. I think they're both perfectly fine. - I do not mind pet names at all. I would actually enjoy being called "baby."

[msc545]

I'm just here to see the responses.

[AmandaYVR]

No problemo. That's exactly why I asked it.

[Nayyr]

I know I'm a male, but I still want to add my input on these questions


1. I am straight/lesbian/bi.
Straight male
2. I want to be treated like a porn star.
No
4. I want passion in the bedroom. But I don't like distinct roles of subs and doms. I either don't believe in them, or I am 'switch.'
I consider myself a switch
5. I want/will give blowjobs to guys.
BJ's seem nice, so i would want to receive them
6. I want to be choked.
No, nor do I want to choke someone
7. I want to do anal. Or I like anal play.
Yeah, both giving and receiving
8. I want to be 'face fucked' (guy controls his penis in your mouth.)
No, this is gross
9. I want 'facials' (guy cuming on your face.)
Nah, seems pretty degrading to do
10. I want him to force my head down when I am giving a blowjob.
No, i wouldn't do this
11. I want to be tied up.
Sure, I'd try it
12. I want to be called a slut, whore, etc.
No
13. I want to have balls dragged or pressed against my face.
Wtf
14. I like rough sex. (How rough? Please describe.)
I dont know if I would like it