Is it normal if I never had an orgasm?

[Anonymous]

I'm a pretty girl but insecure due to my sexuality. I like talking to boys, going out with them, kisses in the cheek or neck, caresses but i don't like doing more.. I'm 18 and I had some experiences but I felt so bad for the guys because they were trying so hard to please me but it felt okay, and kindof boring sometimes.. I work hard on me for this.. I never masturbated before this year and I didn't even wanted to do it but a friend told me I should really do.. At first I felt nothing at all, now it's a little bit nice but I feel like I need more stimulation than this to have an orgasm.. And the fact is I don't even care about having one or not.. I just feel bad for my current boyfriend.. I don't want him to feel like he can't satisfy a women

[Pasiton5]

It's normal rare well not really more women are coming forward about not ever having one and there treatment out there consult your doc and they can best guide you to getting the care you need unless you want to continue to falsely swell your dudes head by making him believe he's all that when in reality you feel zero you should experience an orgasm then again you might enjoy it too much become addicted run around like a out of control orgasm freak give it to me got to have it it's mine mine leave a bunch of exhausted dudes all over the city, be careful what you wish for

[Asker]

thank you very much

[Gigglytr0n]

It's normal no, but it could easily be put down to a variety of factors like technique, time spent on sexual acts, getting yourself comfortable aka revving the engine etc...

[Asker]

yes you are right! I really like how you said it.. I have to revving myself first and i know how to do that I just have to listen to some Theweeknd music.. And start slowly with guys till I get really comfortable.. thank you so much and sorry for my English i'm french

[Anonymous]

It’s not normal. I’ve came with every guy I’ve been with. You just gotta focus, it’s more in the head than you think.

[Asker]

yes you're right. I often felt like i could have it but in the middle I lost my concentration and zone out..

[purplepoppy]

You just need to sleep with as many guys as possible to find out what rocks your boat.

[Asker]

it makes me uncomfortable to be in bed with a boy and to not like it.. It give me anxiety lol

[Mikelaughs]

So, there are a few things to talk about, related to you, and also him.
Hmu if you want to discuss

[Asker]

i sent you a message

[Dargil]

Do you want to give him something to try?

[Asker]

what?

[wondering_guy]

Pm me

[Asker]

okay

[Gedaria]

Get the right sextoy with plenty of power. A rabbit. That should help or get to find your delicate spot and play...

[Asker]

okay i'll try to find one

[Valnac]

Try clitoral stimulation!

[Asker]

I tried and it always feels close to orgasm and then fade away

[Valnac]

You probably tighten up. Try relaxing and let it happen. If it makes you scream, then go ahead!

[Asker]

nah i never felt like i would scream

[CreamySeed]

Some girls are like this sadly I've known several or they lied to me, it really makes the man turned off because why bother pleasuring a woman who can't be pleased fuck that too many girls out there who have earth shattering orgasms that make them walk like they have rickets for hours. I suggest you learn your body buy a dildo and a vibrator, you might be a v orgasm girl or you might be a c orgasm girl. Also if you are on medication that can make orgasms impossible to achieve.

[Aiadb]

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[Surfstyle1]

Therapy girl. fix yourself

[Asker]

i hope i could go to therapy. my mom won't let me.. but I'm a psychology student maybe I could fix myself soon

[Surfstyle1]

Try it with a study session with other students peers have better affect on recovery.

[Anonymous]

since girls generally go for the douche bags, it’s a common complaint that girls say they have never had an orgasm.

I have been with almost a dozen girls who have never experienced one type, and some didn’t even know there was more than one type.
I have always been able to give them their first orgasm, be it clitoral, vaginal, or g-spot.

[Asker]

i didn't know this lol

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said. Most girls don’t even know their own sexual mechanics so it’s no surprise they put up with pathetic sex for so long. You have to know what your body is capable of for it to work at it’s best. Like owning a gaming computer to play solitaire. It’s a complete waste.