Was he wrong or was I just overreacting?

Question

He sent me a video of a hot naked girl showing her boobs and shaking her ass , I felt so bad about it , like He watches those perfect models , he would not like my body which is far from perfect , I felt bad that he gets horny over those girls and not me , am I right or am just overreacting?
I asked him why do you want to be with me when there's all these hot looking girls he didn't even bother to answer me. what do you think?

Was he wrong or was I just overreacting?

Nawlins34 · Accepted Answer

You're not overreacting - If you don't end the relationship, you're underreacting.

So this was an action by him against the relationship you have with him. he's flaunting women in front of you, if you don't do anything, he will think he can do stuff like this in the future without being challenged. And if you DO say something in the future, he'll cite these examples of when you were "cool" with it and said nothing.

He's calling you out basically and if you respect yourself, you have no choice but to drop him. He doesn't respect you and he never did.

And remember, that's what he SHOWED you, what didn't he show?

He put in more effort to find, upload, sent that video message than the time it would've taken to text, "Hey, I'm thinking about you."

Drop the asshat.

Jamie05rhs · Accepted Answer

Why would he send that to you? He's a dumbass. Good grief!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't think you're overreacting. Most (all?) guys watch porn, but most (all?) girlfriends/wives like to be blissfully unaware of it. It's one thing for him to watch it. It's another thing entirely for him to send it to you. Like... what are you supposed to do with that exactly? I would be upset too.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Why the hell would he do that? You’re right about being upset but please don’t show your vulnerabletibility to him! Im certain that he sent you that to make you feel jealous and less of yourself. So instead, look very hot and tease him and make him think less of himself.

LiamSawyer · Answer

He was very insensitive, and most of the video girls you speak of are enhanced and fake. I'd much rather a natural woman that I can truly have a relationship with and enjoy each other.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

He was wrong

winterfox10 · Answer

That was pretty insensitive of him, but I wouldn't take it to heart.

dutch69lover · Answer

Maybe he just wants you to dance and shake your ass for him to tempt him but he couldn't tell you so he decided to show you... don't worry about it just shake it for him