If you're into muscular women, how would you encourage your wife/girlfriend to become muscular?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

You can suggest the idea to her and that’s it. It’s her body and you shouldn’t encourage her to change it to fit your standards. If she doesn’t want to become muscular and it bothers you that much then leave the relationship and find a woman who is already muscular.

[Asker]

Encouraging isn't a bad thing. I can't force her. I'm respectful of her choices.

[Opinion Owner]

It is if she has already told you no. That’s why you should suggest it her and if her answer is no then leave it at that.

[Asker]

she's kind of trying to understand my love of muscular women for now. She hasn't said no or anything yet.

[Opinion Owner]

Which is fine but also realise that it can have a negative affect on her. She may feel like you don’t like her the way she is. I think if you truly love her you shouldn’t encourage her to change and just accept her for who she is now.

[Asker]

I know. I'd love if she was muscular, but we've been long enough and have fallen in love with each other. she's the one for me muscular or not.

[Opinion Owner]

Well then there’s no need to try and change her. Just love her for who she is now.

[Asker]

I'll always love her. Its just that she asked me about it, she came to know about this really long ago somehow in our relationship, so i was honest with her about my admiration for muscular women. I've never tried to change her.

[Opinion Owner]

But you just made a post asking how to encourage her to change?

[Asker]

Its a thought. Im just wondering if i can make it sound fun for her. I haven't bluntly told her: "hello love, fancy packing on some muscles for me?"

[Asker]

I guess suggest would have been a better word rather than encourage.

[Opinion Owner]

Perhaps.

[Asker]

I feel its a bit weird. she's known about it since our early days. Im just wondering what must have gone in her head and despite knowing this she's been with me all along.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not sure. You’d have to ask her that question.

[Asker]

True. Im just going to tell her i love her just the way she is.

[more_than_a_guy]

I am an athlete, I will try to workout with her, get her to this field. No steroids and such though. When she sees her results she will probably like it and will continue.

[Berethor]

No steroids, steroids are bad, and I would not want a girl to be more muscular than myself.

[Asker]

My question did not ask about steroids.

[Berethor]

If you encourage her to become muscular then she should do it only in natural ways.

[Ligerzzero]

You can ask her if she wants to join you in your fitness journey, but be prepared for her to be pushed off at you

The thing is she will have no problem with you being fit, but if you want her to be fit as we’ll probably won’t happen, but if the roles were reversed and she was getting fit, she would demand you to get fit or she will dump you.