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He’s asking me to send him nudes?

So this guy I am exclusive with keeps asking me to send him nudes I have said no and now he’s just moody. Because he’s locked up with covid symptoms he’s asking me to send him nudes because he can’t see me but I have explained to him I don’t send nudes I never have and never will. But he’s like ‘ other girls will send nudes but not my girl ‘ I said to him I thought you would respect it that I have never sent a nude before. And now he’s just gone kind of moody I don’t know if i have done anything wrong?
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Guys after I said no to the nudes I asked so ‘ are you not going to continue the conversation ‘he said ‘ yeah we can’ and now he’s not replied. I’m guessing he don’t like answer.
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  • right you have said no, so he should accept that... there are a fair amount of guys out there who assume that demanding nudes or a sexy video chat, is their rite, and they also assume that women are there for their entertainment and desires...

    but he sounds like that's all he's interested in... not you as a person, and not in a more serious way... he's only interested in adding to his score sheet of how many nudes he's gotten from women...
    also the comment "other girls will send nudes but not my girl" is emotional blackmail, and he's pretty much admitting that he's more than likely approached other women and begged nudes off them, bet once he's gotten them he's changed towards them and treated them badly...

    i'd just get rid and find someone who will respect you... it really does annoy me so much when guys forget that getting to know a woman, being respectful to women, is important... i mean had he been more respectful towards you then he could have had something far better than just a few nude pics, he could have had you in his life but... what a complete disrespectful dickweed...

    • Thank you so so much xxxx

    • you're very welcome :) xx

Most Helpful Guy

  • Sounds like you're holding to your personal values.

    If he's asking you to violate your personal values, let him go. And if he's trying to tell you that other girls would, tell him to ask them to do it then. Always be willing to walk away from anyone that wants you to give up on personal beliefs for their in-the-moment benefit.

    Don't give into manipulation in a relationship. Be you and hold to your values. The 'right' guy will respect that and appreciate you for it...

    Find that guy that sees that as being hot. I bet you already know him.

    • Thank you so much!! I will always stick to my beliefs xxx

Most Helpful Girls

  • If he is going to disrespect you every time he doesn't get his own way, that might not be a person/relationship you want to continue with... He should respect the fact you don't feel comfortable with sending nudes... But add that to the fact he said others do, yeah that's not a good sign. That means he's getting sexual with others online, not just you...

    • Thank you so much ❤️

  • Like you said he should respect your decision... if he wanted other girls then he can go ahead. But stay firm especially if you’re uncomfortable. Don’t do it and don’t let him pressure you into it.

    • Thank you so much ❤️ Xxxx

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  • Block him, abd move on to new guy that would respect your decision. Becareful and keep having fun in getting to know guys.

    • Thank you darling x

    • NP 😊

  • Okay, so tell him to get another girl to fit his low standards. What’s the problem?

    • Thanks x

  • I am fine with adults sharing nudes. They should be aware of the dangers and do what they can to prevent problems. But I also 100% believe it has to be mutually agreed. I can understand him trying to convince you, but he takes it way too far. You have made a decision that is intelligent, and he needs to respect that.

  • He’s just sulking a little. I’m sure he will get over it.

    • Hopefully this is true.

    • @Red_Arrow if not then she can upgrade to a better model

    • 😂😂 thank you x

  • no of course you haven't done anything wrong actualy you did everything right don't let ANYONE talk you into doing something you are not comfortable in doing you are amazing most people would have caved in and did it and worried that they were going to turn up on the internet for the rest of there lives which is what happens when you are no longer together the guy thinks it's a good way to get back at them so don't give anyone anything that you wouldn't put on the internet yourself

    • you know after I answer someone's question or place an opinion I'm always exited to read what they think or thought of my response and it seems you replied to everyone but me... it is one of the best feeling to look and see that you have a message especially if you live alone

    • Nope I’m so sorry I was stressed out so I fell asleep and have just seen this now. I didn’t give in and I didn’t send any at all. Your right once it’s out there you don’t get it back. Thank you so much xcc

    • thank you so much for your reply you put a 😃 smile on my face and that wasn't easy because of this cold rainy day

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  • If you're not comfortable with sending nudes then that's solely your choice to make.
    Also, it should be you wanting to send nudes because you feel like it, not because you've been asked.
    Frankly, throw the man out.

    • Thank you so much honestly I appreciate it !! ❤️ It just makes me feel like shit because I said no to a nude he didn’t even bother carrying the conversation on

    • I never asked my ex girlfriend for nudes. I'm happy I made her feel confident enough to do it, about herself and me, the actual photos were secondary to that for me. I knew damn well how hot she looked, but to have her believe it too, that was the good stuff.

    • Awww that’s amazing x

  • I'm moody to lol good for you do it when you want to and only when u want to and if he's your boyfriend how come he getting other girls nudes that's no no good

    • Nope he wasn’t getting it of other girls he said that other girls send it their man but my girl won’t. I said to him my body my rules respect it xxx

    • You know what I love that for a few reasons first because you mean it and second because if he understood the first one and how deep that trust and respect go's you would do it in a heart beat

    • Yep so true xx

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  • Find some cute pussy pictures on the internet, and send those to him! He's probably so horny he won't know it isn't you! LOL!!
    Almost NO guy knows the look of lips and clit, of the lady he is loving!
    But a few of us do, and know!! That piercing scar, from when she had the hood piercing, but took it out; the little 'wrinkle' on the left lip, and the little indent, on the right?
    Yeah, but most guys don't pay attention, and know your body that well!! :)

  • Block him now.
    He's an immature douchebag who does not need to be in your life at all.

    • Thank you so much! Honestly I really appreciate your opinion. I was feeling abit like shit over it but I am glad I said no I told him I don’t feel comfortable with it. I know it would cause me major anxiety if I did and also I like to keep things like that private x

  • He is being a dickhead. Pay close attention to the way people treat you when they get told no.

    • So true thank you x

  • I think he’s probably being a little bit of a pussy about it but I don’t think sending nudes is a big deal either... Keep your face out and let him enjoy seeing your body.. What’s it matter? I mean if you said no then by all means that’s your choice to make and he should respect that but I personally don’t get the issue around sending nudes

    • If men held the cards and were the ones that women were asking to see naked all the time I’d be firing off nudes all damn day.. Enjoy yourselves ladies! Think of me when you get off! Lol

  • He could be using you or maybe you both just aren't compatible. Who knows.

    • Thank you x

  • As is ofen the case with guys they go for the fastest easiest fix for their hard on.

  • No, stay firm. He's behaving badly. Think about whether he's the guy for you. A nicer guy would have accepted your refusal and moved on.

    • Thank you x

  • If he doesn't respect that you don't want to send nudes, and on top of that is trying to guilt you into doing something you aren't comfortable with, he's being a piece of shit. You haven't done anything wrong, please never let someone make you feel guilty for having boundaries.
    Honeslty if I was dating a guy and he tried to pull that "other girls/guys would do it for me!" bullshit, I'd dump his ass right there and tell him he can go find someone whose willing to do that.
    Sometimes you gotta throw the whole man away

    • This is so true thank you x

    • But I have continued the conversation normal with him how do I go about this now? Like I agree need to throw the whole man away

    • I'd just be frank with him. Tell him he's being an asshole by not respecting you, and if having a girlfriend that will send him nudes whenever he asks is so important, then he can go find someone else. Boundaries and how people treat them are so important. If he doesn't respect you on this, what else is he going to try to push you to do, right?

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  • If it were me, I hate nudes, If I have nudes at all, its because I am in them as well and I took the photo or video. I hate the idea of nudes unless I have a long drive ahead of me to meet some tinder date across state and I have to make sure she got what was advertised in the pictures. I love porn once in a while but ill never ask for them unless its myself and her in the pictures or videos that she let's me take. I'd say he will either be a whiney bitch about it and get over it or he will be a whiney bitch and find some hoe that solicits her body on fansonly. com or snapchat. Either way, you win.

    Anyways. Yeah. Hope this helps😁

    • Thank you so much xx

    • 😊 🤗

  • Leave him after running him over with a fast moving piece of machinery

    • Hahaha thanks girl 😂😂 I really appreciate it that x

    • No prob! :)

    • Ok maybe poison his dinner, a little more painful I think...

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  • Girl your better off without him.
    He has plenty of sluts to send him pictures then he don't need you, and you definitely don't need him. Thank you next.
    Find your self a real man who loves and respect you.

    • Thank you so much x

  • I don't think you should send it.
    Block and don't talk to him again.

    • Nope I promise you I 100% did not send the nude and don’t think I would have too. It would cause me major anxiety because I never do things like that

    • If I were you I wouldn't talk to him after this

    • Ok thank you 🙏🏾

  • You do realize once you send nudes they are out there forever. You never know where or when they will pop up. Tell him your not sending any nudes. If he can't accept that your better off with out him.

    • Yes I agree with you there! He did go moody but I messaged again saying ‘ so you don’t want to carry on the conversation ‘ he said nah I’m up for it. But I probs won’t get a message now till the morning and it will somehow go like this ‘sorry I fell asleep ‘ but you was wide awake when asking for nudes 🙄

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