When it comes to sex what do MEN believe is average?

We get so many questions on here from guys asking about penis sizes, sex timings, number of orgasms etc. But what do you guys think is really normal?
Forget what you see in porn or what your girlfriend told you. I'm sure you've seen umpteen articles saying the average size is 5inches or girls don't care.

But do you buy it? It's time to put your cards on the table, what do you think is truly average/normal:-
1) Penis size.
2) Penis size we women actually want.
3) time sex (from Penetration) lasts.
When it comes to sex what do MEN believe is average?
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  • Average penis size has already been established by studies. It seems that the average is just shy of 6". And the average woman is built for that even though vaginas are extremely malleable and adaptable.

    What penis size women actually want? It depends on the woman. What different women want is as different as penis sizes. Some women, for various reasons, don't care is a penis is small. Although, I would say that the majority of women might be unsatisfied with less than average. At the same time, they are quite satisfied with average. And of course there are women who can handle larger than average and love it. I'm guessing that the average women would be thrilled with 7". Bigger than that becomes a challenge for a lot of average women. A lusty woman can definitely handle much more than that.
    In my own experience, though, I had a girlfriend who couldn't have been more sexual. She was about 35 and had had lots of experience in her life. Interestingly, she didn't even care about cunnilingus. She just wanted to go straight to enthusiastic PIV and orgasmed over and over. She was uninhibited and extremely adept. The girl knew how to fuck! In certain positions, when I went deep, I could flick her cervix with my tip. I drove her crazy and she would move her hips to make it happen over and over again by stirring my cock inside her. The way she loved being fucked by me made me feel like a sexual god. I say this because I'm average size. So if that little nymphomaniac was more than happy with me, average length and decent girth ain't bad.

    Time sex (from Penetration) lasts? It all depends. If a guy is really horny and wants a quicky it can last less a couple of minutes.
    I'd guess that the average PIV session might be 10 or 15 minutes. But there have been times when I've gone much longer - 30 minutes or more.
    And, depending on how enthusiastic the woman is, it's possible to keep fucking for hours. One time the woman I described above and I fucked for 9 hours straight without pause. She orgasmed over and over and I came 5 or 6 times without ever withdrawing or going soft.

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  • The thing about statistics, is they are hard to translate into a real understanding. The much quoted 5.5" average doesn't reflect real experience.
    The average will include those with micro-penis problems. Very obviously, confidence issues will eliminate a proportion of them from women's experience. Similarly, the very well endowed will be over represented in women's test samples. Thus ladies will experience an average skewed towards larger than the stats suggest.
    I suspect the "experienced average" may be nearer to 7" than 5.5".

    Women only seem to find penis size important when not otherwise besotted with the guy. If he turns them on for other reasons, then they will be receptive to unimpressive gear (within reason). Lesbians seem to manage sex without massive penises, so...
    That aside, I suspect women are happy with anything that matches their previous experience, but that large is in itself a turn on.

    As for frequency, that seems very variable. I know a couple who have sex about once a month and are very happy together. In my marriage we would have averaged at least once a day. Since starting dating, several women have expressed surprise at how often I am interested, so I infer the average is less than daily.

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  • i've sucked maybe over 100 different dicks and the average is 6 inches... i say sucked because you should know best when you suck... also sucking is more casual... i'm really a churchgirl when it comes to coitus sex.

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  • There is no "recommended" penis size, sizes vary with origin / region, there countries with as high as 8 inches, while others with low as 3.5 inches. So, majority men have 6-7 inches on average. Naturally, very few men have over 8 inches unless enlarged with drugs and penile exercises.

    “It doesn't matter the size of the dog in the fight, rather the size of the fight in the dog" Having over 8 and you don't understand the art of love making is useless, furthermore majority of "standard" sized women don't prefer those extra large dicks because of pain.

  • average size is 6 inches thickness average 2 inches women want an 8 inch dick 3 10 4 inches thick and a dick should last until she's gotten off 2 to 6 times 3 hours

    • so when do we find out who wins

  • I Have no cards I have no clue I don't even care the only thing I have is I have one I don't think about it's size of it the length or the thickness because it is what it is I wouldn't change a thing so I guess this is the last question we will hear about this LMAO sure I have a better question

  • I just really dont care enough about something so juvenile to be honest you'll no if its big enough once you put it to work simple 💁‍♂️

  • Unfortunately
    1. average statistically is 6 US inches erect. Which means many are smaller and bigger than that.
    2. Women don't really seem to care unless it is unbelievably small or unbelievably large. Both of those are trouble in one way or another.
    some women want really big, no one requests really small.
    Take that for what it is worth.
    3. Most women also seem to like not to long and not to short. Penetration rarely equals orgasm for most women. It happens but not even number one way that girls go all the way. Statistical average time is 5.5 minutes. Personally and experientially I can go long enough that some of my partners are clearly like... Lets get this done.
    I suspect that if a guy goes too quick girls are disappointed, too long they begin to question if they turn you on enough.

  • I agree forget porn it fake and unrealistic! Boys masturbate from conception to death. And masturbate regularly and daily regardless of sexual activity from puberty to golden years. The average penis is 5.5". Most women are satisfied with the average. Most guys can masturbate in 5 to 10 minutes. Most couples once the penis is inside the vagina orgasm in 10 minutes. Most are done after the first orgasm a few keep going or rest a moment before going again.

  • 1) statistical average is a little under 6”. Suspect small guys hook up less so the average women encounter is probably 6” or a touch above.
    2) some want average some want large some want huge. Preferring small is uncommon. Most probably want slightly above average but not that much.
    3) on average believe 5-10 minutes. I think the average woman prefers 10-15. Some want hours most just want a bit longer then they’re getting.

    • Has there ever been a statistic that confirmed small guys hookup less or is that your suspicion based on assuming that small guys are too insecure to pursue casual sex in the first place?

  • 1. Not a clue, the size the girl at the time desires.
    2. Every girl is different and will never truly give a straight anwser. So it depends on the girl.
    3. Enough time of penetration sex to give her a orgasim or two. Depending on her mood that day. But after she is satisfied she can care less and even want the guy to stop before he even gets there.

  • -Average is around 5.5 inches

    -I think most women prefer around 7 inches.

    -My guess is 7-15 minutes

  • Cards on table. Had to get my exact measurements for a toy once. The Venus. Made by same company as Symbian. 6.5 long by 5.5 around.

    Average from lots of stuff I've read is just under 6 long by 4 to 4.5 around. Average GaG claims is 8 long by 6 around lol with seemingly every 10+ inch guy in the world uses GaG :)

    Women seem less concerned with length so I think anything 5 to 8 is great. Any longer is painful for some. Width more wanted. Think 5+ there would be preferred. And technique being most important :)

    Avg time during penetration. Bet it's around 5 mins. I've got pretty good control so usually could go as early or late as want. Usually it's within 5 to 15 but sometimes fun to go much longer. Depends on situation especially how much time we have :)

    • Would be nice if they did lol

    • @Trena_Bell lol if they did what? :)

  • 1) 15 cm average / 9 - 25 cm normal
    2) 14 - 25 cm, the funny thing is that most women do not know the measurements, when they see a 15 cm penis they think it is 25 cm
    3) at age 20 it lasts between 25 min and 3 hours (depending if you have something else to do), I guess after 30 it lasts less.

  • Listen clueless one...
    Big-O's don't come from penises in the first place. Duh. LOL

  • 4 - 5

    5 - 9

    20 minutes to and hour

  • 5-6" is average. Women reportedly like 7.5" the most even though most women can't take the whole thing. I think the average time is around 5 - 10 minutes

  • 5.5"
    6.5-7"
    15-20 mints

  • 5-5'5" is average
    5-6'6" is what girls want ( @purplepoppy you say it)
    Time is 10-15 min

  • 1. 5.5"
    2. 6-8"
    3. 30 minutes

  • i think average is 5.5-6 inches
    i think women want 6-7inches
    and i think women would like 20 minutes

  • 5 - 7 "
    7"
    10-15 at least...
    I don't care about size because, I know mine is very satisfying to my lady & she alwayscomments about my size - - soft or hard.
    I am thick & 7 " fully hard & throbbing
    My lady & I usually go to about 15 minutes of penetration probably could be longer but we love foreplay so much & spend so much time edging each other that once I enter her needy wet pussy, we are both ready to explide6.

  • 1. 5 inches
    2. 6 inches
    3. I have no clue.

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