Who should be more sexually aggressive, men or women? Should women make the first move when it comes to sex?

[friendlymbflirty]

I was always taught that guys should initiate. That if a girl did, it meant she was "easy".

Personally, I like the guy to make the first move just because I like to be sure they're interested. I would hate to start initiating something and then have him be like whoa uh I just dont see you that way. I know that guys could feel the same, but I don't know, I guess I dont think about it.

I also could see the appeal of a girl making the first move. First, I guess it could be consider extremely 🔥. Second, no confusion for the guy. She wanted to have sex, she initiated it, I asked to be sure and followed her lead.

What do you think?

[Effably]

Whoever really. If we are being pragmatic then girls are less likely to be rejected and so the likelihood of positive encounters increase.

Where I live the general consensus is that guys make the first move and the general rule in practice is that girls make the first move. It is a happy little contradiction we all agree to.

I think there was a rather interesting few Youtube videos of a man and a woman (both attractive to my recollection) asking 100 strangers for sex. Results being something like 0 for the guy and less than half for the girl. Even if that might not directly translate to more aggressive pursuit of a potential partner, the general tendency probably will remain.

Also it is absolutely hilarious to see some girls try to pursue you.

[justaguy5612]

Men, but I welcome an aggressive girl any day

[purplepoppy]

You don't have to worry if a guys interested in sex or not, the answer is always yes. It's your job to let him know he can have it.

[PrudentGuy]

Your details expressed a traditional view on relationship and sex, where men takes the lead and initiate sex.

But indeed, the word is "traditional", something our parents or grannies followed.

At that time, particularly before the "industrial revolution", women were lowly educated, stayed at homes, did the cooking, washing and making babies.

And men were taught to be "gentlemanly" so as not to violate the girls who are less educated.

Buy hey, its 2020 coming 2021.

Girls are just as, if not more educated than guys. And many are CEOs and Directors or companies, with hundreds even thousands or men under them.

Need me to say more? Feminist movement? Women's rights? Etc etc etc.

Why not initiate sex and propose relationship even marriage?

Come on. Its time to get modern. And while I do initiate sex, I very much enjoy my SO doing so.

[Berethor]

It's traditional for a man to initiate, and it's true that if a woman initiate then she likely easy, but being easy is more about how many cocks a girl had on her then about who initiate.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MenActWomenAre

[swettannie]

mens should definitely make the first moves

[krin_m]

When the moment is right, it does not matter who initiates it! Although, I admit that when a woman wants me, it is very exciting!

[Anonymous]

It's probably the only thing I've always hated about being born a guy in regards to relationships

[Anonymous]

Both can be aggressive. Very often I take initiative.