With birth control, if you take the pill at proper times and don’t take anything else, could you get pregnant if the guy pulls out?

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I’m very curious about what sex feels like without a condom I want to try it with the man that I love since I’m on birth control and never had sex without a condom before. But I have heard wayyy too many women getting pregnant with birth control i don’t know why though I think they might be missing their times or their other medicines are reacting with it but I’m not going to take any other medicines nothing like that and i have two alarms so that I could take it at the correct time. I also have read about birth control and I know that throwing up affects it as well and I don’t throw up so i don’t have to worry about that happening. I have just been using condoms as my only method of birth control and everything has been perfect I’m just curious about how sex feels without them I want to try it for the first time after almost two weeks of taking my pill for the first time.

Berethor · Accepted Answer

Highly unlikely, many couples use only the pulls out method or only pill without pulls out and there is no pregnancy, and using both condoms and pills is very paranoid. Se without condom sure fill much better than sex with condom, it's a different level entirely, a direct contact without anything in the way, also sex would be more spontaneous, because your boyfriend would not need to waste time on putting a condom. Think about being touched by your boyfriend while he put gloves on his hands or being touched by your boyfriend without gloves. You already lost your virginity to your boyfriend, but you never experienced bare sex, a most natural and intimate sex.

As I told you before, pills tend to be associated more with a serious relationship, while condoms tend to be associated more with a casual relationship, you would likely feel closer to your boyfriend after you start having sex with him without condom, but take into a count, once you let your boyfriend have bare sex with you, he would likely never want to go back to condoms, as it would clearly be a downgrade at this point. By the way who's idea it was that you would start taking pills? your or his? anyway I think that the small risk worth it, and you want to have children with him in the future anyway, so even if you get pregnant from him little sooner it's not the end of the world, but it's unlikely to happen if you take you pills in time, and if he use the pulls out method in addition to that.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Most of my girlfriends have been on the pill, and there were thousands of creampies, and never a pregnancy. That's the whole point of the pill.

Nearly all of the pill's failures are a result of either not taking the pill on a set schedule (necessary to keep the hormone levels consistent) or because of some conflicting medication - most commonly antibiotics but there are other things that interfere as well.

In my experience, doctors, and especially non-MDs, such as dentists, do a HORRIBLE job about discussing the potential issues of antibiotics that the prescribe, and a lot of women have no idea that, say, an infected tooth that she's taking antibiotics for will result in her BC pills being ineffective during that time. Doctors need to do much better, but women on BC must learn to ALWAYS ask every doctor or pharmacist about potential BC complications with any medication they are given.

420Rachel · Accepted Answer

I'm not sure about the pill as I've never been on it. But I have the IUD and I have had sex without a condom ever since I got it with no worries and it feels amazing. But don't take this to mean that you should just have sex willy billy on the pill. I've heard many stories of women getting pregnant on the pill. I asked my doctor about this and she said she has seen patients get pregnant on the pill but she's never had a patient get pregnant with the IUD.

AllieOops · Accepted Answer

If you don't want to get pregnant then use both birth control and a condom. The pulling out method has resulted in untold pregnancies. The only way you can be 100% sure that you won't get pregnant is by total abstinence.

nayans · Answer

Sex feels great without a condom and it's a fact. Pullout would work if your guy pulls out well in advance of ejaculation.

wysiwyg2525 · Answer

Self reapect is the key. Also he need to get tested so you can feel comfortable.

nachosaresexy · Answer

Not sure if you're still looking for opinions on this topic but I'll give ya mine just in case. Did you and your guys figure things out yet?

As long as you don't forget/skip any days with the pill, doing that + pulling out is really safe... not 100% but it would be super rare for it to happen.

And yeah - sex without condoms is definitely different, in a good way.

ZackBan · Answer

Well birth control doesn't protect against STDs for starters.
Plus sex without a condom isn't worth the risk that comes with it, especially since neither you nor the man you love can take care of a baby right now.
And make no mistake if you do get pregnant it's YOU not the two of you, he can leave he has the option not to accept it.
But you will have to either carry a human for 9 months and then raise it for the rest of your life or kill it.

So don't let him or anyone talk you into anything, sex is sex an extra layer of protection won't change all that much

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

Technically all methods of birth control are only 99.99999999999% safe, so there will always be a really tiny slim chance.

But again, a super tiny slim chance, is almost nothing. More people die from taking selfies than getting pregnant on birth control.

Bad_Man55 · Answer

All my relationships the girl has been on the pill and I never pulled out. No pregnancy scares. I think being diligent about taking it is key.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

this is stuff you need to know before you have sex. stuff that is common knowledge. maybe you were too eager and started too early?

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

In theory you could, but it’s rare. Just don’t have sex while you’re ovulating and you should be okay. Sex without a condom feels amazing.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I learned that the birth control pill should be taken the same time every day this is why my Cousin who was like a Sister to me cause my late Mom was her guardian up to the year my Mom passed away well this Cousin was on Depo Shot cause they told her that the shot was more active and prevented from unwanted pregnancy but it's hard to say my opinion is to ask the doctor questions.

Ripper_E · Answer

Yes. Birth control is not a guarantee.
Neither is a condom. Every time you have sex, you risk getting pregnant. Birth control will help prevent it, but it can still happen. That's just if he pulls out, he might not.

Samantha_17 · Answer

Men do secret semen (contains sperm) during the course of the sex so be careful.

jeremy_09 · Answer

if you're on the pill he can cum in you it feels amazing and the chances of getting pregnant are extremely low

bannacookies · Answer

Unlikely but possible.

COMMODOREII · Answer

If you are on birth control and need to take antibiotics its best to use a condom. Antibiotics can make birth control ineffective.

Twalli · Answer

You can still get pregnant, but most birth control is over 90% effective. Pull out is no more than 60% effective, because a lot of people fail at it. It should be okay to do it with your birth control.

TallAnon · Answer

Birth control is never 100% and pulling out is useless. Precum also contains sperm. Condoms are the safest. Don't play around with the odds of ruining yours and two others' life.