How to tell a guy has a boner when cuddling?

apart from actually looking at/feeling his crotch if you’re both lying down in bed cuddling, are there any things a guy would do if he had a boner & wanted to hide it? like shifting his legs or moving positions and stuff?
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Superb Opinion

  • Cross their legs, put something over or on their lap.

    When I was a young pup, I didn't hide it from a (who am I kidding, "the") girl because I couldn't: it would peek out the top of my pants and sometimes pop a button. I wished it weren't true. So I just acknowledged the obvious because there was no point in hiding it without turning out the sun or permanently-blinding her with my pastey AF Irish white legs. 😆

Most Helpful Guy

  • you can always reach out to his dick and find out, he'll very much appreciate it if you're so spontaneous and comfortable with his body to do so, so dont worry if he has boner you can check it out with your hand and say something along the lines "i dont want my man to sleep unsatisfied" and give him a hand job or sex
    an older woman in spain used to do this to me, it felt very hot and intimate

Most Helpful Girl

  • If he is cuddling or spooning you and you can't feel it it's probably not there or if it is don't waste your time

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  • Do you know why he wants to hide it?

  • If you cuddling it would be pretty obvious if he had one and couldn't hide it lol

  • What is the point in hiding it? who would do that? When cuddling with a girl it's a natural response to get boner sometimes no need to hide that fact. And well i am pretty sure you would feel it when cuddling. He could try move his position for sure if he was trying to hide it.

  • His legs might tense in an effort to restrain the boner.

  • Casually slide one thigh between his legs.

  • this sounds very sexy, i wish my next boyfriend get boners while cuddling hehe

  • He'd definitely be shifting around a lot.

    You could also sarcastically ask "hey why are you squirming so much, you got a boner down there or something?" He'd probably get all flustered and it'd funny for both of you. Had that happen to me a while back. Good times.

    • It'd be very sweet

    • That it is.

  • It’s possible that he may turn around and face the other way or lay on his stomach so his boner doesn’t show.
    But I don’t know why he should. Girls know about boys getting Erections.😉

  • Listen for a change in is voice.

  • Its ok for a girl to get horny she gets a bit wet.
    But a guy its difficult to hide his horniness..
    Specially when kissing and dancing...

  • usually it becomes visible, or can be felt. But this is kind of inappropriate/invasive unless you know the guy very well and know he is ok with you getting sexual with him.

  • if you're cuddling, hell, if you're hot, and he's looking at you, he likely has one

    it's pretty easy for us

  • grab him

  • Not really, just feel for it. You might be surprised!

  • Usually if he's shifting awkwardly.

  • Put your put tight against his crotch and shift it about.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/atxZKT4HBdM