Guyss my beloved he tried to do sex without my consent but suddenly stopped why?

[Missphoenix789]

Today's night we were just cuddling and suddenly he came over me n while kissing he just took over my pants and constantly kept on saying me to open my legs... but i refused n then he just like started entering it into me saying that its going slowly a bit a bit and then full.. n then aah n those sounds n i told him to stop but he just kept on doing telling me come on baby you can do this... oh yeah n i was telling him that pls stop... pls dont do this... i dont want this i just want u to cuddle me... n what kinda love is thus u dont even lubricate me.. through foreplay.. just lip kisses aren't enough to arouse me... but i dont want to say this to him... i want him to understand it himself... okay n then wht hppnd im continuing... he just took it out... and then suddenly told me that its wrong whatever im doing its wrong i shouldn't have done that... n i was like mad at him that y u just did all this... y without my consent you took over my pants!! Guys what is this kinda behaviour? And can't just cuddling be your only goal any night?

[Anonymous]

"I don't want to say this to him" - say it! It's not the same for us, so it doesn't hurt to "remind" him how it is for you. Every guy is different of course, and some like cuddling more than others do, but it can and often does get us in the mood and wanting more. I personally love cuddling and to just cuddle, but it's also very hard not to keep going! lol So I think you need to try and have a calm talk with him about it and how you feel. But make sure you're calm, otherwise it will just get his defenses up and you'll start a fight, when really all you want to do is talk to him.

[Missphoenix789]

Even i was thinking soo.. thanks bud!❤️

[Anonymous]

He took over your pants.. means he removed your pants and you were in your panty while he was fully clothed and just rubbing his penis through his pants on your panty? Was he erect or just starting to be in mood and hence still soft? Let me know then this question would be clear.

[Missphoenix789]

He took over my pants and then tried to rub my private area... then kissed me and then took over my undie... i was telling him not to do this... to stop... but no he just wanted too... then he took over his shorts and then tried entering it... further u know!

[Opinion Owner]

That's almost rape in a relationship. So he was fully hard and erect when he was rubbing his on yours? You could register a case against him and you could have kicked hus nuts at that time to keep him away

[Missphoenix789]

Hmmm... but y he stopped n realized his mistake?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes it seems so. You really showed your non consent and hence he declined. by the way you were ready to let him have his way and you got yourself prepared for sex by then?

[Missphoenix789]

Uhmm... ya a sort if... cause i love him after all! Was i right?

[Opinion Owner]

You were right in letting him have his way since you love him , but the question is were you sexually aroused by then and prepared to let him in by then?

[Missphoenix789]

Yess... but y u asking this?

[Opinion Owner]

Am just curious and want to know how a female behaves if a male /boyfriend does this to her

[Missphoenix789]

This would only be done between true lovers (husband-wife) not generally cause out of this its undoubtedly a rape🙏 so dont misinterpret!

[Opinion Owner]

No I totally understand. Thanks for warning me ☺️🤗

[Opinion Owner]

Would a woman ever sexually force herself?

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO

[meetkitty123]

If he penatrated you its rape. If he stopped then its Sexual misconduct. He shouldn't have hehaved that way. There is no excuse EVER for a man to touch you without your consent.
The is for less of an excuse for a man to remove your clothing when your asking him to stop.

YOU NEED TO BE CLEAR WITH HIM!
IF He forced himself into your body thats is rape. If he stop before that he needs to be made aware what he did is Sexual misconduct! Thats a crime.
Im sorry you went through this.

[Berethor]

If you looking for just cuddling and kissing then maybe you should be dating a girl. :)

[Arsh01]

It's called sudden switch off.

[Missphoenix789]

Huhhh..

[Missphoenix789]

What do u mean... y such dissapointing replies today... I thought majority would be saying he realised that he was doing something wrong...

[Arsh01]

That's what I want to say. You made him relize what he was doing to you. Sex is combination of mind and body. When one person is not ready for sex his patner can't force to have sex with them.

[Missphoenix789]

Hmmm... but if the one who just keeps on doing? What's that one called?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

What he did according to the USA rules, it was an attempt of rape against you and he should learn to behave the right way and control himself that is horrible for sure and sorry he did that to you

[pinkmermaid]

Where did u copy this erotic story from?

[Missphoenix789]

Excuse me this is true... this is me n my lover!! 😒 It hppnd today night... im asking for opinions not such questions...

[Twenty2]

Did he went fully inside?

[Missphoenix789]

Why u asking this?

[Twenty2]

Because I am confused at your story. So tell me.