Do you think open relationship is better than polygamous and monogamous one?

[Anonymous]

I was actually happiest when I was in open relationship. Ironically I didn't sleep with anyone but just the feeling of freedom and not been tied to someone was blissful in itself.

Poly is weird for me because idea of living with more than one person is beyond me. I'm introvert so I prefer living alone and invite my boyfriend if I want to.

But in open relationship it's just one night. No feelings, plus you get to be as kinky as you want which you sometimes can't get with your S. O.

What's your opinion.

[centerline]

whatever you want to call it...

but yes, it isn't the sleeping with others that is the draw for me, but the feeling of freedom to sleep with someone else if i wanted to without lying or having it affect my marriage...

my wife and I both subscribe to this line of reasoning... we dont care if the other has a need to fulfill with someone else, but we just dont like the feeling of being "chained up"... and with this in mind, neither of us has had the need to use that option... but we HAVE had fun together with others, but just not individually.

[Anonymous]

I think I like the idea of polygamy just a little bit more just because you're not restrained in any way. If you think you might love someone then you're free to explore thoes feelings while not having to give up someone you know you already love. It may sound kinda weird but the idea of monogamy just seems too possessive if that makes sense. Like when someone says "My boyfriend" or "My girlfriend" to me it sounds like you're basically saying it like you own them or something. I don't know I guess I just like to love freely and grow from each new encounter whilst giving my partner that same pleasure/liberty.

[Anonymous]

I can’t do open relationship because when I am in a relationship with him I am fully committed to him I don’t want to share my body or love with anyone else I also wouldn’t be able to share him with another woman either

[Hangry22]

Nope. It depends on the person. For me, i don't like to share and don't wanna be shared. So monogamy is my cup of tea

[Berethor]

As far as I'm concerned open "relationship" is the worse, I could even hardly call it a relationship. If you didn't sleep with anyone then your boyfriend was just lucky, I would not let my girlfriend to be with other guys, as for polygamous relationship, I am okay only with FFM. :)

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MyGirlIsNotASlut

[Berethor]

By the way I think that you mean polyamorous, and if both girls a bi then FFM could work. :)

[Kurαȷ]

An open relationship is not a relationship, is my opinion.

Only exclusive relationships where the two want to be exclusive and be in possession of each other are relationships.
The rest is promiscuity.

[boggboss]

I'm as happy as I want to be being with one partner if I wanted to be free I would have simply played the field and not connect with 1

[roughntuff1993]

Monogamy definitely. But with options...

[Dchrls78104]

For me:
Monogamy is the only way.
Polygamy is a no-no for me.
"Open relationship" is an oxymoron.

[Dave31989]

nope

immoral AF

[andy530]

I think I would be happiest in an open relationship

[Valnac]

That’s what I like about friends with benefits.
You get together and get as wild as you want.

[REDHOTLINE]

Open relation better then monogamous but not better then pollygamous...

[jirwin7979]

i am in an open relationship and i like it but it does have its down sides my girlfriend gets more sex than i do and no other girl wants me not to sure what the other words mean

[DCSTVT]

I’m not into open relationships cause i’m not about to be a cuck.

[billluc69]

open is great and has worked for us

[gandolph3]

i am with you open is best

[Anonymous]

I'm only into serious relationship.

[Anonymous]

I simply can NOT share my mans