Should I be mad about this convo with my ex?

Me: was be better than me?
Her: Actually yes, but i can tell you you're bigger
Me: wait what? How and why?
Her: You know how I always said you hurt after? He didn’t. He was calmer & when I dried up he cuddled me & I got wet & he continued. It was just different & I don't know I liked it a lot
Me: Well sorry guess I’m too rough for you
Her: lol probably
Me: sorry, bet he did eat you like me that I'm certain of
Her: lol, somethings never change with you
Me: whats that
Her: Lol he ate me only once & I don't know if we’ll ever see each other again but it was a good one too
Me: kk, It would’ve been nice to know that you wanted me to be gentler but it is what it is it is the pass so fuck it
Her: even if I asked you to I don't know if you're capable
Me: whats that supposed to mean
Her: you like your sex hard and your sex drive is always
Me: your point
Her: you can't slowdown even if I asked?
How should I feel?
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  • Lol she low key wants you yet testing you. I mean I’d be upset if my ex said the girl (s) after me was better too 😂 I would never ask though. I knew I am the best my exes had anyways just sayin. Gotta believe in your sex skillssss! Lol. But she did bring up very good points and things to consider during sex with your s/o. Love making can be rough which is really hot. But it’s good to be passionate and consider how the girl is getting pleasure for both parties to enjoy it. I know what she’s talking about because I had it rough before where it was no longer “pleasure” but “pain” and that kind of kills the sexy vibe. It’s also about communication and making sure the girl also feel safe during sex. Hope this helps as you asked! :)

    • Thanks it does

    • Glad to hear, your welcome! I'll just PM the rest that you asked of me.

  • Its up to you to take this as a slap or a compliment. Compliment as in you are rough in bed (which sex crazed girls like) and bigger. Slap as in you can't control your libido and urge even if your partner asks.

    • So which one is it

    • Like i said in the beginning , its up to you to decide which is it

    • I rake pride in my roughness

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  • Just learn from it that's all you can do when given criticism you learn from it with the next individual make sure you ask how she likes and what she wants.
    Not saying she was right with what she did she should have said something.
    And it's not right that she loved it in your face what she's done with someone else.
    That's just low of her.

  • Were you mad? It's not for others to tell you how you should feel...

    • No but im. conflicted

    • If she's an ex why does it really even matter

    • Most recent plus my longest lasting one

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  • Sounds like she's been around the block. And you have no reason to be mad. You were a fool for asking those questions, anyway

  • Confused and awkward. This girl is not for you.

    • What do you mean

  • Never slow down. She's trying to trip you up, push your limits. Don't get fooled, keep fucking her hard and rough, she'll learn to love it like the the rest of us

    • I likd you lol dm me

  • Yeah that’s an awkward convo. I wouldn’t have said anything. Maybe you should try and take your time a bit.

    • Yeah i suppose but um. a rough lover

  • She wants you to fuck her again lol

    • Why you say that

  • Probably should be glad she's your ex because she shouldn't be throwing all that details of her intimate act with another guy at you. Better off without her.

    • Sweetie asked her My question is should I be mad I wasn't gentle enough for her or say fuck it, i am rough and big for a reaso and apparently jt wasn't for her all along

  • no you asked