Do men ever get tired of having sex with just one person?

[ragequeen]

Like the girl they are in a relationship with.

[Berethor]

You mean bored, some men compare it to eating the same food everyday, but it still better than not having food at all, men who always look for new excitements, don't tend to be monogamous.

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[Bang5luts]

Situationally, I suppose they could for most men I believe it would depend on the situation. I was in a relationship not too long ago with a woman whom I was very physically attracted to. I got tired of having sex with her because her anger, her immaturity, that fact that she was unappreciative. I wasn't just tired of having sex with her. Her and her five kids were very disrespectful and destructive. And it was a huge turn off. She slowly became ugly to me.

I saved her and her youngest daughters life, and nothing was ever enough for any of them.

So, to answer your question, yes men can get tired of having sex with one person.

[Lliam]

It depends on their sex partner. I had one girlfriend that I never could possible EVER have gotten tired of.

[ragequeen]

what happened? what was good about her?

[Lliam]

I met her when I was around 37 and she was 34 or 35. We practically lived together for over a year. First, her looks matched my physical ideal. When it came to sex, I could write a book on how amazing she was. Just amazing. I'm not talking about any fetish stuff. It's just that she had a super strong libido, her entire body was erogenous, and she taught me how erogenous my own body was. She could drive me crazy with her lips, tongue, fingers and body. One strange thing was, she didn't care about cunnilingus. She just loved dick. We usually had sex twice a day on most work days and sometimes for hours at a time when we could. She orgasmed like crazy. She could orgasm from tittie play. When we fucked, she participated fully and enthusiastically. She had a knack for moving just right and almost reading my mind. She was an expert at sucking dick and swallowed like she was hungry. She was fine with being used for a quicky because she knew what her body was for and actually enjoyed it. But we often engaged on long, loving foreplay that led to amazing sex .

[Lliam]

One time I happened to notice the clock when we started having sex. We wound up fucking for 9 hours straight, without a break, in every position. She orgasmed over and over. Her voice, movements, enthusiasm, encouragement ("Oh God! Don't stop! Fuck me harder!" and stuff like that) kept me fully aroused even after I came. I came 5 or 6 times over that period without ever slowing down. By the time we finished we were both slippery with sweat and cum. Another time, I was taking her from behind and saw her dildo on the bed stand. It was one of those smooth, bullet-shaped vibrators maybe 6" long and not too big around. I slipped it into her ass while we fucked. The sensation was amazing. She came like crazy and I came so hard that I thought I would blow a hole in her. She was uninhibited and willing to experiment. I even fucked her in the ass once. This was before on-line porn when anal became a thing. I was taking her from behind and got caught up in the moment. She had the prettiest butt crack and hole and I wondered what it would be like. I asked her and she said ok. She took it like a trooper. I don't know if she had ever done it before. It felt good but the thought of it was more erotic. I just wanted to fill her body completely. I'm not an anal guy, though and she never asked for it again.

[Lliam]

We loved each other. She's the first woman out of all my previous girlfriends that I loved with my entire heart and soul. We wound up breaking up for reasons that are complicated. They didn't have anything to do with sex or not loving each other. She moved out of state not long after. After our breakup, I felt like my guts had been kicked out to the point of feeling nauseous at times. I took almost a year for me go get myself back together. Years later, she connected with me on Facebook and we spoke a few times on the phone. Her voice brought back all the memories. Just having contact with her and knowing that she was in the world following her dreams filled me with joy. (By this time, I was married). Several years later, I heard that she had died from a sudden medical problem. It left a huge hole in my heart that will never heal. I couldn't have loved her more and will never forget her. I couldn't be more grateful for the good fortune of being part of that amazing woman's life. It was a peak moment in my life.

[centerline]

yes... which is the biggest and best reason that polyamorous relationships are a "thing" ...

[Red_Arrow]

When single I had sex with various women. Then met “the one” and got married. Was very happy with just her till after a long marriage cancer claimed her.

[triff]

That would all depend how much love you share and how much respect he has It does happen unfortunately This is no reflection on you but Probably enjoys the buzz of getting away with it Some men also are players and will stray from time to time But don't judge him until he can either reassure you or propose Good Luck let me know

[Jjpayne]

I view it this way.. think of a video game system. How many times can you play the old games? Would you be excited if another system came out?

Overtime, doing the same thing with the same person over and over can start exciting then lead to boring.

Being with a new person is exciting then experiencing sex with them is exciting. Then after awhile it loses its excitement.

Your brain starts to think about new experiences.

I don't plan to do this myself and I'm not saying anyone should cheat on a partner but that's what I think is the problem and the mindset.

And their are ways to keep intimacy always fresh and different without a partner change

[virtue2332]

I've consistently had sex with the same person for a little over 35 years. It didn't matter if I was in a relationship with someone else or single and looking for someone new. I always find ways to connect I get creative once in a while and so far I haven't gotten tired of myself yet. It has to stand for something.

[Jjpayne]

@virtue2332 thank you for that, it is refreshing to hear

[Levin]

Not if we love her.

[David92506]

It's not that I get tired of having sex with the same woman, it's just it becomes a normal event. It's no longer exciting. I've read where married couples only have sex once or twice a week.

[wankiam]

i dont tire of sex with one person when in a relationship but i do find i need to still masturbate a lot and look at porn regularly which is what maybe takes that edge off constant window shopping for me personally

[GingerGuy]

I never have. I don't get that really.

[DJB72]

It depends on what you mean by "men"

A Real Man will stand by the woman he loves. Sex is important but not the primary reason they are together for him.

A Man-child who is stuck in his adolescent behaviour will tend to be more selfish and put sex as the only reason to date a woman. That individual will be distracted by the next set of curves that comes by.

Steve Harvey recommends the 90 day rule: don't get physical for the first 90 days of dating. You can tell what kind of man he is very easily in that time! If he starts to pressure you he's in it for himself only. You want a Man who is going to treat you the way you deserve.

[MikeTheBartender]

I definitely do. I think men that have been w a lot of women will suffer this. It sucks but yes we do. And it doesn't matter sometimes how kinky the girl is, some men are just not meant to be monogamous.

[DavidFox]

Yes.

[Tea-Spaghetti]

I don’t know never had a relationship.

[ColHathi]

Probably, if it's mostly a superficial relationship, but I imagine the same could be said for girls.

[Browneye57]

Not if she's worth a shit. Are you?

[Makeushiver]

Not much more than women do.

[MLGbreezy]

Hmm I feel like everyone does if you don't keep shit entertaining and fun. thats why I generally prefer girls who are a bit more freaky, they are into more of the stuff I'm into , they are open minded and like to do fun stuff to keep the sex fun

[thehorriblesheikh]

I don't think I could have sex with the same person.

[AmeerX]

No that's not possible

[riker27]

I hate as
Ting this but yes sometimes we miss those days of hitting strange it’s not something we talk about but yes 😕🤦