Is it suspect if I find my girls pussy shaved/trimmed we don't have much sex and she says it's none of my business getting angry when I ask about it?

Yes, how can that not be your business in a committed relationship?
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No, shaving my pussy has nothing to do with sex
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  • Some people find shaving or trimming more comfortable than letting it grow out, some people do it for hygiene (I have to imagine it's much easier to keep clean down there, especially during that time of the month, with less hair, some people just like the look, and yes, some do it for sex.

    • The point being, people don't just shave for their partners.

    • So I'm assuming you asked her about it, she said something along the lines of "I just prefer it", or "no reason", but you thought there was more to it and kept asking until she got pissed that you wouldn't let it go, and now here we are

    • No dumbass. I know how she usually keeps it and when we first started dating she was already seeing another guy in another country and I wouldn't have asked if it wasn't out of the norm. It's not something she would do very often and she went off way too hard, suspiciously hard immediately. First time I asked her. She has asked me the same question before. There are other factors/reasons I am concerned. This particular thing is one I can't really assess the importance of so I asked the community. Don't assume. I am far from some jealous loser mysoginistic jerk that berates my girlfriend until she has no dignity left. Thank you.

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  • I'm actually amazed at these guys responses. You really think we only shave our pussy for you? Maybe she got angry because it's embarrassing to explain why she'd want to shave her pussy... Like for example it gets hot/sweaty, and feels weird against underwear. Maybe it just makes her feel sexy.. Or Maybe she doesn't like to have hair, and prefers it smooth. Let me guess, you guys think we shave our legs for you too. WRONG.

    • Actually I had huge misunderstanding out of this. This girl said she is a virgin and never had boyfriend. She pretended as very innocent too. One day she trimmed her down there for me while I was on camera. I saw she had specific tools for that. Also she said she used to trim hers to look like hearts. To be honest it made me suspicious of her. And I had doubts she sending nudes to guys before; she was saying she took those thinking about me. Tho they had very old timestamps. All of them made me to think she was very sexual and could be a camgirl. And relationship came to an end after 5 months of arguing. For all those times she never accepted she sent nudes to guys. Yet only her nudes had this timestamp issue

    • And I didn't argue for that. I knew she sent those. Even how badly she refused to accept it. I just needed her to be honest with me. Because relationship depends on trust. If I can't trust her, It is just a toxic relationship.

    • if it is a change in behavior that is suspect. Had a girlfreind never shaved or cared to shave. I didn't mind. One day she starts. I ask why she said she just wanted to. Ok no problem for me. Get suspect when she stops answering her phone often. she comes over drunk passes out. Went with my gut and sure as the rising sun. Nude pics sent to a guy the same time she started shaving. Said goodbye and kicked her to the curb. we where exclusive for over a year. Glad i didn't propose. Had already bought the ring 10 thousand that stayed in my pocket. Another girl dyed her hair blue same time she started cheating. Don't know why but in my experience. Drastic changes from the normal have shown me they wanted a lot of change. cheated on 4 times in relationships. So i am not trusting much

  • lol all you guys REALLY out here thinking that a trimmed vagina equals to sex. I don't have to be in a relationship to shave/ wax my pits, legs, and vagina. Most women do it because it's just more comfortable, hygienic and smells less. lol like it's really that simple. y'all acting like some detectives reading waaaay to much into the situation. lololol.

    • So it's way off base as opposed to some other change in behavior that trigger read flags pretty universally? And it's in your opinion not out of the norm to be that defensive about it to the person you have sex with? I am just wanting to understand your position. Thank you

    • In general if you're just having a chill conversation and you appropriately bring the subject up in a not so accusatory tone then if there's nothing to hide or it didn't come off wrong then you should get a straight forward answer. BUT if you asked her in a more accusatory tone then it might not even be that she has something to hide but that she's offended that you'd think that. But yeah if there's no other signs then I'd let it go for a while but still talk to her about it sometime just to properly deal with it.

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  • Why are you with her if your relationship isn’t meeting your needs?

    • Because I Love her and she has earned my loyalty. And I have to know for sure before I do something drastic. Or she is a covert narcissist and I am totally fucked.

    • So you will be ok with years or decades of sexual frustration? If not, how much longer are you willing to continue as is?

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  • Yeah, sus. The defensiveness part.

  • If it's a deviation from how she normally has it then it could be cause for concern.

  • If you 2 become committed then I would ask her how she wears her kitty is it trimmed, shaved, bush, etc but my advice get to know her and go out for some dates, make sure there is something there that is for real and not some game?

    • It's coming on 3 years together

  • Bin her shez a that... a bald one at that

  • Move on

  • Very suspect. Do you shave your balls if you ain't fuck'n someone you wanna impress. Check her phone or PI. 70% Chance she is cheating

    • No I do not shave my junk unless I am expecting to have sex or it gets too bushy but I a guy so not sure there is a comparison to be made there. And I don't check her phone. That's not cool.

    • Been cheated on before recognize the signs. Shaving for someone

    • Yeah I am inclined to agree. It's definitely not being done for me

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  • I could see thinking that IF a girl showed other signs of cheating. But otherwise no.

  • yes she been hoeing around
    time to kick her out

  • What

  • You own that pussy so you have a right to question.

  • Yeah it’s suspicious, especially if she says it’s none of your business

    • The other guy likes it shaved I suspect

  • If she gets angry when you ask about it, that;s a huge red flag. And since the vast majority have exactly the same strategy, it might be time to walk...

    Is it suspect if I find my girls pussy shaved/trimmed we don't have much sex and she says it's none of my business getting angry when I ask about it?