Has a guy ever forced you to give him oral?

[Anonymous]

I have this sex buddy. We have been sex buddies for about 3 years now. (Don't judge me, I just want sex with no relationship
) Anways we had sex yesterday and he asked me to give him oral. I said no, I used to do it for him but them I stopped. So he choked me and pulled my hair and and while he was choking he said "want me to kill you?" He is also a narc? When were done I played it off so and act like it was normal. Now, im crying while typing this. Should I go to the police?

[BensGlory]

Report him as he may do it or already has done it again, sounds like he doesn't like the word no, yo should get the police involved soon as

[Bad_Man55]

Umm yea. That's fucked up, and so is he. Hope you don't deal with him anymore

[Asker]

I know. But other people would say "what do you expect? You're a toy."

[Bad_Man55]

Those people are idiots. You are a person with rights regardless of the nature of your relationship. There is no green light to take advantage of someone sexually and threaten them no matter the circumstances

[Asker]

Exactly thank you. Then someone said " but you two were already having sex.'' Yes , I agreed to have sex but I disagreed to do oral.

[Bad_Man55]

Exactly!! Just because you are having sex with someone does not mean they can or you can do whatever you want regardless of how the other person feels. Sex is a ever evolving agreement that during the process both people have to be willing and agreeable to what is happening

[ct1243]

This dude raped you non consensual by oral. He’s a sick fukko that should be handled by the police 👮‍♂️

[Djaay]

What part of her discriptive connotation resonates as rape?

[Asker]

@Djaay they are saying this because he tried to shove it in my mouth after I clearly told him that I'm not doing it... If someone won't you oral, YOU CAN'T FORCE THEM!

[Djaay]

didn't see you write that tho. Without your graphic description of the event , how can others opinionate correctly. Furthermore according to your notation now , why is this a question? Like your not sure its a sexual assault.

[Asker]

@Djaay I clearly put that in the description

[Djaay]

Clearly where? Besides... ill tell you that thats ; 1) Aggravated assualt 2) Terroristic threating 3) Sexuall assualt...+

[Djaay]

DKW that smilling face came from

[FeministHater_]

relax he just wanted a blowjob u making it big deal
next time just wake him up with a good slow blowjob

[Asker]

Umm..

[Waz2020]

Nobody should be forcing anyone to do anything

[BadBoiJon]

I dont think so... Some guys like it rough and its not really considered rape if you were already having sex with him... I for one like oral and would maybe do the same lol

[Asker]

Well yes we had sex. But I told him the day before that I'm not gonna give him oral. If I tell you that I'm not gonna do that, why are you trying to shove it in my mouth?

[BadBoiJon]

Oh well in that case nevermind then sorry

[Asker]

It's okay

[Asker]

But I see what you mean. Yes, I agreed to have sex but I did disagree to oral

[BadBoiJon]

i dont think u shouls see him anymore im available... lol XD kidding bro

[Anonymous]

You were sexually assault yes definitely report it to the police

[Anonymous]

Probably should get the police involved.