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Guy ghosted me after I found broken condom and confronted him?

Hi. So this guy and I have a history. We got intimate early this year. However I got bad vibes and walked away from him. Things ended messy. He ended up orbiting my social media for 8 months. Eventually we reconciled. He said he didn’t want to just have sex with me. He wants to hangout, laugh and share everything with me. That he wanted to see me 3x a week. We had sex 2 times. He said he finished both times. He put them in the wrappers and gave them to me to throw away. So the night ends and I asked if he will come back tomorrow (as we talked about). He said he doesn’t know. He may have to do something else. I said oh ok well just let me know. I noticed he also left his jacket. I texted him and he told me he will come back for it. Next day comes. He texts me saying hey how’s your day. I replied and said it’s good! I asked if he’s still coming over and wants his jacket. He didn’t reply for the rest of the day. Next day I still haven’t heard from him. I’m feeling down and decided to take the garbage out. I see the condoms are in my trash with no bag so I had to transfer them. They smelled horrible. Something told me to check them. 1 condom had a neon green line/ liquid in it. I checked the other condom and it was broken with no semen of course.
I texted him and said hey did you notice that one condom is broken? Did it break when you took it off? I also told him he should get tested because there’s a strange color in the other one. He tells me that yes he knew it was broken. It broke when he tried to take it off and tried to be careful. That he will get tested and he’s sure he’s fine. But I’m a bit defensive because he has a track record of not telling the truth. I ask him “where did the sperm go? I may just be overthinking but I’m nervous.” He got angry and said he’s weirded out and never had someone look at his sperm before. Never heard from him since then. why didn’t he tell me about the broken condom? Now he’s gone and I feel like it’s my fault.
This dude used you and you caught him lying. Don’t ever talk to him.
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  • I highly suggest YOU get tested. If this dude's a liar there's no guarantee he will get tested on his own and tell you the truth about it.
    Also his attitude seems like a way of avoiding responsibility.

    • But he has 2 kids. I don't know why he’s acting like this with me. His responses shocked me

    • Having 2 kids gives you no guarantee of anything

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  • If he has a history of not telling the truth thank your lucky stars that him walking away is you dodging a bullet

    • Yes I’ve been told that I’m lucky he walked away. It just sucks because I’m in the dark. Yes he may be telling the truth but why couldn’t he just communicate with me instead of running away/stopped replying

    • Not sure why someone downvoted what I said anyway Nah a guy who is telling the truth wouldn’t react that way sorry I’m muting this conversation the downvote has really upset me because I didn’t say anything disrespectful

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Guys sounds like a huge asshole, you’ll find someone better! I wouldn’t waste my time on this one tbh...

  • Get rid of the guilty guy

    • Why do you say guilty

  • Maybe he found out he had something and ran. Get checked out asap

    • Why did he avoid me after he said he wanted to see me 3x a week as well? He got sex and just changed everything. He said he didn’t want this to be a one time thing. That he wanted to do this for a while.

    • i think he took your advice got checked out and found he had something. Got scared and bailed. Check yourself. But he might just be fuck boy too.

    • Well he bailed the same day I texted him. He also has 2 kids as well? But I’m going with the fuck boy answer as well

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  • He may be telling the truth and you overreacted

    • But why did he run away from the conversation? I told him I may be over thinking and he called me weird and just stopped talking to me. He could’ve just said you’re fine. It seems like you don’t trust me though so let’s not continue our arrangement. Good luck.

    • im sure he will be back, how long has it been?

    • It’s been 3 days... but he’s posting on social media as normal. He didn’t read my last text message either

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