Men, do you ever enjoy being the submissive one during sex?

If you do, what are the things you want her to do and say?
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  • Definitely.

    The short and boring answer is I'd like for her to say and do precisely what she wants.

    To add a little more detail... I'd like her to tell me how she wants to use me, give me commands, depending on the situation perhaps degrade me, call me names, tell me how worthless I am. I'd like for her to have fun, tease me, run her fingernails over my chest, bite my nipples, maybe spank me. I'd like for her to keep me waiting in anticipation. I'd like for her to use me, have me massage her, or grab my head and steer it around her body, telling me to pleasure her. I'd like her to tie me down to the bed to have fun with me. I'd like her to ignore my pleasure completely, not touching my cock at all until she wanted to, and even then just for edging or maybe a ruined orgasm. And if she was into it, I definitely wouldn't mind a little strapon play.

    But overall, she could do whatever she wanted to me. The important thing is she had fun.

  • Ocassionaly. I like her to throw me up against the bed board and ride my dick like a bucking bronco. Set me down and thrust my dick like a pick axe tunneling through the earth. I sit back and take the thrusting with pleasure. Also had a girl when i was really young throw my hands back as she went balls deep and ate my load. That was also nice.

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  • That's just not for me at all - me being submissive just doesn't compute in my brain - it's like a "divide by zero" error.

  • Sure, well it's probably very individual but I'm not into degrading stuff but like her taking control and doing whatever she wants kinda. Everyone has different limits so that's something you will always have to figure out.

  • yes... I like a slightly dominant woman, one that knows what she wants and how to get it from me...

    other times I like being the dominant one...

  • Sure. I’m happy to make her happy as long as it’s just the two of us in the moment.

  • Hell yes! My ex drove me nuts tying me down and then taking her time making sure she was fully satisfied. Sometimes that meant I didn't cum at all, sometimes she would keep stroking long after I'd climaxed so she could hear me beg - either to stop or to keep going. Either way I ended up with throbbing balls!

    I loved being helpless at her mercy. Great fun! 😀

  • Im mostly submissive, but not in a slave-like way and i dont like a harsh domina. For example i like worshipping a woman. Massage her and make her orgasm in many different ways. With my hands, mouth or toys. I like it when sex is only about her pleasure and she doesn't make me cum at all. But it is always kind of sweet and nice.
    But i also love harsh femdom fantasies of ballbusting amazons 😋 but thats for fantasy, not reality

  • Of course as long as both are comfortable with it. Tell him to do anything you enjoy. e. g. bite my nipples, suck my toes, jerk off into my mouth, lick my clit, etc.

  • Yes, it's hot when a woman is dominant. Naturally I am dominant. Not much of a follower. When it comes to sex, it's either or.
    If she's dominant she's in control so I take her lead in what she wants to do.

    • How about in the way she talks to you, would you want it demanding or like in a sweet way?

    • Sweet. Demanding. Both. I'm submitting to her so it's up to her. If at any point I have an issue with something, I just let her know.

  • nope. am a dom

  • i would try and like im sure but my ladies have not been the type for that stuff.

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