NSFW: What if one person in the relationship wants to fuck and the other wants to make love?

[Whatthefluff]

[MrOracle]

in my opinion, you take turns. That way, you both get what you want some of the time, and you both give your partner what they want some of the time. That's called a compromise, and it requires you to have open and honest conversations to come to a compromise that you can both live with.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

There is always foreplay to take care of the one who wants sex and the one who just wants to make love I always think about giving a girl a full body massage and going all over watching her nipples get hard and clit hard begging me to make her cum

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for most helpful guy :)

[Anonymous]

Ideally, I'd want to "fuck" and him to "love".
Why.. because If I have intimacy I'll be in love and probably already emotionally attached.

[Jamie05rhs]

Where do you draw the line?

[Opinion Owner]

@Jamie05rhs Let's just say that when a woman truly loves you, sexuality will be a big part of the materialization of the experience of loving the person.

[Jamie05rhs]

Maybe I misinterpreted your statement. "because if I have intimacy I'll be in love and probably already emotionally attached.". Did you mean you would feel this way before you had sex? Or after?

[Opinion Owner]

@Jamie05rhs Once a woman has sex with a guy, she get emotionally attached forever. (As much as people might deny this) So before having sex, she really must love that person. That's why I say I prefer to fuck them and they to love me. I think most men in general enjoy sex. Yet I'd only enjoy it if I am in love with the person.

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm still confused; sorry. What is your actual objective? To fall in love and then have sex? Or to have sex ("fucking" "them") without falling in love?

[Gwenhwyfar]

PM me if you wanna talk about this. I have some questions I need to ask you.

[ririissleepy]

Take turns. Its a fair compromise.

[hahahmm]

You start the type of sex you want when the mood strikes. The guy starts the type he wants when the mood strikes.


Equality

[ohshee]

I would do it her way first then do it her way again and her way again and then take her for a real ride so the next time we did it she would be saying can I come with in stead of going my way lol

[Jjpayne]

You comprise. You meet each other halfway. Your sacrifice will help to allow he other to sacrifice for you so you are sharing with each other

[JPrez]

I would adapt accordingly. If it were a continual pattern then we would need to talk it out.

[slatyb]

Maybe they aren’t compatible.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Make some lovely fuck.

[Brutallyhonestgal]

Compromise with half and half

[temp292]

fuck the one who wants to make love to you; simple!

[temp292]

"NSFW": don't need to mention that, because this whole site is!

[AmandaYVR]

THIS

[JosyJosy]

Same shit

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

think she means getting the rose petals out, candles burning, ambient light, slow music, lingerie with a lap dance, massage, kisses and an hour of sex? is this is how it is everytime with you? lol

[JosyJosy]

@ChocoBrownieMonster I'm not the romantic type at all, no need for candles or roses. As for the rest, yes massages happen, we go slow and build it up, everytime

[TeeSquare]

Same question 2 mins apart from 2 different accounts? Interesting.

[Whatthefluff]

We are having a serious argument.

[Travis_Skyles]

It's not that serious

[beebella]

Make love first, then fuck.

[Makeushiver]

I'm actually not sure what the lexical difference is. I understand the difference between the 2 concepts but I need to know what you mean by the difference before commenting

[Massageman]

Yeah- I've been there.
You just have to discuss it and work it out. Alternate, combine, make f - - kin' love maybe. What works for you works for you. And when you guys figure it out, let me know too.

[RastamanJah]

There's only one key to the handcuffs. Guess you flip for it. I'm assuming he will call heads.

[tofamous]

Well see there is no I or I in us Relationships are selfless act called recipe procity.. It's all about me where she at, In all things we have to have balance in consideration for another expression I in relationships if I'm looking to please her before self and she's looking to please me before herself well we got a winner here and in the fucken/ love making becomes fantastic

[DeviloftheValleys]

in that case, the two persons are not consenting to the same act, and they should do nothing.

[Samantha_17]

Fucking = Making love :)

[Jamie05rhs]

Sounds like a match.

[smahala1991]

If it's the right person do both