Virgin, how should I get over it?

So im 26, I look decent, have stability, am mentally healthy but I've neglected women in my upbringing in favor of striving for success in other fields of my life. Im still a virgin and want to get it over with. Here are my options:

1. Hire a hooker
2. Sex with a friend (she's not my type, and has prostituted herself and used to do cam shows)
3. Go to public places and talk to women (flirt, tease, sexual jokes, spit game, take her to my house and get it over with)
4. Ignore it, search for a relationship and hope one day it'll happen.

Any other options are welcome. Im embarrassed of my virginity and want to get it over with.
Thanks,
Virgin, how should I get over it?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Go out of town and meet someone in a bar or club and go home with her and spend the night or just leave after the deed is done.. also use a fake name. It's faster than going to online dating sites where you have to play dm/ phone tag with someone until they agree to meet up with a lot of extra time, work and possible scheduling for dates in which you may not even gave sex. Also another fast way is to use hookup sites where married people who are very discreet and want to have sex will do you a solid and pop your cherry, free of charge and with zero obligation to stay connected with them. Use your own descretion for these options.

  • I don’t know how men handle virginity compared to women. But somehow women can hold off longer and guys usually go to the bars and pick up a drunken chick. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • Yeah, thats probably because woman face more repercussions for wrong sexual decisions. They also produce more oxytocin than males and become attached to their partner. Obviously this effecr wears off after multiple partners and women have difficulty committing. I, as a male have minumal repercussions so i dont really care who i do it with as much as a woman might.

Most Helpful Guys

  • If it was my decision I believe it would be the friend. I have the opinion that we never know exactly what our type is until carnal is fully explored with the person that we're going to sleep with. Also if she is truly a friend maybe you should be a lot less judgmental m

  • I was very close to going with a friend as she was actively offering, but in the end I waited for a real connection.

    I think I would have been satisfied either way, but passionate sex with someone you love is an amazing first time. It was worth the wait.

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  • Find a willing girl, fuck her, job done.

    • How would one know if a woman is willing?

  • Virginity is nothing to be ashamed of, it's actually virtuous. I know everyone sees that differently but that's what i think.

  • If you don't want a relationship or care who you lose it to I'd go with the friend. Seems like the safest option in my opinion.

  • I see your body, not your face.

    • Yes, I wish to remain anonymous

  • I see nothing wrong with that man