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No, that's not normal, ejaculation shouldn't hurt. There's comments below about "blue balls", but that isn't pain (apparently some guys claim it's painful to be left aroused and not get an ejaculation as a rather creepy tactic) it's just a little pressure and most importantly it goes away after ejaculation, it doesn't get worse. Pain in the testicles can make you feel sick, and orgasming with bruised testicles does hurt a lot. Is he possibly getting bullied and has been kicked there?
When you say "had cumm", is he releasing ejaculate or just orgasming? One thing that I can think of that could cause this is retrograde ejaculation, where due to things contracting in the wrong order the ejaculate ends up in the bladder instead of coming out of the penis. That's not hugely serious, but can trigger a bladder infection (or aggravate an existing one) which can hurt.
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As a teen, if you get really aroused, and don't get off, some say it hurts, and 'blue-balls'. I never had that problem, and sometimes, I was really hoping to love a young lady, but when she said no, it was a disappointment, but not painful!
I think a lot of guys use this "blue-balls" thing as an excuse, to pressure her into having sex, when she doesn't want to!
Like guys have NEVER manipulated, or 'guilted' women into having sex?
Unless he is doing something strange, like crushing on his, as he gets off, it shouldn't hurt, after he has the orgasm.
If he is having pain, after ejaculating, then maybe he needs to see a urologist, and see if there is something wrong with his prostrate, or maybe have a scope, up his, penis, and check his bladder, and prostrate.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Multiple men have provided answers that may relate to ywhat your son experienced. There are many names for this (being blue-balled, being edged to discomfort, etc.), and what he experienced is likely normal and not likely a life-threatening condition such as a testicular torsion. This may have resulted from too much stimulation/masturbating prior to orgasm.
However, if he has blood in his urine, has discomfort with urination, or other genitourinary symptoms, being seen by a healthcare provider may be necessary since conditions such as ureterolithiasis (kidney stones when the stone is in the ureter), STIs, and other conditions are important to be ruled out.
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I've had it happen to me once when I did it too many times in one day. He just needs to calm down and do it less often and he'll be back to normal in a couple of days. That's kinda an odd thing to tell your mom about by the way lol.
I am the only parent he has to talk about such embarrassing things... it sucks that he doesn't have a male figure to talk to about such things. So he trusts me bc I wouldn't judge him or make stupid comments.
I see. I still think that would be an extremely embarrassing conversation. Even with my guy friends or brother.
Yes absolutely agree. But as a teen child its worse bc teens can make fun or just feel weird around the topic. So ya, its embarrassing for my son to talk to me, but also he trusted me a lot for him to come and talk about what he was experiencing. Which its totally fine with me, he is my son and I will try my hardest to be there for him. Hard being a single mother.
yes... too much jacking off as a young teen can cause this... as guys get older it happens too, BUT it is caused by getting turned on and nothing happens to release the pressure... the condition is referred to as "blue balls"...
Now I really am getting it... thanks a lot.
I never had anything like that happen. I recommend checking with a doctor. Because of covid, a lot of doctors will take consults over the phone or video, so you may not even have to go in.
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I did feel lower abdominal discomfort a few times in my teens and 20's after ejaculation, the area between the belly button and private region, belt buckle level.
Might be worth getting checked, but probably nothing.
He was on the verge of getting blue balls if that actually happened to a guy yes he was right there on the road to getting blue balls he could say he's had blue balls before now
I have read ina couple of times several guys said they've never got blue balls or maybe a little bit of discomfort I had this one girl friend give me blue balls so bad every other day all she wanted to do was suck on my dick and play with it she would never get me off and all that muscle tension for hours would cause me to have the worst blue balls anyone would have ever gotten I couldn't even get up and walk the next day two days later I was still hurting and she done that quite often to me and there was this sickness in my stomach it was almost like poison that since I didn't get off it would just it stayed in the system it's not good it's better not even to go around a woman if that's all she's going to do
Thats awful!!! And crewl to any man to go through that!! Sorry to hear that. Hope you find someone that would let you go off...
Yeah I'm sorry about my Frank speech I tend to say what I think speak my mind I'm talking into text to speech app and it does real good some words it messes up but I've heard guys on here say that other guys use blue balls to get girls to have sex with them so they wouldn't have the blue balls well it's a real thing and it depends on how excited you get how turned on you get and I think enough said
I've never had that. What I have had tho is being with some one and getting so turn on being really hard and wanting sex but for what ever reasons you don't have sex and for the next 4 hrs or until you masturbate I would get blue balls and they hurt then
lol.. I think some of us sometimes, at least for a few seconds, get that "wtf are you doing?" vibe. But not all that often. It is more difficult if, like me, there was zero (and I mean zero) talk about sex. I never had the "sex talk" and there was no internet. I had to figure it all out myself. That was not good. But if it is a serious thought or lasts more then a min or two, he might benefit from talking to a psychiatrist.
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That sounds like he blue balled himself started masterbating then had to stop for some reason just before climax from what you described that's what happens when you do that is so painful
Dont worry about the orgasm part. Normally its something along those lines and feels good too. But i understand that you're worried over his reaction? Anyhow better to keep an eye on him if he shows pain. If not better to leave him alone to his time.
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