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Guys, Would you be willing to hook up with a girl again if you thought she was really hot if she gave really bad head?

I hooked up with this guy yesterday and I let him know it was my first time doing anything. I didn't realize at the moment but he went down on me first and way longer than I went down on him even though I liked it only a little bit not that much (not as much as I thought I would- thank you wattpad fanfics for making my hopes so high). I'm really bad at keeping track with time since we did a few positions I thought it was a long time but I realized it wasn't afterwards. I don't know why I assumed sucking dick was easy af because I think I teethed him 3 or 4 times. But I know he was attracted to me because he got a boner even before I took my clothes off and when I went to go down on him his thing was all the way up. Anyways I told him that I probably wouldn't wanna do this again and he said sorry n left. Anyways I realized today that we both sucked at oral sex and that if we kept trying we could get better and this could be a good friends with benefits situation without the friends part so I messaged him today asking if he wanted to do it again in his car and he said not really. This is way too long but just wondering if you thought a girl was hot but she is really bad at giving head (it was my first time n I told him that a few times- don't think he believed me until my teeth came in- I was trying my best) would you be willing to hook up with her again if she asked. Just wanna know a boy's POV yes I know all boys aren't the same and yes I already communicated all this with him he left me on read for hours so I'm here.
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Ok so I was completely wrong he just said he didn't want to do it again because he realized he didn't want to do this stuff and wanted to wait until marriage.
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bruh bye i didn't believe his marriage bs for a second its j bc im currently horrible at giving head lmaoooo another boy told me at least he was honest
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  • I am "taken" but I have been there. I never hooked up for the purpose of sex alone. Either I wanted a formal relationship or a friends with benefits, including the friends. I viewed a first encounter as an "interview" for both of us. All it had to be was promising.

    You said: I told him that I probably wouldn't wanna do this again and he said sorry n left.
    *Why would you say that? First encounters are always tense and hopeful. You judged him on a single performance, both yours and his.

    *You figured that out later:
    I realized today that we both sucked at oral sex and that if we kept trying we could get better and this could be a good friends with benefits situation.
    *Practice really does make perfect.

    without the friends part
    There should always be fondness (friendship) in a Friends With Benefits relationship. It's the glue that helps you perfect it.

    I messaged him today asking if he wanted to do it again in his car and he said not really.
    *Of course. You had already given him a failing grade. He would feel he had to measure up. Who wants that? You should have said: "I really like you. Lets get together again and try to make this better."

    If you thought a girl was hot but she is really bad at giving head... would you be willing to hook up with her again
    *Yes, but you judged him and shot him down. Rejection. You should have encouraged him. If you were starting a formal relationship or an honest Friends With Benefits, both of you could have worked at it.

    • ok finally a really good response from male POV I get what I did wrong now

    • And I'm not "judging". I'm analyzing. Stop pursuing him and look for other prospects.

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  • It doesn't matter if she gives good head or not.
    If she doesn't like to do it, she doesn't have to. If she likes doing it but isn't great at it, that's fine to. I'll try to enjoy it and be patient as she gets better, if she wants to be.
    If I wanna be with her though, I don't care if she's good at it.

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  • Sure, why the hell not? Everyone starts somewhere, you can't expect yourself (or be expected to) go down on a guy like a pornstar the first time you do it. Besides, part of what makes it fun with a repeat partner is how you can improve together.

  • Of course, it’s not such a deal breaker if a girl gave a bad BJ, I mean she can learn how anyway.

  • There are a few things to consider here.
    Hmu if you want to talk about it

    • I can't hit u up I don't have enough points to message

    • highly doubt it but is it u that I'm talking about in the post (u would know by the date n story if it was)

    • No. We never hooked up

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  • Definitely. Though it wouldn't have anything to do with how hot she was, because I'd only be doing it with someone I like enough.

  • “I probably wouldn’t want to try this again.” That sentence may have ended it right then and there which is why he said sorry and left.

    • I texted him asking if he wanted to do it in his car we did at my dads other house last time and he said not really. Do you think its because I dug his ego by saying I didn't want to. I did change my mind. Or maybe because I was horrible and was barely down there that long (didn't realize)

    • Mostly the dig but he likely stopped to think about the parity and realized you spent little time doing it versus his efforts too now. Between those two elements he is likely not to feel like this any further, so probably not to be repeated.

    • oh ok thanks he did unblock me so hopefully I can do it w again so I can redeem myself lol

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  • Yes. As long as it's not a teeth thing. Either no teeth or mostly have teeth. I got a snaggletooth once and damn if she Nick me a few times!!

    • wait why does it hurt or something

    • I think she just had 4 teeth, I don't judge, but she nicked me every time.

  • Sure, everybody deserves a second chance and theirs ways to improve.

    • Wit till marriage?😳 Oh well, at least you know, right.

    • yea well it was a bit awkward since we didn't know each other just met and hooked up in my dad's other house and I knew it was his first time hooking up with a girl he never talked to and it was my first time doing anything so that awkwardness probabaly made him realize this isn't that fun lol I don't know

    • Ok, that explains a lot.😊

  • Uh, how do you know that he thinks you're really hot?

    • he told me and before I even took my clothes off his dick went up lol and even after he was done going down on me it was up the whole time when I went down on him

    • Okay. Well he could have just been really excited about the situation. But if he told you, I guess that counts.

  • Some are inexperienced and need to be trained..

  • If you told me it was your first time, I would have given you some suggestions to try!

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