What’s better, male escorts or older men?

[Anonymous]

Guys my age are not serious for a relationship or respect women. I have also read guys in their 30s are divorced with kids, something I do not want to get involved with. I crave for intimacy and affection but don’t want my mind to be played with. That my options are to hire a male escort or start a relationship with a older man.

With male escorts, there’s no games being played or strings attached. I pay a professional how to please and satisfy me to my liking. Nothing forced or aggressive but with gentle kisses and slow pace, while making me feel valued.

Whereas a older man can spoil me cause I’m young and fresh.

I just want to feel valued and loved and it has lead me to this. Because guys in 20s, 30s are not serious for anything only heartbreak and games.

[Derekk]

If you're looking for something serious and something to make you feel desired, escorts aren't the choice for you. It's different for men because our sexuality isn't as predicated on feeling like we're desired, but I'm guessing you probably want to feel needed or wanted. An older man may be an option, but unless his interest can be kept intellectually, the relationship may just be one sided and strictly sexual on his end. I promise you that there men of all ages who do want what you want. Most guys don't ever consciously decide "Ok. I am now going to date with the intention of finding my soulmate", so it may seem like they're flighty, but love can very quickly force a guy to stay. No matter what you do, just remember that you deserve more than something pretend or one sided. Good luck :)

[Reaperbot666]

• there are many guys 30+ who have no kids and/or divorce. that are finically stable, more mature and would enjoy a relationship with a girl in the 18-30.
• their just more average looking guys with more average size equipment. but they are willing and able to pleasure her in bed none the less. if giving a chance to prove their ability to do so.
• but they get passed over by many women these days for not being top tier guys. yet they will often treat a woman so much better in the long term.

[TooDrunk4Sex]

If you don't wanna be played with, that excludes da male escort, ain't it? Cuz he can whsiper the sweetest things in your ear, make you feel like the most beautiful girl in the world, but it's all gonna be to make you pay as much as possible, ain't it?

[Mikelaughs]

Let's start with, do you feel a connection with older guys?
Hmu if you want to talk

[Snowman666]

Goodmen are out there. You are waiting for the good ones to catch you. Try catching them instead. Go someplace guys more stable are likely to be. Country club, Book store, etc.

[Valnac]

I’d say find an older guy that wants to settle down.

[Ardanot]

Is a bit sad going for Scorts. Even more being a girl. Even more so being young

[jirwin7979]

well i would say an older man cuz we have done a lot and have a lot of life exp i for one dont play games with the heart but i also got cheated on by my ex and it litteally almost killed me i am to scared to even date a younger girl my ex was 23 at the time and i was 35 ... but i am also ok with friends with benefits as i realllllly dont want to feel the kind of pain i still have again

[Smirnoff23]

If you crave affection then escorts are not the way to go... It is a job to them older guys are the way to go

[CubaPirate]

Hello Princess 🤣🤣🤣

[B2281]

Well I've never been married and no kids.

But no matter who I date, I would have to have a good connection with her.

[brownguy]

Interesting.
Money can't buy you love, or can it?
I think it's best to earn it.
Age is not an issue, as older guys have issues of a different sort -- control, insecurity, etc.
Just be the best person of your self, and love / intimacy will surely come.

[Swxaddy]

Well I am older man venturing into being a male escort for females

[Anonymous]

I am single, never married, and no kids. So there are a few of us.