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Should I just hook up If im still a virgin by 25 or is that seen as slutty and I should wait?

So soon I will be 22 years old, currently dating but we are long distance and Im not sure if him and I will be together forever. I am still a virgin I've given bjs, madeout with guys, and been touched and fingered but never had sex and have yet to. For the very reason I just didn't get to that point with anyone and I didn't feel ready. Im feeling sad tho since I feel mentally ready for sex and i know a lot about being safe but I want my virginity to also be special but I don't know what to do because I also dont wanna just give it away to anyone or seen as slutty if I just get to my breaking point in a few years. I think sex is a beautiful exicting thing and i wish it can happen for me.
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  • Sweetheart you sound very sensible and I respect you for how your conducting yourself is high morally Have you seen the the film 40 year old Virgin Maybe that can help but I'm not sure Im concerned your hormones will be running wild while Playing and the emotional feelings will be so strong Im not saying your not ready but the sex you have will make you want more and therefore you mind will tell you lets go for it but your heart will hurt Males will see you as a conquest to be the your first but once its over they not want anymore or worse just use you Maybe Blame you when they dump you So hookup is not right for you Wait for your Prince Charming Let him be your first Just be careful not to throw it away on someone who has false chemistry Come back to me let me know how you go Im here to advice you when ever you would want to 1 last thing First time is not the best as the hyem breaks which is why you bleed

    • Thank you for my MHO How you feeling now

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  • Just do it now!! Don't worry about, just get fucked.

    • @sarahp080102 lol who should she let fuck her?

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  • Just do what you want to do. Don't think of it as other people would judge you for it. If your comfortable with just hooking up do it, if your not don't. And well just try to not be a perfectionist. Don't think your 1st time will be like a movie were everything is so great and special. Because that kinda thinking will more often than not just disappoint you. But still cool if you want to hold on for someone who you feel ready for it to be with.

  • if you are patient it will happen regardless unless you try to avoid it, rushing it all right now due to frustration can have results that might not be good, its your choice just be cautious

  • Wait for your destined man. Then you will enjoy it

  • I think you should get some dick haha. any guys in mind that you would want to fuck u?

    • do u have a boyfriend?

  • You should not hook up just for a one night stand you may want to wait for that someone special. Which your first experience would be special. Unless you just want a random cock in you with no emotions just a pleasure.

  • My girlfriend gav me hers at 33. I guess you should only have it before 30 if you're planning on definitely having kids.

    • I want kids for sure even if its only one child. I hope I have it before then. I have a good 8 years left so I need something to give. I just dont wanna regret it.

  • Don't just hook up for you first time if you do you'll regret it just take your time I promise it will happen

  • It will happen. At your age, you are experiencing hormones. That’s why you are horny all the time.
    The safest thing to do is masturbate lots and lots, it’s safer than getting pregnant.

  • Just practice sexchat for a while. Im avaible.

  • Of course you should wait

  • I think you just answered your own question. Do what your heart tells you

  • If u can’t have it forever, it’s not worth dipping a toe in that sexy spring, trust me...

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