Why did he ignore me on Snapchat? should I try harder?

[Anonymous]

I am talking to this guy on an app for maybe 1-2 weeks. Looks like we both are looking for casual. I haven’t really been consistent on replying as fast because it’s causal and I’m going through a lot in life. 2-3 days before our meet date; I told him he’s funny and hot but I’m going through a lot whereas I won’t be able to make it. He was chill, sweet, and kinky about it stating he understand and we can still keep things heated on Snapchat. He jokedly added he don’t know if it’s also really going to happen (guessing because I’m busy with life) and I just teased him. But I replied 2 days after to give him my Snapchat. He took a day to add me. I took another day to accept (today) and msged him there “hello😉” He opened it and didn’t say anything. I don’t know if he’s playing texting games or got tire waiting for me with my low effort. I just didn’t feel attentive and motivated with what I’m going through as he already know though. But I still wanna see him when we are both free eventually soon since my life is getting better slowly.

[DannyUk2017]

Hahaha... funny how this sounds like (me and another woman) exactly same thing, we heated up, we end up being kinki on snapchat, but same thing she has a lot going on too. Now from my experience to what you going through... could be that the "thing" just flamed out!, stil could be that he takes in consideration the fact thag you have lots of going on in your life, and waits ti'll you kinda give him "the most of your attention", could be many things in the middle... i know how this "thing/heat of the moment" works, so you have 2 things here... either you wait, either you move on, keep on trying to push its buttons for a little while, if he still doesn't reply or lost interest..."next please", as waiting game has its limitations too! Good luck!.
P. S. i didn't end up doing anything either, lol... so i moved on...

[Asker]

Lol nice to know I’m not alone. So the girl never reply and you stop trying? Well if I don’t hear from him tomorrow... I’ll send him a sexy Snapchat pic to try to kindle that flame maybe 😂

[Asker]

So did yours flame out or you were being consistent and lost interest?

[DannyUk2017]

Consistent? Haha... you don't wanna know what we end up sending to eachother... lmaoo...🤫🙈, the sad thing is that.. lets put it that way..."she got caught" with some messages, so she said she needs to uninstall the app for about a month... right before when we supose to "meet"... i don't hope for anything, but yeah... i did flamed Out!

[Asker]

Oh it must be really sexy stuff? Lol. I didn’t even go all out. He just tease me hard and I was subtle with wanting him to yearn for it. What do you mean she got caught? I guess that’s what caused the flame out?

[DannyUk2017]

It did flame out, and trust me, the hyper moment is hard to make a comeback, but yeah, you need to "spice" him a little, see if it will peak his interest again... i mean, from my pov if flames out and suddenly "🔥" pops on my screen the surely... it will be... fire at will...😁😁

[DannyUk2017]

Pm me... don't want to spill everything here. Hehe

[Asker]

Lolz okay, change your setting to being open to people you’re not following to pm you

[DannyUk2017]

Ohh one sec

[DannyUk2017]

To me everything is open... nothing is filtered on my side

[Asker]

On setting, there is an option where you permit people to private message you. That’s what needs to be change.

[DannyUk2017]

I can't seem to find that setting, but never mind, i'll post it here... yes we were sexting and sending "all sorts of videos" back and forth, plus voice messages, teasing a lot. But she wasn't single... so that was the reason she got "caught".. 😉

[Asker]

If you’re using mobile, bottom right has a star logo that you’ll click, “setting” appears and click, “alert” appears and click, scroll down to when people send you “private message” click, and there you go lol. And oh wow all of that is so crazyyyyy!!! How did she get “caught” 🤔 did you feel bad or that’s a taboo turn on for you? I feel bad for her man.

[DannyUk2017]

Sorted the message tinghy, was actually in My Account not on my profile 😁😁, try now

[Asker]

Haha that’s funny! Now future girls can pm you without a problem 😉 I helped you Lol

[Ardanot]

Take a picture of your panties and write hello in them for the next time, you'll catch his attention for sure

[Asker]

Omg you’re brilliant!!! Lol! Has anyone ever used that on you?

[Ardanot]

I wish someone did but I was never lucky enough to receive one like that, tell later if it worked or not. For me it would no doubt

[Asker]

I don’t think girls think like that. Instead we would be wearing the lingerie😂 well I hope so, but If not... I’ll send him a real picture of me of a small tease 😂😂😂

[Ardanot]

Lucky guy that he can see it, good luck and I hope it goes smoothly

[RHK36]

I stopped at we both playing it casual. He sure is, but you aren't if you're putting or trying to put more effort in. Move on. If he likes you or gets desperate he'll message you again.

[Valnac]

Why don’t you talk on the phone instead of hoping he will answer my text.
Just tell him what you say in your post.

[Asker]

Tell him I wanna see him? Well we only have each other on social media and the dating app...

[Valnac]

You waste time waiting for answers!

[cootjuh]

Sounds like a good sexy flirt

[Asker]

The guy?

[cootjuh]

Both ways haha

[Asker]

Lol maybe. But why did he ignore me?

[cootjuh]

I don't know i would love to flirt sext nudes etc etc

[Asker]

It’s a mystery to me. I’m sure there’s a lot of women here for that here.

[cootjuh]

Yeah

[Silvius]

He is not intrested anymore. Choose another one more intrested like me

[Asker]

Lol oh my 😂😂😂 where are you from?

[Silvius]

Europe. Add me as friend

[Asker]

Oh I’m in another country :(

[Silvius]

Just snapchat fun if you agree

[Asker]

Haha how hot are you?

[Silvius]

Medium, you will see

[Asker]

Haha what if I’m not hot?😂

[Asker]

What’s your Snapchat?

[Silvius]

Not here, follow me first

[janson87]

He is a lieer... Coukd i add you for snap chat casual?

[Anonymous]

If you want to, go for it! If not then just move on

[Asker]

What should I do or say? And why do you think he ignore me?