Men, what’s something you want to tell women so they understand you better?

My biggest one is... I just want to fuck guys sometimes and that’s all..., no strings attached, not looking to get married to them, not wanting to fall in love with them, I just want the D inside me, I want to feel excited, used, happy, and full of cum... and that’s all.
.. and I feel WAY to many guys completely assume women always want so much more than that.
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  • And that's ok to just want that. Completely healthy. I wish more women were open and knew what they wanted and would just come out and say it like that. I applaud you! 👏👏

    I guess if there was something I could tell women so they understood, it would be that yes I am a man, but us men are not all the same as other men. In fact we are all different for the most part. We can't read you minds, when a woman we care about tells their having difficulties with something we automatically try to fix it. In fact most of the guys that truly love you or at least care about you will drop whatever they are doing to help you with whatever is giving you problems. That's our job, it is embedded in our character. We are providers, problem solvers, and protectors. We can offer love and support if you make that clear to us what your needs or desires are. Not by nagging or demeaning us, or reprimanding us, but by saying "something is really bugging me and if it doesn't change I can't stay in this relationship with you." Or whatever. Then explain what it is. We are cut and dry. Be loving and nurturing and supportive that is what is embedded in a womans character. We love women for that reason.
    If you just want or need sex than YAY! Just say so (like you did) and you will have what you ask for. It makes things so much easier and upfront. Over time they will know you better and know what your hunting around about.. I hope this helps. 😊

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  • women dont seem to understand us men at all, like zero understanding in the Western world, in many cultures there is a clear gender roles and division of responsibilities to society.
    but in western counties here, its all about sex and very little else, girls seem to think this is great and liberating and dont realize they just forfeited their value to society and became only objects of pleasure and not mother, lovers and partners

    • Is that what you want to tell them to understand you better?

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  • just stfu and have some fun already. we got a fresh day. sunshine and shit. lets jump off a cliff 2gether

    • Nice, jump off those cliffs

  • Men, what’s something you want to tell women so they understand you better?Men, what’s something you want to tell women so they understand you better?Men, what’s something you want to tell women so they understand you better?Men, what’s something you want to tell women so they understand you better?
  • I'm starting to wonder what you look like.

    • Why?

    • It just makes me curious as to what a girl looks like when they have a personality like this.

    • Uh, like everyone else...

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  • I feel like a lot of women would agree with you honestly.

    • That’s cool and I know most do but I’m asking what would you tell women to help then understand you better?

    • Probably that im vbrutally honest, so i won't say something i dont mean just to make you feel better nor say something kind and flattering if i didn't mean it. But i feel like thats something id probably make sure everyone knows

  • There are plenty of men that would suit that desire

    • Yeah, but there’s quite a few odd balls that don’t get it, anyway, what would you like to tell women to help them understand you better?

    • Just because I refuse you doesn't mean I'm gay. It just means I don't want you.

  • Guys assume that women always want something more because we get into a ton of shit if we think that a woman is cool with a once and done. I have made this mistake myself. It honestly feels like we can never win with women.

    To answer your question: I would want to tell women that I'm not looking to pull some underhanded and weird shit on them. Stop tip-toeing around my feelings like I'm a ticking time bomb. I've told you that I want you to communicate clearly, so please just do it.

  • I want them to know I am going to ask if they have seen All their girlfriends naked, I believe that they all have pillow fights in their panties, yes I do want to sleep with their sisters and I'm serious please make me a sandwich.

    • Have you asked them yet

    • This question was more about what you want to tell them about your self but you are into LGBT 🏳️‍🌈 stuff?

    • Oh yeah. All that blood was rushing away from my brain, lol

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  • That they have no understanding of male sexuality. At all.

    • You gotta tell us, we want to understand and also every individual seems to be different with it so we need to learn for each person

  • We can't read minds. 😎

  • Less than a year from the wall and still riding the carousel.

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