Do men not enjoying being with a more dominant woman or is it a shy spot?

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TruthBringer · Accepted Answer

No I don't. Dominance clashes with dominance. Being dominant is a more masculine trait. Masculinity attracts femininity and vice versa. As a dominant and masculine guy myself, I would easily clash with a woman who tries to act dominantly. The only masculine woman I know in my life (outside the military that is) is my girlfriend's mom. She also tried to see what she can get away with, as her husband is a more feminine type. She saw that I put her right in her place, even at her own house (respectfully ofcourse). And knowing I'm an Officer in the Air Force, she knows I'm not the type who gives away dominance and authority easily.

Apope16 · Accepted Answer

I like both. I like back and forth. I once fucked a Christian virgin. She was shy. Then she only wanted to kiss. Things got hornier. Then she let me use tongue. Then she let me take off her shirt and kiss her boobs. After an how she was on top of me grinding her wet panties against my 8 inch cock. At that point she was in charge. Then she orgasmd. So that is nice.

But i like dominant girl who tells me to lay down. Then she face fucks me to orgasm. Then goes cowgirl shaking my bed until orgasm 2.

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

Women are the dominate force in any relationship because it's the man who constantly seeks approval. It's a bit like owing a puppy, it may bar, pull on the lead and strut around like it owns the place but it knows whose really in charge. Men are the same.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

From my experience, they really enjoy being submissive in bedroom ;)

insatiable_curiosity · Answer

Neither are necessarily true. Unbeknownst to some, men are not a homogeneous group with the same interests, needs, desires, etc.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Dominant woman?
Hm... depends... i Love to know what a Woman wants and Asks for it or gives orders...
I can say its a kink for me... i met a Dominatrix once, but end up bad lol, don't wanna comment that here, but yeah!
Coming back to your query... i Like/Love the idea! I always fantasize about a woman taking the Lead... but to a certain extent anyway...😁

Petra150 · Answer

My hubby like it , bouth that I'm taller and stronger

Lochlan · Answer

I tend to go toward women who actually have personal power. It's way better to share in that both ways in the bedroom. A dominant woman makes communicating pleasure more smooth because they know what they want. I don't entertain romanticism towards females that have too much vulnerability. Small girls tend to like small guys, if the dame is actually secure with herself.

JackSmy · Answer

I guess I need to know more, what you mean. I am not opposed to women being 'dominant' or being 'on top' and I think they are EQUALS!! Her desires and fantasies are so often much more intricate, and erotic than the simple male ones! LOL!!

Berethor · Answer

Didn't matter, but submissive woman are more likely to be good woman.

abc3643 · Answer

I don't mind a strong-willed woman. My wife is one. But, I need a partner first and foremost. I don't want to but heads. As far as dominance is concerned, I don't need nor want to dominate at all. If she wants to be dominant, fine, but if I am going to vehemently disagree with her about something, then there's going to be an argument.

Why are you asking this question?

AndyOh · Answer

I like having a woman who wants to take control now and then. Sometimes, I just don't feel like being in charge.
Plus, I get to see what she wants, likes, is thinking about, etc. It is nice to hear your partners fantasies, thoughts, feelings, etc.

wankiam · Answer

im usually the dominant one but it does depend on the girl and the dynamic between us so i have had women take the lead before and it was just as good

slatyb · Answer

There is dominant and there’s domineering. I’m pretty easy-going. If someone wants to make plans that’s usually fine with me.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

I don't mind a women being dominant in some parts of a relationship. but not sure how I feel about her being dominant in all parts of a relationship. think it's best if both sides have things they are more dominant in but also things they are more submissive in.

Samoht_Sirrom1 · Answer

Men are taught they are supposed to be in charge of pretty much everything.
"Big Boys don't cry" "Look after your little (sibling gender here) "You have to get a job so that you can provide for your family" "You have to take care of your wife and kids" "You have to keep her happy in the bedroom, or she'll leave you"... So then turning around and letting go of all of that and allowing the woman to set the pace can seem very hard...

nodnol32 · Answer

My girlfriend is dominant and we're happy together.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I like dominating Women and Bossy Women too is a turn on for me

Ripper_E · Answer

She can be dominant or submissive, but I have no problem with a woman being dominant.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

I'd love to date a girl who's more dominant in the bedroom. But outside the bedroom we should be respected equals.

Not_Average · Answer

I like to dominate women who think they’re dominant.

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

I like to be whit a more dominant woman, but i never meet such a woman

ColHathi · Answer

Oh okay, you don't mean femdom stuff then? I don't have the experience to back it up, but I imagine I'd be happy that she's participating in that way. As long as she doesn't become domineering.