Why does he only say he loves my pussy?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months. I certainly don't love him yet and I do t expect him to love me because it's still so new but any time we have sex he makes it a point to say he loves my little pussy. So am I just for sex? Or is he actually catching feelings?
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  • Someone in the comments said 3 months is too soon to have sex. Definetly want to tell you that you are not being "too loose and easy" by having sex 3 months in.

    In my opinion he is just trying dirty talk. Nothing to worry about. You haven't developed those feelings, maybe he is not ready to drop the L-word either.

    However I obviously don't know your exact situation and don't know the guy. From what I have read sifar however I would assume he is just really horny and is trying dirty talk to get you turned on more.

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  • Hmm once you start having sex with a guy too soon even boyfriend they will put less effort into the relationship. So be careful 3 months is so soon

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  • he's just trying to compliment your girlishness by saying he loves your pussy, its not the big L word but he is being nice, and giving feedback.

    its not the smoothest of the most sensual thing to say but he maybe just a little inexperienced with this kind of talk and just learning, its not a big deal, but if you guys are only having sex for the sake of sex then its a mistake in my opinion to be in a dead end relationship composed solely of sex

    • Best answer so far. Too clarify he asked me to be his girlfriend and our relationship is fun but there's a lot of sex involved. I enjoy it but at the same time sometimes it feels like maybe I'm just a hole for him to get his rocks off. He says otherwise but actions don't align with the words.

    • sometimes we are so horny in a relationship, that there is less energy to do other relationship stuff , try to get close to him and arrange for you two to do stuff together, or at least talk and discuss things and life, it will give a little meaning to your relationship and you both get to know your inner selves a better

  • Seems like a pretty clear indication that he is using you for sex. You really need to listen to your gut. Because emotions can cloud or judgement and turn off the other aspects of or thought processes. Our gut or the little voice in the back of our heads is the other aspects of thought processes trying to get our attention. A lot of the time what its telling us is very important. Especially when it comes to relationships.

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  • He's being honest. Just like you don't love him yet, he probably doesn't too.

  • He "just" love your little pussy, but then you still didn't said that you love anything about him.

  • Maybe ask him if that's the only thing he likes about you.

  • I think assuming that he just wants you for your pussy, is pushing it a bit.

  • This is how a guy catches feelings honey. Women connect emotionally, men connect physically. This isn't to say guys don't have any emotions, it's just a completely different brain process.
    Be grateful. Or cut him loose and find someone you CAN or do love.

    • Maybe from your generation. Men should be grateful lmao.

    • Generation is irrelevant. You'll see. Women should be grateful as well. What's your point? That either should not appreciate the other? Be thankful? Are you one of those?

  • Not sure, you should do more tests, like, make his favourite food, learn to play videogames, go for a romantic walk than a party. If he doesn't want all of this, you can make sure that he only wants you for sex

  • Sounds more like about sex. He is not catching feelings.

  • How old is this guy?

    • He's 31 and I'm 25

    • Jesus...

  • A lot of girls are insecure how their pussys look.
    He’s telling you that to allay any doubts you might have about.
    Why are you overthinking that!
    Try turning that off and just be a girl.

  • He likes your pussy a lot. It’s a sexual thing you are over thinking it.

  • Because he is shallow and doesn't care about the whole package... package being you as a person

  • Yeah so do ı

  • He's just a big old perv.

  • He is a cad.

    • What is a cad?

    • It is the male equivalent of slut.

    • Thanks for the info

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