I've heard people refer to inanimate objects (e. g. broken printers) as c*cksuckers, so I think the term has less to do with whether or not the subject actually engages in this sexual activity, and more to do with just being a figure of speech that people use when something/someone pisses them off.
Another example would be motherf*cker. If a man is married with kids, then it's natural and expected for him to have sex with the mother of his children, yet he would still be offended to be called a motherf*cker, because it is just a figure of speech that means "bad".
really? and if you piss someone off and that person call you a "tool" does that mean is ok to call actual tools by your actual name? and obviously any man will get offended by being called a motherf*cker cause you're obviously implying that he is actually having sex with someone he is definitely not suppose to be having it with. c*cksucker in the only hand only implies that you're a person who performs oral sex which is a very common act of sex; it does not specifically implies that you perform oral on someone/something that you aren't suppose to
"and if you piss someone off and that person call you a "tool" does that mean is ok to call actual tools by your actual name" It seems you misunderstood my point. No, it wouldn't mean you should call actual tools by your actual name, precisely because calling you a "tool" doesn't mean they think you're a literal tool. That was precisely my point: if someone calls you a c*cksucker, that doesn't mean they think you're literally a c*cksucker. It just means they're mad at you and don't like you. That's why women are offended to be called that word. So thank you for illustrating my point & answering your own question in the process! :)
it seems like you misunderstood the point even further as I am going by the actual definition, not by what people love to use in general. people call random things by random terms but that doesn't mean those actual terms are automatically gonna alter their definition. and yea I can care less what they think because if for instance they call me a "pussy eater" whether they mean it or not I won't get offended because since its something I enjoy performing and get pleasure out of it then I'm actually gonna feel flattered
Even if that's the case, if the intent is to insult or it carries something else negative with it like giving her a reputation that's gonna haunt her, then that's probably gonna hurt, even if she wouldn't normally find that insulting. And normally when people calls a girl something like that, it too often carries that negative thing with it. So it makes sense to me that girls in general will see it as a bad thing being called something like that.
Aside from that there's also just the fact that they might not like being reduced to a sex object, unless it comes from someone special.
Context, timing+place and your relationship to the person is important. In most situations its offensive and sounds very degrading and vulgar.
They don’t if you have the kind of relationship where you can joke around or talk frankly about her sex life like that. I wouldn’t be offended if my boyfriend said something about me participating in a sex act with him but coming from a coworker or stranger that would be completely inappropriate and rude. It’s like how girls don’t get offended if their friend calls them “bitch” but it is offensive coming from a girl they aren’t friends with.
"It’s like how girls don’t get offended if their friend calls them “bitch” but it is offensive coming from a girl they aren’t friends with." I'll be honest you had me until you brought this one up. anyways they're actually not the same because being a "bitch" is not a natural thing and its obviously gonna be something negative either way. cocksucker or anything within that nature just implies that you perform oral which is a major act in sex and all humans have sex unless they have some sort of mental illness
The point is that the nature of the relationship makes it okay to say things that would otherwise be inappropriate, not that being a bitch is the same as having sex.
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agree but I'm pretty sure is something natural and pleasuring either way so why get mad?
I guess women don’t want to be publicly exposed like that / what’s for the bedroom is the bedroom
that's understandable, but if you think about it if a person calls you that they're not really exposing you because they're not actually revealing anything about your personal life as they're not saying who, when and where you perform this act.
The only name I hate being called is cunt.
that's understandable, because obviously a cunt is a person who does more than oral sex in with immoral and savage agendas
Because I don’t wanna be called that nor be known for doing that
Just like telling some one "Fuck You"
Sure you can fuck me (females only)
That would be ok from her lover. That shouldn’t bother her!
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