GUYS!! Does still being a virgin in your 20s matter?

I have a friend who's 22 who's still a virgin.
I'm wondering if it would matter to you if you found out a woman was still a virgin at 22. If you found out would it change your perception on her and would you still want to see her/date her. And if so why does it bother you so much?

(I understand not everyone cares, but I've heard some guys do so I'm curious to why)
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  • Being a 26 year old virgin, I can absolutely relate to the situation. Your friend is not alone. Based on my experience so far, generally it doesn't really matter to a guy, whether a girl is a virgin or non-virgin. But for some guys who are NOT into a serious relationship would avoid dating a virgin girl because in their perspective she is "clingy" and "popping her cherry would lead to an entanglement by default". So, obviously they don't really want to go through that hassle. Having said that, there are also guys who view dating and bedding a virgin girl as a "trophy" because you know she is untouched and it's kind of a proud moment to them to boost their ego, there's no guarantee that these assholes will stay because they often vanish or make an excuse to keep a distance once the job is done, so its basically using the girl to fulfill their fetish. Very rare number of guys who are truly genuine though. Its literally like searching for a diamond among all the stones. So, in my opinion, it will be best for your friend to get to know the guy well, build a strong bond and emotional connection before deciding on having sex with him.

  • I turn 22 next week and also still a virgin. Life isn't like romance movies or how you always envision it to be and i wanna experience sex more than anything but i dont wanna throw it away so I'm just remembering in my heart the time will come when it's right with the right guy.

    • Many guys aren't bothered surprisingly from what I've heard so she shouldn't feel bad, how I look at it is, im giving a special gift for someone who will love and value me. You do feel pressure as you get older trust me but you can't let age be your dictator or you will drive yourself to desperation i am trying to stop myself from that and my 23 year old friend who is also still a virgin.

    • I agree with this completely, wise words! :)

    • Thanks for most helpful opinion aww!!!😄

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It matter, but usually in a good way, it proof that she not a slut, though she might be asexual.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NatureAdoresAVirgin

  • It would not bother me at all I would think its sweet makes me happy just hearing this🥰

    • That's good to know, I'm sure she'll be happy knowing that guys aren't really bothered :)

    • I hope so is not something that she should be worrying about ano there is a lot of social pressure specially in friend circles so I hope you help her realise that there is nothing at all wrong with still being a virgin

    • I'm hoping by showing her this it will give her some hope, so far so good :)

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  • I prefer dating a woman with a lower sexual partner history. so Zero would be the best number really.

    • hookup culture, having sex with strangers and/or dozen + people is a turn off and ruins both sides ability to pair bond for the future. my only partner count is only a few people. each was a legit relationship that lasted over 2+ years.

  • This would not matter in the least. Some people are late bloomers. Some like to wait. Others just haven't found the right person.

  • I wouldn't care. The second she tells me, I'd just say cool. Move on.

  • To me it doesn't. I know that doesn't help you :p

  • It wouldn't matter for me.

  • 22 year old virgin. nice joke. she just gave blow jobs to half the boys in her school. but other than that she's a virgin yeah

  • Nope

  • Of course it matters not many guys get a virgin wow what a prize

  • Happens quite a lot

  • No I would not mind if she is still a virgin. I would respect her for that waiting for that special person. Not just a wham bam thank you mam type.

  • Yes I think it matters

    • why? if you don't mind me asking

    • Its a true reflection of someone's social skills

  • If she wanted me to be the one to take her, I’ve done that before and would have no problem!

  • Doesn't matter. Completely up to her.

  • It definitely does. Every guys prefers a virgin girl (a girl he wants to be involved with romantically and not just a girl to have fun with)

  • That'd be a good thing

  • Yes, its very impressive

  • Would love to meet and date her.
    Virginity is not a problem to me.

  • I love virgin girls

  • I am 36 and still a virgin. I would definitely date a fellow virgin.

  • doesn't really matter, anyway it's kinda hot to do a virgin