Are some guys not into anal at all?

Like, this guy I've been seeing asked me to try anal for the first time with me (he was drunk) The morning after, he said he was sorry and was glad I didn't let it happen. Why would he want to try it but then regret what he said?
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  • If he asked when he was drunk it's probably something he'd like to try but is too inhibited to ask when he's sober. If you'd be into it ask him about it. Of course it's critical to be super clean should you decided to try. Do some research.

  • Some guys are into it some aren't. Chances are he had alcohol dick and come morning was happy it didn't happen cuz it's not his thing.

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  • Ya. I knew a guy who wasn't into it at all. He is a germaphobe and said he won't be asking for it even if he and the girl has been together for so long.

    • I guess he WON'T be asking for BJs either, because the human mouth is The Dirtiest Body Part!

    • No. I can say he is really into BJs. He said the girl must have good oral hygiene

  • I've never had or been interested in anal sex, It just has never appealed to me or any girl I have been with.

  • I am not in to it at all it is something I will never do

  • I want nothing to do with anal "stuff".

  • First of all what was your answer Were you open to the idea

  • Some guys are not into it.
    I have found that **most** guys have not idea how to give pleasurable anal sex. They drop the ball when they try it so their girl hates it. Once a guy learns what and how to do it properly, he tends to love it.

  • What are your views on anal? I've done it to keep her happy because she requested it but i'm really not into it.

  • Personal i'm not in to anal, i do anal to my girlfriend only if she really want that.
    But for me is not to much pleasure.

  • Maybe he didn't want to make you feel pressured into doing some stupid fetish. Not that anal has to be bad, ofc, but you know what I mean.
    Maybe he's also feeling embarrassed? I'm sure it's not because he doesn't want to do it.

  • i just dont think he wanted to look like a horny piece of shit

  • just like EVERYTHING ELSE not everyone is into the same things. some people do like X, Y, or Z. other do not.

  • Don't know. Most guys are into anal for 2 big reasons. The first is physiological, your ass is so much tighter than your pussy so it feels divine, The 2nd is psychological and involves the thrill we get when we do something with the air of tabu around it.

  • Yes sm guys aren't into it

    • Too bad for them. YAAY for me!

    • @mishmashlady are u into it?

  • Some don't like, that's all.

    Ironically, the two times I went there, were both accidentally.
    During mud sex, I didn't know I had slid that far back on her- but she said I was in her butt.
    Recently, doing am erotic massage, I thought I was a little more forward with my finger than I really was. She must have liked it anyway, judging from her response.

    Yup, she must have liked it anyway!
    Yup, she must have liked it anyway!
  • Yeah, I am not into anal at all

  • Many, actually.

    • More for me!

    • @Guardian45 Only if you're attractive to them though.

  • Anal sex is no fun for the one being fucked.

    Don't do it.

    I tried it with ex. It was only okay for me. I came inside of her.

    She has a sore butt hole for a week.

    • And how would you know this? 🤔

    • If she had a "sore butthole", it's YOUR FAULT! You did it WRONG!

  • I dont like anal at all. But if my lover wanted to try it i would help her experience it. But normally no i really dont care for it.

  • why u ask? do u want him to fuck ur butt?

  • I am one of the few guys that have no interest in anything to do with anal. Nothing interests me about it.

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