Excellent question... and brings back flashbacks to my girlfriend from decades ago who loved cowgirl... and goodness could she ride... so for our first maybe month or so together I was cumming like a flare gun having trigger pulled after a short while... but over time, we got in a groove and, more so, communicated well... so I'd let her know and she'd slow it down and grind... then pump... repeat etc... and / or we'd mix it up where she'd just hover and I'd control the pace from underneath... then back to her etc...
So I could argue that first phase was her fault lol but it was really mine as I just let it happen in amazement without saying anything lol... I was a virgin before her... 5+ awesome years of post-virgin sex :)
Will also say in cowgirl that girl could grind like no tomorrow... many times I literally got pelvic bone bruised lol... she'd do it when cumming and be totally lost in her orgasm and after be like "did I do it again?" lol but it was so hot I didn't care :)
What. wait ,,, You mean we can blame the other person. Damn well to be honest I don't care how good I Think I might be, but let's play pretend if I lived next door to you and we get put in lock down and things just happen I would hope I would have to blame you or is something happen we could do the best of like the best 45 out of 50 times
I would say that both are to "blame" in that situation for just having bad sex and lack of communication. On his part, he should still be able to control himself in that situation because he can direct how she fucks him. If he feels that he is about to cum, he can direct her to slow down for a bit and ride him a little slowly. When the feeling goes away, he can have her continue. On her part, if she's the one on top of him going crazy like she's bull-riding with no breaks, then she's going to ruin her own experience. It's almost no different to a guy that jackhammers the pussy too fast with no break and cums too fast. Good sex is done in rhythm with mutual communication, not in extreme non-stop bursts. Think of good sex as being like music and/or dancing.
Maybe neither, or both? Shit sometimes happens, unsure why there would be "fault" assessed in the first place.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!He is responsible, but you, as the Dominate one, needs to train him on how to control his orgasm. He needs to learn that if he wants an orgasm, he must ask for permission, and he has to do it nicely and politely. If you say, "No" he is not allowed to moan, groan or complain.
Make him practice pleasuring you with his cock. As he's doing it, tell him how you want it done. Think of only yourself. If he asks for permission to cum too soon, make him stop, give him a break of only a couple of seconds and then make him resume.
Oh, I wish I lived near you so I could train you and him.
If the two are communicating, then this can be easily managed. If not, then they are both responsibile. If one person ignores the other's input, then they are responsible.
A bit of both. She should've been considerate of him, and he should practice a bit more to build stamina.
Simple
Really depends on if the guy communicated that he is about to cum.
If the guy didn't say - his fault
If the girl didn't react to him saying it - her fault
No fault. If she's really into it and looks good doing it some guys would stay hard even after they came. Let her reach her goal. Hell, if she's really doing it right, he might even cum again.
It's her fault because the guy cannot control himself if you are not in control of something then how can it be your fault I think that would be right but it would be wrong in my situation because I have monster control
This question is bull. You just wait it out and go again and it should last longer.
It's no ones fault. It just happens.
Any time I guy cums too early it is his fault
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exactly.
I agree! She needs to learn how to dominate him. Boy, would I love to be her teacher.
A submissive is always at fault for not having learned control.
We are. We’re either too good, or maybe he has a medical issue
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I don’t think anyone still blame I’m in a guy Hass to be like porn star quality to control himself like that
That's not true. As a sub, he needs to be trained on when and where he's allowed to cum! He needs to be reminded that the sex is for her benefit. Perhaps she needs to punish him for cumming too soon. For example, maybe she should tell him, "OK, just for that, you are not allowed an orgasm for the next 7 days! During that time, she needs to make him pleasure her with only his tongue or a dildo or a vibrator. With the right trainng, she'll own one hell of a sex slave and have the best sex of her life!
I can ejaculate multiple times, so the first one being too soon doesn't matter.
Both, as he should say something if the stimulation is too much and she should be able to communicate with him too.
sex is a team sport, so you can't blame the individual.
Her I'd say.
Fault?
i dont think whos to blame is the issue lol. the issue is how to go about continuing or improving the situation then or for in the future.
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