Porns not doing it for me anymore?

[JaneFryer_1998]

I usually have to be talking to someone or have something else going (like a toy) to be able to get off. Maybe thats a sign I watch porn too much?

[centerline]

i think you are correct... I feel that we become "acclimated" to our surroundings, and soon we feel normal in its presence... so in this case, the porn you are watching has been normalized in your mind and is no longer as effective as it once was... actual sex can become the same way.

a different type of porn is about the only option when by yourself... other ways of amping it up are sexting with someone or spicy, uninhibited sexual discussions with someone, or being naked in a group with other people... any of these activities can cause other fantasies to form in your mind, and allow you to get to where you want to go...

my wife and had about the same issue, and so we found that if one of us would watch our preferred type of porn, while the other was stroking, licking and trying to get us off, it was a completely new type of experience, and was HOT for both of us as we took turns helping each other get our jollys...

[Red_Arrow]

Do you include sexting with someone as a way that gets you off? That makes it more personal, even with a stranger. If that still does it for you I do not think there is a problem. When you were younger and saw your first por, even very soft porn probably excited you. Then it took more as you did not have a shock factor later with porn. Just as many couples reach for new ways of having sex to keep it exciting, even though they still like vanilla sex, our minds get used to things and look for more. I think you are sexy, physically and inside. You are enjoying it but getting used to it also.

[Alyssa11]

Take a break from masturbation and porn - however much you think is necessary. When you go back to it, imagine how thirsty your body is going to feel and how good it will feel.

[Alyssa11]

Thanks for mho :)

[Paris13]

Maybe Sick of Dick and Barbie Bimbo acts. xx

[Paris13]

Thanks to Gag. xx

[AmandaYVR]

Yep.

[Daniela1982]

That's how porn fucks you. You start off with normal stuff but you progress over time to need raunchier sex stuff to get you off, like BDSM or worse. People say porn is not bad but people used to say smoking wasn't harmful either. In my opinion a person shouldn't need porn to enjoy sex. It is just one more thing man has profaned over time and turned into a sideshow.

[knottywriter]

There is a good chance that while you may enjoy the porn, having that actual live connection to someone is becoming more of a need and what just really pushes you over the edge now. Instead of watching others you enjoy knowing what someone else would be doing to you and how they would be ensuring your pleasure directly.

[nonratracereality]

It's a matter of principle. a lot of porn is not made to look real. It's to stimulate but the more aware responsible and open minded people look at it as boring. So if it doesn't turn you it's ok I get between 30 and 60% and the rest sucks. I agree with you but there is adult entertainment that appears to be real. And those that aren't.

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

I think you're getting desensitized to porn which means you are watching too much of the same kind porn switch it up a little have someone over to watch porn with you... sext someone while watching porn while they're watching porn I know you have to shake it up a bit... sext me I've never been sext I'm a sext virgin you didn't know that did you I've never received a nude picture from anyone in my life it's about time I had sext

[ohshee]

We all grow and need to keep growing and experiencing new things I'm the same way pornos not getting it I'm now in to phone Sex ur not goingbto believe this or you well say your stupid there's no way ,, what im talking about is I have had phone Sex and the girl or girls 2 different girls we said wow oh my God ,, it was so good we all said you won't believe this but you have me x amount of orgasms and was better than any sex I've never had I say it's crazy but it's 100 % THE truth so now I'm trying to meet someone to do again and see if I can take them to that same feeling

[BarryMcKohkner]

That could definitely be a sign. Talking to someone, whether it's on the phone or over text, is usually more stimulating because it is more real than porn. Even though your still getting yourself off, your doing it with someone else rather than a video with no interaction. Hope this helps, feel free to ask me for clarification if needed.

[wankiam]

maybe or maybe you just haven't found new porn yet that interests you but i think many women prefer mental imagery than visual stimulation anyway so maybe its just a case of that. as for toy usage i think everyone gets to a point where they want something more than their hands to keep it interesting... i mean i have been a wanker all my life and love it but still bought a doll to play with too ;)

[wankiam]

or you could try watching porn a lot less so that when you do watch it then its more of a treat rather than the same old same old.

[cjgsu]

Sounds lk it

[Sevenpointfive]

you need some real life experience for your bank

[Citizenkirk]

Porn is a visual aid too sex, as well as two dimensional entertainment too rag on with friends. It can supplement sexual release, but not replace it entirely..

[Apope16]

I usually cum hard sexting on the phone. I've done it on here but there's too many guys. Over the phone you can find out easier if its a real gal

[AlexanderAnttila]

Same here. It has to be more personal for me.
(Check your dms)

[I-have-a-biscuit]

If you watch porn at all, then you watch too much porn

[chriscdi]

seems like it is, either that or you stopped exploring, for example if you aren't much into anal try watching some anal, or specific positions that you like just search up the position, a good one is the lift and carry fuck, just explore and see what you can get off too

[Browneye57]

Porn is all fake. If you watch enough of it you start to believe all that depravity.
Why don't you get a MAN?

[Makeushiver]

Since COVID, I have had a few voyeurs who watched me either- in 2 cases, a peeping Thomasina- or otherwise women who have requested videos. After a period of time of having the additional turn on of knowing that it aroused these voyeurs, I found that porn no longer had much effect on me anymore. It doesn’t have the same frisson of knowing someone is getting turned on while I do it. No idea if that helps anything but if you think a bit of exhibitionism is a turn on, try doing it when & where someone (age appropriate) might see or hear you getting yourself off. If there are women who get turned on by it, & my experience indicates there are- there are probably 5x that * of men who would. I’d love to be a volunteer.

[dutch69lover]

You're young and beautiful... go get you a guy or 2 (or girl and guy) and get your freak on

[RandomLoser]

You need to get circumcised. Female circumcision cures masturbation addiction.

Then again you're probably full of shit and just fishing for attention, caus nothing gets more male attention than a woman saying she's addicted to porn and masturbating.

[Thebeastsbeauty]

Probably cause you watched to much at one point