Am I a bisexual? Do I have feelings for this girl?

[Anonymous]

So, I'm a girl. I was so sure I was straight until I met this girl. She's an angel. She's the sweetest, the prettiest, the nicest girl I've ever met. She likes girls too. We talk/text all the time. Lately I've been feeling that I have started to have feelings for her. Never in 21 years of my life did I have feelings for a girl. So I don't know what it feels like to have feelings for a girl. But everything seems so special when I think about her or when I talk to her. I wanna hug her like a crazy person and smell her hair and play with them (hope I don't sound weird). I think about her all the time. What is it like to have feelings for a girl? Am I bisexual?

[volleyballluver1]

I would not try to label it too quickly, maybe you're bi-curious or maybe you just like her being around.

Start very slow and make sure to talk to her. Don't concentrate on where it could but concentrate on where it is.

Bi-Curious/Bisexual is not just about the sex, with woman it can be the flirty fun and simple cuddling and paying attention to feelings. If it leads to sex than go with it if you're comforatable/ready.

[Wise4myage]

You're bi curious at the moment, so consider taking a walk on the wild side and then see how you feel. :)

[Asker]

What's the wild side?

[Wise4myage]

Having sex with another girl, lol.

[Snowman666]

Try it and find out. You never want the burden of wondering. Maybe it is for you.

[RastamanJah]

Don't label yourself. Your heart doesn't have or know labels.

[Valnac]

You are bi-curious until you act.
I’ve had sex with several bi-girls.
Sometimes you feel like nut, sometimes you don’t!

[gandolph3]

Talk to her tell her what you just said, then go from there.

[Anonymous]

either bisexual or bicurious

[Anonymous]

Do you want to be naked with her and lick each other's pussies? Suck on her titties and finger her pussy? Do the scissor thing with her? That's what the whole none yards is about.

[Asker]

Shut the fuck up. Not everything is about sex.

[Opinion Owner]

You asked a question about being bisexual. Do you know what "bisexual" means? It doesn't mean that you prefer to invite women, rather than men, to your home for tea and crumpets. If you are bisexual and you invite her for a sleepover, you are not going to be awake all night playing with your mother's makeup and trying on each other's clothes. Of course being bisexual isn't ALL about sex but there is a reason why it is call biSEXual. "Bisexual" means that you want to have sex with a woman, and that means oral sex, strap-ons, tribbing, and fondling, licking, and sucking on another woman's body. You have no right to ask a question about sex and get angry when someone responds with an answer that involves sex. If you don't want to hear sexual answers, don't ask sexual questions.

[Asker]

Oh shut the fuck up already. Bisexual just means liking both the genders. Bye now you disgusting "anonymous" person.

[Ogopogo]

The specific questions were vulgar and not appropriate for somebody who is just easing in to these sorts of feelings, but the crux of it is are you experiencing cravings for physical intimacy with her? Your question was about sexuality, and central to sexuality is desiring physical contact with another person's body.