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For the bedroom, sexier to emphasize your "bigger" assets or you smaller ones?

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To clarify I'm big chested with a smaller butt. In terms of lingerie would it be sexier to find/make lingerie that emphasizes my breasts of or my butt lol
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I'm P shaped, relatively slim and a 32K (uk) with not a lot going on in terms of the ass, when it comes to dressing sexually for the bedroom is it maybe a daft idea to wear say a push up bra with a cloth knickers or something in that nature?(Being blunt Is probably the only way to get a decent answer sorry)
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  • But the one that you are intimate with, is really the one that should answer this!
    You are quite 'gifted' as you say, with your breasts, but what about your lover?
    What if he/she really likes bottoms and thighs, and those erotic curves?
    If you focus on your breasts, and the other isn't that aroused, and then you also down-play, your other assets, that they maybe prefer, it's not going to be good!
    It's always about knowing your partner, and your relationship.
    But the other should understand you, and your desires, as well! If you love your breasts stimulated, then definitely wear something comfortable, and enticing! It really is a 'gray area' and every relationship is different!

Most Helpful Guy

    • could wear something the show cases both your chest and butt. some brands of lingerie offer multiple piece sets so you can buy individual sizes.
    • however since you have a larger size chest then most. might require specialized order to fit your measurements.
    • so if you buy something more generic might depend. more about which part of your body you wish to highlight more. or even which part of your body your partner enjoys more.

    • Somewhat halfway through making a silk top but that's about it so far as making cute things. And yeah it sadly is a pain in the ass to buy things both online and finding good sizes in boutiques and that

Most Helpful Girl

  • As I seems to remember your pretty tall too, fee ls like pushup will suit perfect, I'd always been jealous of girls with big boobs. I'm just an A size cup, I hate it

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  • Depends on the size and shape of the assets as well as the taste of the partner. Can we get a bit more specific? We can go to DM if you like.

    • He enjoys them if thats anything to go by

    • Then just get all trashy and strut your stuff, girl!!

  • i think #1 is try 2 smell nice especially down there. i know some guys are like da borderline gays and can't handle da normal smell. i am used to normal smell as a vaginal odor expert. but i mean try 2 keep it in the normal parameters. i dont think what u emphasize matters so much after that. clean smell make guy focus on what he likes

    • depend on da guy ain't it. if he like doggystyle u emphasize da butt (i also think arched back is gud). if he like fondling boobs 4 20 mins u emphasize da top. dis question is hard 4 me becuz im super dom and i just do whatever i want with da girl unless she says "no"

  • Yeah you should put more emphasis on you ass and other features 😉. If you naturally have large breasts, no need to promote or highlight those more.

  • Depends on what your talking about I would do neither. I would just let it happen

  • Big assets are sexy, small ones are cute at best. :)

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BuxomIsBetter

    • As for the update, obviously you should emphasize your breasts, just like with cleavage. :)

      tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BigBreastPride

    • With a 32K a push up bra might be an overkill, but you can do it anyway. :)

    • It's a little overkill I know but it was just to make a point haha

  • My wife is built like you.
    Don't worry about emphasizing anything.
    Your breasts are already doing the talking for you - so much so, no guy will be listening to you ass.
    Just wear whatever you think makes you look nice and is comfortable...

    • Thank you

  • Perhaps a sexy bra that's not a push-up and matching knickers. I expect you won't be wearing them for long. The sexiest thing about lingerie is the person wearing them and how they behave... or misbehave.

    • Very true haha

  • Emphasize any and every asset you have and assume the guy is doing the same. It's a condensed courtship ritual

  • i like bigger but not too big

    • How'd you mean?

  • I let my assets speak for themselves. 😎

  • I dont mind either , the should always be comfortable with her body, according to me you look perfect and the guy who gets to date you or marry you must be a lucky man 🙂🙂

    • Thank you haha

  • Meaning what exactly?

    • Since I’m not a boob guy, I’d go for ur nice ass. 😎

  • I say dress to your strength emphasis your breast and those eyes

  • In the bedroom, just be yourself.
    Use lots of foreplay to get sexually aroused and soaking wet.
    Just enjoy sex, that’s the hottest thing you can show a guy.

  • Smaller definitely

  • bigger will be obvious, promote the smaller one

    • Looking like that's the plan

  • I prefer smaller ones.

  • Personally, if it is an outfit that you are going out clubbing or on a date, then emphasize where you want to attract attention.

    If strictly in the bedroom, use outfits to distract away from the big boobs.

    • Strictly bedroom and sure

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