My boyfriend doesn't want to cum inside me?

[Anonymous]

I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 years. Our sex life is pretty good, we don't use condoms, I take birth control pills and we have sex around 3 times a week. Creampies are a big turn on for me but my boyfriend refuses to finish inside me, when I confronted him he said he never ejaculated inside any woman before because he's so afraid of impregnate me or anybody else and he's not ready to be a father. I explained him I've been on birth control pills for the past 15 years and the chances of getting pregnant are really low apart from that I don't want to have kids yet either. I even suggested him to wear a condom and ejaculate inside of me with a condom on and he still doesn't want to change his mind. My boyfriend is a freak and I honestly don't understand how a 28 year old guy never ever had the curiosity to cum inside a woman's vagina instead he prefers to cum in my face every time. I mean this became so predictable that I don't feel as excited as before because I already know how he's going to finish. Facial cumshot and that's it. Anybody experiencing the same?

[sadMeester]

He has a point. You could still get pregnant. Maybe you should discuss maybe not ever having genetic kids, and him getting the snip. Then both of you could get what you want.

Side not for my own curiosity, is there anything specific about being creampied that excites you? I'm just trying to understand the appeal of that. I've been curious for a while.

[Asker]

Thanks for answering.

[bowenw]

Has he seen you taking the pill so he knows you are telling the truth? If so he shouldn't worry about it. If he's avoiding cumming inside of you for religious beliefs he should explain that to you. If he's just not willing to do it and it's a deal breaker for you it's time to move on.

[Asker]

I don't remember if he ever seen me take the pill or not but I've told him I've been taking pills for over 15 years. And no my boyfriend is not a religious person LOL he's just acting like a pussy.

[bowenw]

Try to have an open and honest discussion about this and how you feel.

[Asker]

I did so many times!!

[bowenw]

It sounds like you have done everything humanly possible to make your point to him. I would say it's time for him to pack his bags.

[Anonymous]

I’m going to go out on a limb here and guess the issue isn’t really pregnancy. Sounds like he just has a fetish for cumming on your face and gets off on that.

[Asker]

I mean it's been 6 freakin years and he doesn't to try anything else WTF.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s tough when you have a partner who is that rigid and won’t compromise. When I lived in Chicago, I dated this guy and that’s all he wanted to do was finish on my face. The few times I convinced him to leave it inside me, he acted like child who lost his favorite toy, so I stopped pushing the issue. We broke up anyway but I understand where you’re coming from. If you’ve talked to him about it and he’s not willing to change, then I’m sorry to say you’ll either have to live with it or find a partner you’re more sexually compatible with.

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing your opinion. And I am definitely finding a better partner for myself. I'm done. Not only because of this but it's been an amount of other things that simply makes me think we are not right for each other.

[Stellaluna84]

Definitely very low risk if you’re on the pill. When I was on the pill my boyfriend came inside me every time for years and we never had a single scare.

[Asker]

True!! I’ve been on birth control for 15 years! My ex before him used to cum inside me all the time. Nothing ever happened!!

[Mystery1900]

I think cumming on a woman's face is immature and disrespectful, especially if it's the man pulling out and doing it. It's different if the woman is giving me a blowjob and finishes me off with her mouth, as that's her choice. Does he ask you if you like having cum on your face? It's your choice as well.

My personal preference is to cum inside the woman's vagina without condom. So in your position I'm surprised he doesn't want to, especially after as you have been together so long.

[Asker]

I'm surprised he doesn't want to as well. Specially after six years how come he's never had the curiosity to try!!! And honestly I don't remember if he ever asked me if he could cum on my face all I know is that nowadays he never asks and that's how he finishes every time. It's so predictable and boring to me now.

[Mystery1900]

So is the whole sex boring? Do you think he just takes you for granted and finishes on your face. It does sound quite boring

[Asker]

Yes! I like sex to be spontaneous and genuine. I don't like to do always the same positions and then finish the same way every time. Isn't that boring?

[Mystery1900]

So, the sex is boring and to finish it off he ruins his own orgasm by pulling out. If a woman tells me I can cum inside nothing stops me. The woman likes it too, the deep thrust at the end and then she feels me spasm and unload inside her - it's amazing. I hope you get it.

[Asker]

OMG my ex used to do that all the time. It's so intimate and hot I really miss that feeling.

[Mystery1900]

You miss it as it is what the man should do - you deserve to get what you want from sex.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

get on him and hold him down then ride the F out of him til he cums in you.
then tell him you forgot to take birth control and giggle.
Then come on GAG and tell him you want the baby but he doesn't.
Wait for the answers telling you you're right and he's wrong.
Win situation
(Him: I've been on GAG and know, if she does this i will knock her out and throw her off the bed and still cum on her face)

[Asker]

He would push me before he cums I know that.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

develop your thighs like Onatopp and he can't 😂
www.youtube.com/watch?v=f2V8ly__8Ug&has_verified=1

[LiamSawyer]

The vagina is the best place possible to cum period!!!

[Asker]

I guess he's the only one who doesn't get it. Thanks for answering.

[LiamSawyer]

No problem. If you ever just want someone to chat to, feel free to PM me.

[FunkyMonkee]

I'll be happy to cum in you!!
Another thing you can tell him is that, with your age, your chances of getting preggers is greatly decreased!

[bubbakong2006]

That’s strange I can’t imagine not cumming in my ladies pussy and creapie pussy is so hot

[magiusX26]

sounds like he learned too much from porn really. if it was just pulling out and finishing in various places on you i would not have thought the porn aspect. its the facial only part. honestly also seems a little disrespectful him not to at least change up where on you, to never try in you since you requested, and the "degrading" part of it alwats being your face.

[Asker]

I know right! And it's so predictable it doesn't excites me anymore.

[genericname85]

if he's fucking you bareback, nutting inside doesn't make a huge difference anyway xD

[Asker]

I just find it extremely odd that in six years he never finished inside me.

[genericname85]

well he's probably paranoid. are you not in a place, where accidentally having a child would be sort of fine? i mean it has been a long time.

[Asker]

Yea but not with him lol. I don’t want him to be the father of my baby.

[genericname85]

oh. so maybe that's for the better then xD i understand the paranoia in that case.

[taveuni]

he dont wanna be a daddy maybe lol

[Asker]

And I don’t want to be a mom either that’s why I’m on birth control!

[taveuni]

oh then I don't know why he dont cum inside you.

[DreamCatchcer]

Cumming on a girls face is demeaning to her.

As a guy I have stronger orgasms if I cum in her mouth versus her vagina.

Its great when she strokes my shaft and applies pressure to my penis head as I cum in her mouth.

[COMMODOREII]

Wow thats crazy.

[Asker]

I know right.

[KrakenAttackin]

Your boyfriend is smart. He KNOWS how badly women lie about being on the pill.

[FreshOutaIdeas]

THIS.

[Asker]

I don't have any intentions to lie about taking the pill or not. In fact I missed the pilled one time and I told him immediately so we could use a condom.

[FreshOutaIdeas]

Maybe you don't have had intentions, but the fact your saying your boyfriend is a bit freaky for not spunkin inside you... Lol... If your that frustrated go talk to him rather than rant passively online. He's obviously very cautious about children, which lets be honest, is what his cum and your pussy is actually for. by the way you know the pill actually damages a lot of gals in the long run?

[Asker]

@FreshOutaIdeas of course I've tried talking to him this is just another way to find different answers and opinions. I just find it so odd that in six years it never ever happened.

[Tom_Tom_Tom]

Maybe cumming in your face is a bigger turn on for him?
This is weird though, he should be curious to try a different thing.

[Asker]

It is really strange.

[ND4SPD31]

Ahh damn yeah he has no idea what he’s missing!

[Asker]

Even he's friends had told him 'that's the best feeling ever.'

[ND4SPD31]

Omg! Yes it is!! I love going deep and just exploding deep inside her!

[ND4SPD31]

I’m surprised that he hasn’t since u said he’s a freak.

[Asker]

Me too!! I'm shocked that he's never done it.

[ND4SPD31]

Yeah because I can be a freak too & I really couldn’t tell u how many times I’ve came inside girls before with no condom.

[ND4SPD31]

I’m sorry he doesn’t see how hot it is to cum deep inside her or pull out and blast ur load all over her (and not her face).

[Asker]

My ex always used to cum inside me and I loved it. But my current boyfriend is not even interested in trying and what pisses me off the most is that if he feels that he's about to cum he pulls it out it's really annoying. And then I need to give him a bj and a handjob so he can finish on my face.

[ND4SPD31]

Have u tried riding him harder or faster to where he can’t pull out?

[Asker]

I did. Nothing happens.

[ND4SPD31]

Ha damn. Then maybe u need a different sex partner. Lol. Sorry not trying to b mean.

[Asker]

I love him so much.

[ND4SPD31]

I’m sure u do. I’m kinda in the same boat. Lol. U can message me for more information if u want. Otherwise no worries.

[momo112293]

He is smart

[Valnac]

That’s ridiculous, that’s how porn likes to finish!
If you were my girlfriend I would thrust myself deep inside you and fire my load deep inside you

[Asker]

How I wish he could do that to me.

[NYlatefun]

It sounds very responsible to me. Has he cum inside you with a condom?

[Asker]

Nope. Never.

[NYlatefun]

If you’re on the pill and he has a condom on I don’t think there’s any risk... he should do it.

[CubaPirate]

WTF is wrong with the guy. On the other hand he can't miss what he hasn't tried but curiosity should have gotten the better of him by now

[Asker]

And he's always down to recreate something that he's seen in porn. I don't understand.

[CubaPirate]

I've no idea but I know I'd creampie you given half a chance 🤣🤣🤣

[Yellovv]

Every guy dreaming about to cum inside hot pussy, but he is not doing anything, if I was him I can cum everytime..

[Asker]

It just pisses me off.

[Yellovv]

What makes you piss off?

[Abdulwahh]

Lol he crazy i will creampie you every morning

[Anonymous]

Nothing is 100% (birth control or condom) so this is even more of a way to make sure you don't get pregnant. I'd be like this also, and especially if I wasn't wearing a condom.

But, I also wonder because he "always" orgasms on your face, if that's not a fetish of his? It sounds like it. But try talking to him and let him know how much YOU would like it and enjoy it if he did (if you haven't already). You've got to talk to him about how you feel. And you can also find out how he feels and what he thinks about it. Open communication is key!