Can you become from straight to gay?

[Batkoo0]

Ok, these are some pics of me. My question is, can you become gay? I mean I was normal, straight. I was attracted to girls. I acted manly and I am manly, I was romantic, nice and caring with the few girls that I had the chance to go out, but I changed with time. Now I don't think I desire girls anymore and I am not attracted to them, however I just can't believe, accept it and admit that I might be gay now. So do you any other cases like this? From loving, caring, romantic guy who wanted to find real love with a woman, to become gay later..

[Claireluvskaren]

Wow, mixed feeling here. I think for some being "gay" is an choice. Others might be born that way. Have you been with a man in any way yet? It might be the thought that you are attracted to, and once you give a guy oral, or anal, and kiss him, you might be turned off to the thoughts , and if you find you like it , good for you, as long as you're happy. Remember nothing will prevent you from enjoying both men and women, if you are in a relationship with someone they need to know you are Bi. Only fair as you would not want to hurt them emotionally.

[Batkoo0]

Thank you for your great answer. It is complicated, yeah. I have made only one blowjob, it was a long time ago, but I liked it and thats all I did for now, but I definitely want to make blowjob again and to give my ass to a man..

[Rexos]

You're a homosexual if you're attracted to guys only. If you're not interested in men at all then you're still straight, it's normal to sometimes not really want a partner. You can't just change sexuality.
If you were truly attracted to women but now prefer men you're bisexual, always have been, you just didn't realize it until now, it's not uncommon for bisexuals have a preference for one gender for a period of time and switch to the other.
That said, there are cases where guys don't discover they're gay for a long time and assume they're attracted to women because that's the "norm", and only after some experience realize it's just not working (women) and maybe they're different.

[santi_k21]

I see a lot of guys on Grindr/Doublelist/etc that are curious about being with men, there's nothing wrong with that. Maybe you are bi, and at this particular point in time you're more attracted to men. Go try your luck with them! (by the way you're really cute, you're not gonna have problems finding guys that want to do you, and if you're as nice/romantic/caring with men, then you're probably relationship material too)

[Batkoo0]

Thank you for your answer. :)

[mistixs]

Are you attracted to men now? If not, then you're not gay. Maybe you developed Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder or something like that (which means you lost your libido).

[Batkoo0]

I think I am attracted to men now, yes.

[Account]

Unpopular opinion, but I think anything can happen. Knowing ourselves and finding out things we didn't know in regards to ourselves is a lifelong journey.

[Batkoo0]

Yes I think so too, I am just wondering if I am gay too..

[alice_laura]

maybe you are bisexual and are atrracted to guys and girls but right now you are mostly attracted to guys x

[Batkoo0]

Lets hope that you are right. :)

[Flower7]

Yes, I do feel like if people go through certain experiences, it can make them become gay. Against popular opinion, I don't believe that people are born that way.

[Batkoo0]

I too dont think that people are born that way, I dont know. Maybe I am example for it.

[Elsa143]

It happens.
When we get bored from one gender. Maybe you've seen all beautiful women so now you're curious about men.

[Batkoo0]

Well, probably it happens, yeah. But for sure I haven't seen much beautiful women at all, honestly it like the other way :D

[Warmapplecrumble]

I'm not sure really. I think it's possible with hormones from food, water and lifestyle changes.
I would definitely say you are not straight anymore.
Definitely bisexual.
Possibly gay-curious.

[Batkoo0]

Thank you for your answer. And I am heading towards become fully gay..

[iseekpinetrees]

Yes they can. Some people don't realize they're gay or bi til later in life or because something traumatic has happened and made them want to go the other way.

[Batkoo0]

Yeah, I think that happened to me..

[EmmaMary]

Surely you should have opened this up for guys to reply rather than just girls.

[Batkoo0]

Yeah, you are right. I dont know how to redact it, so I posted new question.

[Just_someone23]

Stop listening to fools. And start listening to your heart

[boggboss]

You can't if you was actully attracted to women that would make you now bi if your attracted to men

[supercutebutt]

It is now time for you to pleasure some penis.

[Batkoo0]

I want to...

[es20490446e]

You are not attracted to THOSE girls.

[BobbyC65]

Maybe Bi-Sexual.💞

[The_unknown_memer]

Not exactly, a gay would have absolutely no sexual attraction towards the opposite person if he or she really is gay

What your experiencing right now is that you are actually bisexual

[Cryptic-Game]

Yes, if you're given over to a reprobate mind.