Do guys consider a girl who's shows lots of cleavage most of the time as "red flag" ?

Do you think she's a kind of girl who sleeps around a lot?
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Sorry I should I added that in question itself. I'm not worried about "unwanted" attention. I never get it. I'm very short with VERY small boobs so even if I show it's hardly anything. I was asking in terms of dating. Will guys think that I'm a easy lay who just sleeps around? I'm not worried about attention because I don't get any.
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  • The red flag comes from her being a sadistic teese who draws you in but never puts out. Or a prostitute. If there is an 'extra' mentioned in reference too doing someone, be blunt, and insist upon clarification "are you a prostitute or not" because she's not going too volunteer that information up front. I'm not saying a woman is a whore if she shows skin, but she will only get a thrill out of doing something bold. The same oh same oh isn't bold. It's common, so that leaves sadistic tease or professional lay, er' I mean date. No, I mean lay.

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  • I don't see it as a red flag. I think it shows her femininity but doesn't mean that she is slutty.
    One of the sweetest girls I ever knew (she worked at a place where I worked and wasn't my girlfriend) was short and petite, had fairly small boobs, always wore a push up bra and nice dresses with V-necks. She wasn't showing off. She just tried to look nice. Everyone respected her and thought she was adorable. She was friendly, always smiling, and made it feel like warm sunshine whenever she walked into the room.

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  • Not necessarily. Shows a little lack of self respect.

  • Yeah a girl who shows a lot is a red flag to me. Comes off as way to giving. Some guys like that. My only thing is if you are going to do this girls dont get mad for the stares. Its biological reaction not social.

  • Nope. If you got it, flaunt it!

  • I guess, it depends. Some women do it to look sexy, while other women do it, knowing they'll get attention, but then bitch at the men who look at them, as if they think all men are gay or asexual or something. I don't mind cleavage, as long as you know we're going to look at it. I don't think it's a red flag, but I do think girls who show too much and too often are attention whores, and thus, slightly more likely to be whore-whores.

  • Not at all. Cleavage doesn't mean she sleeps around a lot, it just makes me look at her tits.

  • I like cleavage and do not think poorly of the girl. A lot of guys actually like smaller boobs (like me!) I prefer an A or B cup. Don't put yourself down enjoy you for who you are.

    Do you have a good sex life or do you think smaller boobs messes it up?

  • no but then im not the jealous type and even if she does sleep around a lot it wouldn't bother me, not that i would make that assumption just because she likes to show a bit of cleavage

    • @update you sound lovely in my opinion

    • Thank you.

  • I wouldn't think anything probably. Indifferent. Different women show various amounts daily in general so it's just "normal".

  • No I don't assume that. Cleavage shouldn't be shamed.

  • we know fake cleavage. we know real cleavage. we invented the bra

  • Not necessarily but we think she is definitely looking for attention and wants cock

  • I would have sex with her, but upgradation into longer term relationship is dependent on many other factors. I live in a conservative country, showing of much cleavage can be a source of social ridicule.

  • Absolutely not. Many women have low necklines to project femininity, not sexuality.

    Do guys consider a girl who's shows lots of cleavage most of the time as "red flag" ?
  • I would think the girl has insecurity issues. She might sleep around. I would have to know more about her before placing any bets on that one

  • Yes.

  • No. I avoid assuming too much. And if she does sleep around a lot, I have no issue with that, she should do whatever she wants.

  • I wouldn't make that assumption

  • Some girls can't help but show s lot of cleavage because of the size of her girls. Cleavage is natural, wouldn't affect my opinion of her at all.

  • There's a guy for every type of girl.
    Looking at ur pic I'd say, it's just a matter of time.

    I do consider lots of cleavage a bit of a "be careful" zone.
    It would make me wonder if the girl would continue to show cleavage for other guys after she's my girlfriend.

    I tend to overthink things. Sorry.

  • If for some reason I thought that, I wouldn't see it as a red flag. That said, I also probably wouldn't try to pursue her unless we somehow become friends anyway. I'd assume she'd be too shallow to be interested in me, which would be a red flag. Not that it matters ofc at that point. 🤔

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