My boyfriend is stressing me out?
He is extremely paranoid (to an unhealthy degree) of me getting or being pregnant. It's like he's scared to death of it. My 24 year old ex was more okay with me being pregnant than him. And obviously him being an older man he's financially stable.
It's stressing me out because one day he's okay with kids and then the next week he's not. He's constantly saying thank God you got your period. Most the time we use condoms anyways. They are just annoying remarks.
It's like a light switch that goes on and off. It's irritating me and I feel like a human yoyo. I'm younger and I feel my thought process makes more sense! Why is he being like this? Its annoying the hell out of me. Then he has unprotected sex with me and now I could be pregnant... yet he freaks and always wants a condom the next week. If I get pregnant not only will it be my fault but mostly his! Why do men ejaculate inside you but then don't want you to get pregnant. He isn't that damn stupid... so I'm confused. I'm noticing a lot of men do this even the ones in thier 30s and its annoying. Why do it if you don't want the girl to get pregnant? Another thing is that I have a very very hard time getting pregnant anyways. He knows this yet chooses instead to believe I'm lying.
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