Is 4 inch penis size turn off for a Girl?

I Turned 17 years old few months ago, i am quite skinny and i have only 4 inch long penis till Now, i have a Crush on a Nextdoor Girl but unfortunately she got to see me naked in a Weird shocking Situation, She has stopped talking to me and Dumped me ! Being too skinny and having 4 inch penis could be a reason?

I had asked one other question on My profile which is, Has My Girlfriend dumped me totally?
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  • Ok bro relax for a min i don't think it has anything to do with the size of your dick ,, it might have some thing to do with you at your age naked and being punished how were you punished she probably feels bad for you and tgats why she's not taking with you she probably hated seeing that happen to you and she doesn't want to talk to you about it give it some time when she's ready she will TALK to you again, let it go,,, the faster you do,, the faster things will get back to normal what ever the fuck that is.

    • @ohshee, If she has not dumped me bcoz of my penis size then i have still some hope, Since i have turned 17 years i was not punished naked but at that day My oldest Sister got furious and she asked her boyfriend to remove my underwear off like before and Coincidentally at the same time that neighbor girl also came in to go dance class with My 19 years old Sister, Neighbor girl got shocked to see me naked and being punished, From next day she stopped talking to me, but its been more than a Month now and still she ignoring me, What does it mean? She talks with my both older Sisters and She also talks with Boyfriend of My Sister but not with me, Why she is doing this? What was my fault?

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  • I’d say that she’s a jerk for that and should not have dismissed you like that. I don’t know the whole situation (and you don’t have to share if you’re not comfortable) but, I would honestly be glad a girl like that left because it seems like her only interest in you was just You’re just penis and that wrong. I’d say Lift weights and boost your confidence (that’s healthy in general and will have more girls all over you) have protein to boost muscle also and look up vids on your body type and how to resolve that by aging muscle weight, maybe look up vids on how you can (SAFELY) resolve the penis thing if you have a serious issue with it. Also man it’s not how big it’s how you use it. Find a girl that likes you for you and not just something that you can offer her in bed.

    • Also is it 4” soft or hard

    • @vviiccttoorr, 4" is my penis size when it is short but she seems not okay with this size, i wish she had not seen me naked.

    • Wait so how big when hard?

Most Helpful Girls

  • If your fully erect penis is only 4 inches long, then it may be a turn off for many girls. Girls typically prefer sizes that are bigger than 4 inches. Girls would typically be satisfied with anything over 5 inches. Personally, I prefer dicks that are 7-9 inches. However, considering that you're only 17, the possibility exists that you could still grow, but the chances are slim. When I was 17 and having sex in high school, other 17-year-old boys were typically bigger than 4 inches. However, considering that you're a Thai boy, your size might not be too much of an issue.

    • @tiffany_taylor_made, You like 7-9 Inch long penis... it is almost double of My size ! being a Thai boy i would not get a big penis ! But i hate to have just 4" inch, i feel very embarrased, i had not thought that my neighbor girl would get to see my penis so easily and suddenely, Girls quite quickly notice penis size of a Guy, I can hope i will grow big in next 1-2 years !

  • If you have to ask it is probably too short and you already know it. I can't see the point of all these dick size questions. Either you have it or you don't. Why do you need everyone to tell you when I'm sure you already know if you are average, above average, or below average?

    • Why Girls do this? I mean My crush probably has dumped me bcoz i have only 4" inch, I can't make it grow bigger by myself then what is her point to igoring me.

    • What an unthinking feminazi cunt.

    • be good at licking pussy Shourahi

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  • A lot of women will care, some will not. I would recommend that you get really good at other things such as hand jobs and oral. Just so that you guarantee to have something pleasurable to present to a potential partner.

    • Thanks, I will try this, but its been over a month and i feels like She has dumped me ! She still come to my home but she ignore me, usually neighbor girls don't get to see penis of neighbor boys but sadly to happend and it Ruined My friendship and relations with her.

    • Maybe she feels awkward for having seen it at all?

    • @southernsweet I don't think she has stopped talking to me because she is feeling awkard, its been more than one month, She is friend with My 19 years older Sister and goes to a dance class with her, That neighbor girl told to my Sister that she didn't know that boys can have so small penis like your brother have, So does it not mean she has dumped me because of my small penis? If Not then why she said this to My Sister ( though they both are close friends)

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  • It’s not a turn-off for me. If I like someone enough, I’ll think they’re extremely sexy, regardless of size. My sexual attraction is very tied to my emotions. So if I want someone emotionally, I want them sexually and that’s all it takes.

  • Don't believe this troll. He is always making these dumb stories up to get off to. About the only thing that is most likely true is that he has a small dick

    My canary has a bigger dick than him.
    My canary has a bigger dick than him.
    • You're nasty pal!

  • I don't know like i never seen a dick so i have no clue like i think it gets bigger when its hard, right? mby try that? I don't know tbh. i never actually thougth about it.. why does the size matter in the first place?

    • You were really nice with that comment, open minded and wiser than too many of your peer's (those who guide you). I Commend (like, prop) your statement.

    • @Sexual_Feelings 15 and never seen a dick or knows that it get's hard? Someone sounds like a supposedly innocent fake pink account.

    • @Daniela1982 ok tbh i did see a dick but we dont talk about that xd and it was not in real life so... i just dont want my parents to find out like what if they see this? but ye ik a bit about it and it isn't good, i know... sorry xd

  • Yes. Hell, I'm 2.5" longer than that, and I've often had it turn girls off. Many women honestly don't want anything less than seven. (That's "average" for them.) But girth and performance does matter more, to be honest. Just get good at oral sex, OP. That's what I did. Guys like us who have a small penis have to just find other ways to please her, and oral sex is a good way to overcome not using your penis cause it's too small for her. As another GaG'er pointed out, "Most women can pleasure themselves using their own fingers." So it must be more than just having an eight-incher to get them off.

  • It can be. Average guy is 5 inches so ur slightly less.. depending on how the girl feels

    • @iseekpinetreesv How the Girl feels? My neighbor girl got to see my penis accidentaly at my home, she said to my 19 years old sister that your brother has a small penis ( in a sarcastic tone )... what does this mean?

  • can be, depending on the girl

    • I have a neighbor girl whom i like and have a crush, one month Ago she got to see me penis when i was being punished naked, from next day she stopped talking to me, i am 17 years old thai boy and my size is 4".

    • by the way I read your other post and in my opinion if she's turned off by you, it's the punishing thing not your penis size just saying

    • @melancolie, if She turned off by seeing me getting punished then it was not my fault either, i turned 17 years old but My oldest Sister still gets my underwear removed by her boyfriend, i had complaint to Mom about her but she don't care... that neighbor girl shall understand that i am youngest in my family.

  • There is nothing wrong with being skinny. It is way better than being fat!!! Do not worry about dick size. On some guys it will keep growing till you are 19 or so. Does it work when you masturbate? If so do not worry. Maybe you just scared her when she saw you naked. Did you have a boner when it happened?

    • No i was not boner when she saw me naked.

  • If you're really that insecure of ur penis but can still manage to get a girl in bed, go buy a damn vibrator, a nice one with a gspot and clit stimulator, eat her pussy and make her cum with the toy a few times before making it about yourself. If you think you can only make a girl cum with your dick then yes 4 inches is trash and you might as well get out of the gene pool right now.

  • its a turn off if you have no forskin, it hurts when you fuck its like sand paper

  • I doubt that's the reason. And if it is, then that's really mean of her.

  • penis size can be a factor for many girls. but good foreplay skills can help to tip the scale in your favor a bit. might help to workout a bit also even if you don't get bulky muscles. just try to tone up a bit so you are more defined.

    • considering your profile says Thailand. 4 inches long penis is about average for that part of the world.

  • Well she dumped you not because of size she dumped for the other reason. And size of dick don't matter. The only thing matter is that you can make orgasm your patner

    • @arsh01 if she has nor dumped me because of my penis size then what could be the other reason? She didn't tell me anything and she just ignores me.

    • Well first of all tell me she was you crush or girlfriend.

    • She was My crush but i know she used to like me a lot.

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  • It depends on the person

  • Yup it is

    • So what is minium required size? That neighbor girl got to see my penis coincidentally and she has stopped talking to me !

    • Well it varies tbh but for me it has to be about 7 - 9

    • @elizamichale1 9"inc? Really, Girls can take in such big size ! I have only 4" Now.

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  • Man, some of these answers are depressing. Messed up views on small dicks.

  • Women don't care about dick size or dicks in general. They just tolerate dicks so they can get a relationship in return.

    In fact dicks frighten and disgust them (despite what some females will claim), why else do you think they have such a raging hysteria about rape, sexual harassment, and sexual objectification? They can't imagine having that repulsive thing anyway near them unless they get something of value in return. Rape is just free sex, and women would never ever give any man free sex.

  • If it's a 4 inch flacid penis then no, a four inch erect one? Yes. I think the average erection length is five inches.

    • You're not hopeless though, penis stretching exercises can lengthen your penis. I've been doing this for maybe a few months and I have a 7.4 inch peepee.

    • @chester_cheeto, My penis size is total 4" inch... i am 17 years old and size can grow big... but unfortunately that neighbor girl got to see my penis when i was being punished naked ( spanked) at home, i tried to hide but till then she already had seen my all private parts and from Next day she stopped talking to me without telling or discussing any thing with me.

  • What i like to suggest you is, you're just 17. So your body parts are still growing. So, i'd like to say, stop masterbading and try to eat healthy foods. And also you can take advice from specialist. Which one will be very good step.

    • I hope i will grow bigger than what i have

    • Hope so.

  • A penis size plays a certain role but many other factors such as good foreplay or appreciating your partner and show how much you care for her and some other things can make a girl fall in love with you so the size doesn't matter when she's really into you.

    • So why she has dumped me? She is a close friend with My 19 years old Sister and she said to My Sister in rather Sarcastic way that your brother has a quite small penis.

    • Is she your crush or girlfriend? Because her comment didn't seemed like she is interested in you as of now. And the thing that happened with you was pretty bad and she should have been more concerned about how bad it was for you. I feel you deserve someone better and move on.

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