Which do guys prefer on a woman?

Men (and my bi sisters), do you prefer a thick bush on a woman, trimmed, or smooth?

On an older woman, I feel a thick full bush looks sexy.

On a younger woman (teen to mid 20's), a smooth or trimmed bush looks hella sexy.

This came up coz I have been looking at "stuff" online and noticed older women, esp MILFs, look super sexy with full thick bushes. Especially in the older porn videos out there.

I was at the grocery store and 2 college guys were checking me out, until they saw I had a 3 mo old baby and a 3 yo in the cart. One said I was a sexy MILF, esp since I have big boobs coz i am nursing 24x7, but the other said I was unattractive since I have a big ass and weigh like 170#s now (pre prego, i weigh #125-130); Both have seen me many times at the store.

And the naysayer said he bets I have a thick forest downstairs and he hates getting hair in his teeth and mouth when going down on a girl! The other guy said, "yes, I forgot about that. MILFs like her don't shave or care about how they look down there for a guy! They are lucky to get fucked once a month by their old man! Bet he is a drunk and out of work!"

That's when 3 cute blondes came up, started up a convo with them, and i got 3 dirty looks for "looking at their guys".
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  • @wingattebaby16 No offense, but why wouldn't more mature women, want to be shaved clean, when they love having a younger guy, going down, and loving them, in that special way?
    Women in their 40s and 50s are SO much more fun, than young, 20-somethings, that really don't know anything about sex!!!
    The wonderful, sensual ladies, with more experience, are just MIND-BLOWING, as a younger guy! They know what they want, and how they want it, and they know a lot about giving guys amazing feelings!

    • that's why I am asking. I know a few older women in their 30's to 40's that came to my baby shower and that question came up, "does your hubby/boyfriend like you smooth or hairy?". Coz when i got prego, my bush went crazy and go fuller and spread out... so did most the mom's there. The consensus about older women shaving/smooth was, yea, if they are after hot 20's guys with nice dicks, you gotta look younger and most young girls (myself included) either trimmed or used Nair to be smooth so we could wear tiny bikinis and short shorts... wearing a lowrise pair of shorts looks nasty if hair shows... thanks for your comment.

    • @wingattebaby16 Nothing 'nasty' about natural hair, where it normally is! I LOVE those 40-50's women, but they always said they shaved clean, or just leaving a bit above the parts that they loved being orally teased and adored! I got to experience some of these mature Ladies, in college, and it was AMAZING! They taught me so much about how to love a Lady, and how to respect and treat her, as a Lady, and sometimes they just giggled, and laughed, loving the attention, in certain places! I have never been with a pregnant woman, and trying to please her, when she feels that, being pregnant. Someday, I hope I can, and know that, maybe being the father? I have had a few friends, and when they were pregnant, they trusted me to help them with a lot of things, when the D-bag, that got her pregnant just disappeared! Just friends, though, well, a bit more, but not in a sexual way! :) My feeling is that she needs to be comfortable with her body, and if she loves to shave it clean, like a little girl, that's great, and I LOVE going down there, and getting her to make silly noises!! :) :) If she just trims, that's fine too, if she is comfortable. For me, it is ALWAYS about her, and how she feels!! I will never ask her to do something that she doesn't want to, or hurts her, or makes her feel bad!

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  • what i prefer on me and my husbands wishes that i trim time to time i shaved few times and that didn't end well
    my husband wax him self at home and am scared to wax mine because of the pain. plus the bush down there keeps my pink friend to stay healthy i dont like to get yeast infection and my man do uses creams when he wax to keep his shaft healthy and yeast free. i would say that maybe when i get older i would have the guts to wax and make a special occasion to treat my man although he dont mind the hair because he is a bearded handsome man so there will be hair anyways

  • I don't know as I’m not a man lmao but if I were to give my own honest opinion about how I treat myself I’ll tell ya that I wax and I keep it clean and shaved 😁💁🏻‍♀️

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  • I'm consistently a huge fan of full Brazilian, front and back.

  • Strictly Dickly so N/A but those guys sound like immature dick heads lolol

  • For some reason if she is dark haired no matter the age I would like more of a bush and find it really hot. Otherwise I prefer smooth in every other case lol.

    What story is that at the bottom it can't be a real story, there's no way.

  • I'm 56 and Hubby (me as well) prefer me smooth

  • I'm straight so this question doesn't apply to me.

    Those guys were really rude though.

  • Well that was extremely rude of them and on ither gender I prefer neatly trimmed

  • I can’t figure how you can get into such a conversation with two guys at the store who were checking you out. Weird!
    I prefer no hair there, regardless of age. Next choice would be well trimmed. Full on Bush would be my last choice, but it would still not be a deal breaker.
    Lol. You are carrying a lot more weight than usual, but bet you are still sexy as can be!

    • I wasn't talking to them at the store... i was eavesdropping and pretending to look at groceries on the shelf... Thanks for the body and weight appreciation...

  • I've always preferred trimmed or bare more. Not a fan of the bush

  • To be honest i like it the way the girl does , but at the same time im looking at your picture and you would look so hot with a big ass bush I love them and the way they look on women I would love to see that as I haven't for a long time it always made get so hot and turns on. It just felt like you were getting ready to have hot sex with a mature women mmm that's just hot

  • I dont mind any but I prefer smooth for going down on a women though

  • I'm bi and I prefer hair on men and women. Not into the hairless look. Tbh It gives me the creeps if someone shaves 🤢

  • First, those guys super rude. But to your question, I go between trimmed (but still some hair) and shaved. I used to keep it smooth for the guys I was with, and now I just do it for me. Maybe I’ll tire of the maintenance effort at some point, but I just like how it looks and feels. It’s especially good in summer with swimsuits to avoid stray hairs peeking out.

  • Personally I was having a full Brazilian wax every six weeks until this pandemic hit us, so now for the time being I'm waxing myself, with at times help from my husband!
    So it's Win Win situation for the both of us.

    • Helping your partner getting rid of that hair is always very arousing, enjoyable.

  • I prefer slightly trimmed personally. I think hairless looks weird

  • i prefer a woman smooth
    I dont date any woman around or over my age, as past experience has shown it never works out so i am open to dating women 18 - 30, 35 at a push if we genuinly got along and if they weren't possessive or controlling...

    • funny.. that is why I only date older men.. guys my age or younger are too selfish. I am 26yo and my man is 45yo...

    • yeah i dated older than myself and they turned out just too possessive and controlling, women my age or around it, same deal.. so since then i've only dated younger and it makes a world of difference, less stress and they are very relaxed and great to be around :)

  • I'm ok with some bush but a good trim makes it look better and its easier for oral without all the hairs. I won't go into details but you ladies know what happens with all the hair as you probably experience the same if men are too bushy. I'm a fan of completely bare but again, I think at the very least, a good trim helps.

  • I like shaved no matter age. Trimmed is ok. Never want full bush personally lol. But in the end it's about the person. If I like her, it is what it is.

  • Trimmed

  • Bare or trimmed. Thats always my preference but its not a deal breaker.

  • Wow. That was really crass of those guys to be saying those things where you could hear it. I've always been fascinated and turned on by the 70s - 80s full bush look you see in classic porn. And then after that era the porn industry went the completely opposite way and led to the bare look fashion of today.

    • to me, the smooth/trimmed/shaved look is due to the Fashion Industry setting clothing trends and to sell clothes. You have to trim or be smooth to wear most bikinis and I used to wear ultra low rise shorts/jeans that the snap was 1/4" about the top of my slit. Yes, that low, so I had to Nair coz even shaving, the 5 o'clock pussy hair shadow showed...

    • That's very interesting. Those were definitely low cut shorts and jeans. Pubic hair really does grow back fast doesn't it. It's kinda like, no matter how much the person might want it gone, those hair follicles say "this is still our turf!" Lol.

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