Guys, What's your idea of a dominant female?

[AnggieGirl]

It doesn't mean just sexually, it means in general terms. What sticks out to you that tells you she is dominate? I'm very interested to hear a guys point of view.

[ChrisMaster69]

I know quite a few lifestyle Dommes, one thing they all have in common is an exactness of dress, of standards, style, neatness.

pre lockdown we went to same Munches and events, etc, it’s like a bird of prey looking at you lmao.

Work wise, organised, checklists, good planning, tidy desk, can silence a meeting.

[nodnol32]

A confident woman who isn't afraid to take responsibilities and handle situations. She knows what she wants. she's the leader. She calls the shots. she's intelligent and mentally strong.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

I only really use "dominant" and "submissive" in a sexual context. Day to day behavior, mannerisms, etc are usually more subtle and balanced.

[InferiorMale]

If she walks over my opinions no matter did they make more sense. If she ignores my suggestions in decision making. If she does things without asking and without planning them together.

[Raskad]

She... takes charge?

Probably extroverted and leads conversations. Just.. dominant, I'm not quite sure what I'm meant to be saying here, the word itself kind of gives all the meaning.

[Iron_Man]

She’s a shot caller and a control freak and she’s wild in bed
And slaps you around a little bit

[NorthwestRider]

Takes charge
Makes $$$
Wild and freaking in the bedroom
The leader

[s2firestar]

I have only met 3 dominant women in my life. All the rest were bossy. Big difference. I think most women do not have the ability to look beyond getting their way (bossy) and to actually lead objectively (dominant).

[bumblebritches5]

Fantastic point, the last girl I was talking to was very stubborn and bossy, lied constantly, she acted like she thought acting that way would make her the dominant one. but it really doesn't, leading requires honesty, selflessness, intelligence, compassion, everything she lacked. in reality, she's actually just a disgruntled submissive who feels betrayed, used, and hurt.

[bumblebritches5]

Why are you assuming men want a dominant female?

I'm not going to be dominated, period.

I may occasionally suck the tiddie and lips, but I'm not going to be lead by any woman.

[AnggieGirl]

Wasn't assuming anything. It's a question.

[IHateBeingaMan]

well i've always hated how guys have to make the first move or do the asking out

[JamieLoves]

Dominant in the bedroom and Dominate everyday are 2 different behaviors.

In the bedroom it’s a choice that’s chosen between one another...
Yes.. some in bdsm or s/m like to live 24/ 7 with their S. O. Being a lifetime Dom.

A Chick that has a dominant, bossy , pushy annoying personality, is not chosen. They’re just irritating! Male or female..

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

She just sort of takes over.. master of ceremonies type person. Leader, instead of a man